Singles & Dating - 5 April 2007

When a man wants to have sex with a woman he has known for a couple years, lets say he wants to have sex with her really bad. Could it be mainly because he finds her so beautiful? or could he have feelings for her and that is why he wants to be so close to her? or both? Also, when a man does not suceed in getting the sex from the woman he wants it from, but he knows she wants to give it to him(but for certain circumstances)she cannot give it up at this time, would that drive a man wild for her? Would he always have a desire for the woman he wants but cant have?

2007-04-05 07:47:35 · 16 answers · asked by kerri r 1

my boyfriend broke up with me like a week and a half ago. the day after he sent me a wallpost saying that i was the best thing that ever happened 2 him n that he doesnt want it to be wierd between us n that he wants 2 still be able 2 talk 2 me. butnow wenever i see him he doesnt even look at me. like im not there or somethin. whats that about? i dont think hes doing it to be mean because thats just not somethin hed do. so y is he doing it?!?

2007-04-05 07:45:34 · 8 answers · asked by TonzOfLove4U 2

2007-04-05 07:42:56 · 17 answers · asked by choices 1

A guy and I dated for about a month. We have a great time when we go out bar hopping or something. But, it was mutual, kinda unspoken - that we didn't want to date - just be friends. So, how do I, or do I - ask him if he wants to go out one night for some drinks? Like I said - we always have a great time. But, I don't want him to think that I'm trying to revive this dead-ended relationship. My true intentions are just to have fun as friends. He doesn't date anyone and neither do I.

2007-04-05 07:39:31 · 9 answers · asked by jennifer74781 4

2007-04-05 07:26:27 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

He lives in texas, i live in costa rica and we are in our best moment but we also have 5 months without seen each other and im still in love with him!!, do you think its good for me to continue with this relation???

2007-04-05 07:23:50 · 1 answers · asked by dhc 1

I went out with this guy on a date. (The same guy I had talked about before) We had an amazing time and then ended up sleeping together. he called the next day from work saying if he could call me back. that was last thursday. He actually went about 4 days I think without calling. I was shopping yesterday(tuesday, april 5th) and walked right past the store this guy works at. since i regularly shop there i just decided to try calling him and seeing if i could talk to him about the situtation face to face. i didnt want things to be akward and just wanted to casually date so i wanted to tell him that. he answered was friendly as normal, told me he just started his lunch break(20 minutes) and that he wanted to talk to me if i did. we met up and i told him how i felt (it was too long to call, if he was interested just out of respect to tell me now because i didnt want things to be akward in the store etc) he looked very suprised and said he thought he called me the day after. i told him he

2007-04-05 07:13:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay me and my ex gf was together for 3 years and we had a nasty breakup but recently she gave me her new phone and i didnt ask for it and she still always calling to tell me all these things that going on in her life, like the other day she called me and told me she had got her drivers license and then she called me on my birthday three times to tell me happy birthday. And the other night she called me when her son got sick and she just let me know what had happened to him and her son still calls me daddy even though im not his real father. Why do she still let me in on all these things when she was the one that broke up with me.

2007-04-05 07:11:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-05 07:11:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've known this girl since she was 14 years old. She is now 21 years old. We have sort of been on and off since high school. She went to a different school but we always managed to keep in touch and occasionally hook up. As the years went by she got immense in a couple of relationships and we sort of lost touch for about a year and half. We started to rekindle our friendship/random hookup relationship 5 months ago. We started going to our weekly late night movie and I would try some moves on her. But never admitted I liked her. We began to get very close almost best friend status. She would tell me that she could never date me (blah blah) and tell me about ex boyfriends however I always knew she liked me. She always had a crush on me. However, on my birthday (Last Wednesday) we went to a bar with a couple of friends and she started to flirt with my best friend and she began to speak out the problems she has about me to him (stay at home all the time blah blah) Me and my friend both believed she was flirting with him because she wanted to get me jealous (which didn’t work) If I could briefly explain my personality and some stats for analysis, I’m a very nice and respectful person who always smiles and loves life. I’m not one to harm anyone. I'm a great person to her and she knows it. I'm everything she is looking for in a man. She is a very smart and intelligent who I believed has been hurt too many times in life. Her mother is divorced which I believe she (the girl) may have psychological issues. Her mother absolutely adores me and loves me and always tells her to give me a shot. However, that night when we were drunk, I went to her house. Let's just say things got heated and she admitted for the first time in awhile she really liked me and that she puts up a front around me. It was one of the greatest nights of my life (no sex occurred) but otherwise I enjoyed myself and I began to think this could be the one. This is when it begins to go downhill.

Thursday- I leave her house in good standing around 1 and then I see her again around 5 to give her a cd she wanted.

Friday- I ask her if she would want to come to San Francisco with me this August (as friends). I then proceed to ask her if she wanted to watch a movie tonight and she said she’d be by a friend till 11. She ends up calling me at 1: 30!!! Not mad...Just not like her to do that.

Saturday-Absolutely no contact.

Sunday- texted me around 5: 30, I played an April’s fools joke on her saying I was somewhere with another girl. She spit back to me that she didn’t care!!!

Monday- talked to her for 3 minutes on the phone. She said she would call me back after she took a nap. Never Did.

Now it is Wednesday night and I'm still waiting for her phone call!!!! What could have possibly happen from last Wednesday till now!!!!

My analysis: I believe deep in side of her she really likes me. However, I’m different then her past boyfriends because I’m not going to bow to her always. I believe in a relationship that should be 50/50…. not 75-25. I absolutely positively love this girl. I love everything about her and even how she walks. I just don’t understand how she can ruin a perfectly normal friendship and maybe future boyfriend in the process!!! What should I have done that could have changed this. I really believe she had psychological issues and she can’t be with me because I’m not scumbag!!! I’m a good person.

2007-04-05 07:07:13 · 2 answers · asked by italyazzurre44 2

i feel very weak. She started dating another guy soon after we broke up (2days). I love her so much that she is all i know for 3 years. Now everything i do is new. Hanging out with friends feels wierd, playing sports is not the same. Its been a month now and i havent seen her or talked to her. and the funny thing is that she lives right next to me. The fact is that i am trying to move on but everyday it gets worse. I am trying to forget her but this is the most difficult thing. i have had so many injuries in my life but nothing compares to the pain i feel in my heart for this girl. I love this girl folks! i love her. should i... i dunno. what do you think is best for me at this point. contact her or let her be. ladies? any suggestions?

2007-04-05 07:01:19 · 15 answers · asked by Lord_poseidon 1

Do you think it is a really sweet gesture,

I know that was a famous pic of Beckham kissing posh spice on the forehead

Thanks

2007-04-05 07:00:12 · 28 answers · asked by Rebz 5

Earlier this week I was telling me best friend about a conversation I had with a male friend of mind. He asked how I was doing and what was wrong so I explained my events for that day. Instead of reply he just talked about what he should wear the next day. I got frustrated because I was explaining for about five minutes. Then there was a long pause. I was explaining to my best friend that we lack communication in our friendship and she said that males have exceptions on what kind of problems they want to hear eventhough they asked. Is that true? How can you be my friend if I can't talk to you about my situations no matter what it is?

2007-04-05 06:54:59 · 4 answers · asked by Lady T 1

Know a woman she is very attractive and very flirtatious. Have slept with her a number of occassions (as well as with her other very attractive roommate sometimes at the same time.) Now she is saying things like wanting to date and be exclusive (I know that sounds veyr high schoolish). Should there be a pursuit or just go about normal business and not date formally?

2007-04-05 06:44:32 · 1 answers · asked by bookworm019 3

Well i know this sounds weird but my boyfriend likes when i am jealous..the thing is i am not too of a jealous person but he is def....like its bad...but i love him very much..however he likes to tell me if a girl says hi to him or if some girl dont like him blah blah...well this girl at college was walking with him and she said boy your gf must hate me...then he told me that she said that...im thinking ok obviously she must think that i have a reason to hate her right?,,,but i let it slide...so my bf has this class with her and he texts me and was supersweet in his texts(keep in mind we had fight last night)..but then i g et this one text that says....i need to tell u something asap..i was like umm what?..and he goes mary ( the girls name) told me she has a crush on me...so how should i react...bc i am jealous..i know nothing to worry about but idk..

2007-04-05 06:41:19 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, he is moving away in 2 months and we are going to stay together and enjoy our time together until then for sure. But, there is a possibility that he will be able to move back in 6 months by becoming emancipated... should we stay together until we both find out for sure if he is going to become emancipated and then break up if it turns out he is going to stay there? i readlly dont know what to do about this plkease help me!!

2007-04-05 06:41:00 · 1 answers · asked by shannon b 1

Well the thing is, my cousin introudced me to this lad and i really like him, we see eachother alot around college and he told me over MSN that he liked me so i told him i felt the same way. (i know alot about him & he knows alot about me) Anyway were meeting eachother in July because he has a free house & we have said that we are going to have sex, the thing is im a virgin and he isnt but i felt dead embarassed by saying i was a virgin so i told him im not. i really want to do this but i am getting embarassed incase i get it wrong, what can i do? I'm 17 by the way and i like him alot so i want to do this. I don't want to tell him that i have lied to him about being a virgin or else he will think he can't trust me. I'm really looking forward to my first time but scared incase i screw it up.

2007-04-05 06:36:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I once had a first date that ended with a romantic walk on the beach. As i said look at that beautiful sun set, she looked up just in time to get bird crap right between the eyes.
Needless to say, there was no second date.
So tell me your story.

2007-04-05 06:22:07 · 7 answers · asked by Jim Justice 4

2007-04-05 06:21:27 · 44 answers · asked by Trikki 2

2007-04-05 06:12:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am never failing him though but a little amazed, does anyone exist to trust anyone blindly even if they like one another so much?
P.S I like him as well but I had bad experience and can't easily trust anyone easily.

2007-04-05 06:07:43 · 18 answers · asked by Sara007 5

Me n ma bf have been together 10months and lately i feel like im only 18 and im already settled down for life. I love ma bf to bits but feel like im missing out on life. I know cheating isnt the right option but ive done it 3 times, just coz i feel like im missing out. Im scared im never gunna have that new relationship feeling, or kiss any1 else, or date anyone else or even sleep with any1 else. And i know this aint a bad thing coz hes great but im gunna think forever that ive missed out on life. Do i stay with this lad n fell ive missed out on life. Or do i leave him and risk the chance of never havin any1 like this again. My head feels like this *&!*"&£(*$)$(£"("(. Lolz x

2007-04-05 06:04:07 · 14 answers · asked by Claireluvsyaxx 2

2007-04-05 05:51:46 · 8 answers · asked by G?ld?n ang?l 5

I am dating this guy who happens to be a doctor. Now the problem is i now live a rather average lifestyle and i dont care about material items in the least, i am usually the kind of person to give whatever money i have to someone else if they need help. Now this doctor wants to be with me in a long term sense but i dont know if i can adapt to his more luxurious life, i would feel kind of dumb if he gives me things and wants to take me shopping or whatever. I just need some advice on how to deal with this weird feeling of guilt in a way and to know if it is natural for me to have a hard time with this.

2007-04-05 05:50:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I went out with the girls and this happens. There was a group of guys my friends knew and we were all on the dnce floor together. I didn't want to be the odd man out, so I danced. The guy I was dancing with started to show interest in me and I told him I had a boyfriend. He didn't care but I still held my ground. Later that night I was supposed to stay overnight at my girlfriends, so after the club we all were driving to her house, including the group of guys. She was in another vehicle and by the time we got to her house and waited we realized she wasn't coming and had gone home with someone else.My keys and everything were in her apt. so we had to break in. After we broke in my other girlfriend left me alone in my friends apt. with this guy. I was drunk so I couldn't drive home. I tried to keep it real, but he grabbed me and kissed me... and I kissed back. I am so sickened with myself. I love my boyfriend so much and I don't know why I didn't stop. I don't know what to do now

2007-04-05 05:46:23 · 22 answers · asked by smilesbecomesunshine 1

Has anyone ever felt like just dropping everything and taking off somewhere? I work at a boring job and I want to go to teachers college in Aulstralia, but that would mean leaving my entire life behind for the unknown.... should I do it?

2007-04-05 05:31:36 · 11 answers · asked by Kaydens 1

2007-04-05 05:30:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Now she has told all my friends that she is my girlfriend eventhough I never said that. She asked me during sex and
I didn't want to say the wrong thing. How can I take back what
I said without making her angry?? I still want to get the sex.

2007-04-05 05:27:32 · 52 answers · asked by John 1

do explain

2007-04-05 05:26:07 · 31 answers · asked by Pawel 2

I will go if i get more yes's.

2007-04-05 05:15:41 · 8 answers · asked by rbrennum 3