My ex boyfriend and I broke up about 2 months ago. The last time I called him was in the middle of April.. I have spoken to him a few times since then, but he's the one that keeps calling me.. I dont call him, and yet hes the one that broke it off. What do you think that means? Is he just being a friendly considerate guy, or could it be something more?
2007-05-15 19:24:14 · 16 answers · asked by Claudia M 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is still calling you he probably misses the sex and cannot get any or any as good as you. If you enjoy it then let him keep coming around (you might be sharing) or get rid of him entirely. Sleeping with his brother or even his father would be a quick way to rid of him also.
2007-05-15 19:29:29 · answer #1 · answered by sirdouglas527 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in this situation myself. If he broke off the relationship then i would say he either wants benefits or he just isn't ready to let go of you completely. Either way you should set him straight, tell him that he broke up with you and that you don't understand why he keeps calling. If you don't try and get a break from him you may end up hanging on to something that really and truly isn't there. for your own sake take some time to yourself away from him and allow yourself to associate with new people
2007-05-16 02:31:50 · answer #2 · answered by Imogen228 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendly or considerate has nothing to do with it dear! The guy wants you back.. He is now just waiting for the
PT-PP (Perfect Time Perfect Place) to tell you that he was a jackass, and that he wants you back.. BUT, he cant just tell you that straight up, coz he wants to find out if you have someone new in your life first; coz to a guy, there is nothing worse than trying to get a girl back, then finding out that she's already moved on..
So there you go.. You are now 10 steps ahead of him..
2007-05-16 03:31:45 · answer #3 · answered by Milton 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he calls several times it could be he wants to be a friend. It's normal.
But it could be he still cares about you. If he calls a lot it should be a sign showing he's looking for a way to get back with you. Maybe he's regretting.
Even if the phone calls are just some simple talk, it still shows that he's desperate.
2007-05-16 02:30:14 · answer #4 · answered by Duy N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one else is available and he knows you still have feelings for him or at least he's trying to figure that out. Don't give him the time of the day. He's an ex for a reason. Plus he dropped you like you weren't important to him. Let him be. He's not worth your time.
2007-05-16 02:47:42 · answer #5 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how the breakup went. Also it could be that he wants to have his cake and eat it too, you know, friends with benefits...Maybe he does want you back but doesnt know how to come out and tell you but then again, this may be a case of, he just hasnt gotten over you fully yet
2007-05-16 02:27:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is being unfair. He broke it off, meaning he did not want you in his life, so why does he still call you? If he regrets and wants you back, let him say so rather than confuse you by calling and not saying exactly what he wants. Ask him to stop calling coz you want to move on and let him live with his mistake
2007-05-16 02:35:32 · answer #7 · answered by Heaven's Child 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is not because he's friendly, he is in a way missing you, but at the same time he keeps on the idea that breaking up was the rigth thing.
2007-05-16 02:53:58 · answer #8 · answered by John 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st hw do u think of him after the past 2 mths alone? If u can completely refresh urself w/o such person. means u have won the battle. Ignore such person, cos' he did once & there's a sure for twice.......etc. Happy Living! Cheers!
2007-05-16 02:28:13 · answer #9 · answered by kudos Qi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhh find out y he broke up w/ u
if it doesn't make sense y he broke up w/ u then he's trying to get bak
but if its a sensible reason then he's trying to be ur frend
2007-05-16 02:27:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋