my boyfriend broke up with me like a week and a half ago. the day after he sent me a wallpost saying that i was the best thing that ever happened 2 him n that he doesnt want it to be wierd between us n that he wants 2 still be able 2 talk 2 me. butnow wenever i see him he doesnt even look at me. like im not there or somethin. whats that about? i dont think hes doing it to be mean because thats just not somethin hed do. so y is he doing it?!?
2007-04-05 07:45:34 · 8 answers · asked by TonzOfLove4U 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To get over you and not fall in love with you again i guess. Thats normal when two ppl have broken up. Maybe there are some strange feelings going on inside. Give it time. He'll come around eventually.
2007-04-05 07:49:01 · answer #1 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because that wallpost was something he did for himself - sort of to justify the breakup and relieve himself of the guilt. It seems like he doesn't want anything at all to do with you but left you that message so that he doesn't seem like the bad guy or the enemy.
I think you need to just let it go - although he wants peace between you both, that's what it seems like all he wants - peace. His way of breaking it off without having you as his enemy.
I would not push it - let him be. Pushing it will only make things worse between you both.
2007-04-05 14:51:07 · answer #2 · answered by Delita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really hate to admit this but when a man ignores you in public or otherwise it stands to reason that he wants no part of you or he's playing a psychological game. In any event he sounds as if he's moved on which often happens when they have had sex with the female. Actions are more clear than words. I wouldn't allow him back as he's clearly made his choice and, if you're not careful you may get caught up in the chase him game. Healthy relationships are always mutual and, you deserve love from a man who loves and, respects you.
2007-04-05 14:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by Keith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was trying to be nice at first. But that whole, "let's be friends" thing almost never works. It's awkward.
Leave him alone. Take some time for yourself. Move on. You'll be happier if you let go.
2007-04-05 14:50:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys do all sorts of crap to impress and pamper girls..don't wana be mean but he had interest in you he got you with all this lil things...he's attention probably diverted to some other person..OR there is someone trying to change him him this way..if it really is bugging you..then go speak to him init
2007-04-05 14:51:14 · answer #5 · answered by kul_sweet_babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same situation i am in. but diff. i broke up with my b/f bout 1 month.and we still talk to each other and hes exactly like you said ur ex is. my ex said it was cuz he still had some fellings towards me. and even though wants to be my friend is hard cuz we had a relationship going on.maybe thats wuts going on with your ex. ask him wats going on it helps alot.
2007-04-05 14:52:16 · answer #6 · answered by star 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He didn't say why he wanted to break up that's so messed up. I can't begin to tell u why he's acting like this only he knows why, so I would ask him why is he acting like he can't stand me. Only he can answer your question and if he still acts up like that forget about him and move on.
2007-04-05 14:52:10 · answer #7 · answered by sweet p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit wearing t-shirts with his image on it!!
2007-04-05 14:51:59 · answer #8 · answered by Lori F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋