okay me and my ex gf was together for 3 years and we had a nasty breakup but recently she gave me her new phone and i didnt ask for it and she still always calling to tell me all these things that going on in her life, like the other day she called me and told me she had got her drivers license and then she called me on my birthday three times to tell me happy birthday. And the other night she called me when her son got sick and she just let me know what had happened to him and her son still calls me daddy even though im not his real father. Why do she still let me in on all these things when she was the one that broke up with me.
2007-04-05 07:11:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm....good question. Either she's feeling guilty or something. I would come out and ask her. If you guys aren't together, she shouldn't be calling at all. I wouldn't be confrontational about it, just ask "I'm suprised to still hear from you since we aren't together anymore" this will politely put the ball back in her court. She broke it off with you; let her figure things out. Meanwhile, still move on with your life =)
2007-04-05 07:15:59 · answer #1 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she regrets breaking up with you. Some times the time apart makes you appreciate the person. If you are no interested or are still hurt due to the breakup, then you should talk to her and let her know how you feel. just because she changed her mind, doesn't mean that you did. So just talk to her and tell her how you feel.
2007-04-05 14:17:57 · answer #2 · answered by ♥SuNnYvaLe GirL♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she's trying to fill that void in her life that was empty once she broke up with you. she obviously realized how lonely her life was after the breakup, and is trying to use you to make her feel less lonely. if you're okay with this, then thats good. but if not, i would suggest asking her what exactly it is she wants from you.
2007-04-05 14:17:31 · answer #3 · answered by blackstar13us 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since u have been together for 3 years she might not want to break your friendship with u. when u were together those might of been really specal to her that problemly y she's still telling u what goes on in her life.
2007-04-05 14:21:02 · answer #4 · answered by molly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think because she feels comfortable with you and just wants to be your friend. But if your not over this girl is not right that she's doing that cause it might lead u to think that she wants you back. you need to tell her to back off, your probably better off w/o her.
2007-04-05 14:31:10 · answer #5 · answered by Jo,jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because she wants you to hurt.. i would change my number.. or something.. u need to sit down n talk with her.. tell her if she dont want to be with u to leave u alone.. if she wants to be friends then yall are gonna have to agree on something.. but maybe ur not ready to be friends yet. thats just something ur gonna have to work on.. best of luck
2007-04-05 14:16:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's secretly trying to help you with your grammar and punctuation. You obviously need it.
Ain't it great to have your very own stalker!?
2007-04-05 14:18:11 · answer #7 · answered by michaelks63 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can do and deserve someone who won't treat you with such disrespect. she is to be truly honest withyou; just holding on loosely for fear that she truly might be alone one day. and you'll have someone who truly loves you.
2007-04-07 01:49:47 · answer #8 · answered by justicejamie888 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes nuts!
2007-04-05 14:13:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE WANTS U back!!!!
2007-04-05 14:14:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋