Now she has told all my friends that she is my girlfriend eventhough I never said that. She asked me during sex and
I didn't want to say the wrong thing. How can I take back what
I said without making her angry?? I still want to get the sex.
2007-04-05 05:27:32 · 52 answers · asked by John 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
SAY THIS BABY I WAS THINKIN AN I REALLY ARE ABOUT U BUT I DONT FEEL READY ALOT OF THINGS HAVE BEEN TROUBLING ME LATELY AN THATS BEEN MESSING UP MY FRIENDSHIPS AND RELATIONSHIPS AN I WOULD PREFER IF WE DIDNT COMPLICATE THINGS RIGHT NOW CAUSE I DONT WANT 2 LOSE U IN MY LIFE OR SAY I AM NOT READY 4 A RELATIONSHIP RIGHT NOW ITS NOT THAT I DONT CARD ABOUT U I AM JUST NOT READY BUT I DONT WANT THINGS 2 CHANGE OR TELL HER THE TRUTH JUST NOT THAT HARSH OR SHE MAY NOT GIVE U SEX ANYMORE
2007-04-05 05:37:18 · answer #1 · answered by Dymepiece 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know women, do you? Well, there is no easy answer to this. You will not be able to keep having sex with her once you tell her you lied to her. You have done a hateful and hurtful thing that no girl deserves. No girl would ever forgive what you have done. Either you will continue to lie to her to get what you want, or you will tell her the truth and stop getting what you want. There is no middle ground after what you've done to that poor girl. I hope you are aware of the emotional damage you will have caused and the fact that it will stay with her for the rest of her life you ******* coward.
2007-04-05 05:39:11 · answer #2 · answered by ♫Rojas♫ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a real man and tell her the truth. Nothing wrong with just a sexual relationship as long as both understand that is what it is. Sounds like you are a very selfish person who only thinks of what you want. I know I won't get the best answer but I think it is what everyone else is thinking.
2007-04-05 05:34:29 · answer #3 · answered by Jodi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You told a girl that you loved her
Know she thinks she is your girlfriend
Since you never said she was your girlfriend, she should not think so
Are you a idiot
Of course she thinks you are her boyfriend
You told her you love her. Why would she not think you are dating
Congratulations, you are dating the girl
You can continue dating her
You can break up with her
I would wait a month, so she does not think you broke up with because she slept with you
At this point, do not hurt the girl. Date her, then breakup
If you are having sex, I hope you are using a condom and spermicide.
2007-04-05 05:45:49 · answer #4 · answered by Halo Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man you trapped yourself just for p*ssy...Do you have any feelings for her at all ??. Maybe you can find another chick and have sex with her in front of this girl..she'll get the hint and go away.
Or you can be a man and tell her straight out and say I only told you I loved you for sex.. be a man tell her before it's too late and you're stuck with her.
2007-04-05 05:34:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess would be telling her the truth and if she’s smart then she will understand that you’re just a jerk. And in the future be honest. Trust me, it will work better and she’ll give you the sex with no strings attached. Never tell a girl you love her just to get sex. The drama coming with it aint worth it.
2007-04-05 05:34:20 · answer #6 · answered by *!* Kase *!* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold her hand, look into her eyes...and tell her why you like her, describe anything you think is beautiful on her. Then when she is all starry eyed...the brake it to her "you are amazing , but when we were having sex the other day, and I said I love you...it was just something I said in the moment....I am not their yet, but I do want you...only as a Friends with benefits."
If she believes that...YOUR IN.
2007-04-05 05:34:33 · answer #7 · answered by psy_co_path 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never should have said it in the first place. Now you have to reap what you sow. You have no idea what toying with a girl's emotions like that does. I've been hurt so many times by jerks just like you. It's boys like you who have completely killed chivary. One day someone will come along who you will actually care about and have deep feelings for and she'll rip your heart out, don't you worry. Then you'll get to see how it feels. You figure it out yourself.
2007-04-05 05:33:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You didn't want to say the wrong thing? Aahh, you did say the wrong thing. A lie is ALWAYS the wrong thing.
You can't take it back without making her angry. She WILL be angry....duh.
If you don't want her as your girlfriend go get sex somewhere else.
2007-04-05 05:32:15 · answer #9 · answered by ~~∞§arah T∞©~~ 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You are a selfish person who does not deserve this woman. The only thing she is guilty of is falling for you. But you are guilty of leading her on when she finds out the truth, this woman will be seriously heartbroken. so do the right thing and just break it off with her
2007-04-05 05:31:36 · answer #10 · answered by Charlotte.♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋