When a man wants to have sex with a woman he has known for a couple years, lets say he wants to have sex with her really bad. Could it be mainly because he finds her so beautiful? or could he have feelings for her and that is why he wants to be so close to her? or both? Also, when a man does not suceed in getting the sex from the woman he wants it from, but he knows she wants to give it to him(but for certain circumstances)she cannot give it up at this time, would that drive a man wild for her? Would he always have a desire for the woman he wants but cant have?
2007-04-05 07:47:35 · 16 answers · asked by kerri r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
...Kerri darling???...us men always want what we can't have darling. Right now that's seemingly YOU honey! This has been the way it's been going on for centuries babe. Surely we don't know your guy friend hun...but if he's breathing and has a pulse really?...let's all assume he's horny babe. He may find you beautiful...and let's all hope he does...but it could also be because he's got a raging bursting hard-on for ya too babe. What else really? I'm certain he respects you dear...but don't even think that he'll be doing that forever really. Eventually someone else might come along and give in and give it up to him possibly. If that's the case darling...then don't worry about him much more reasonably then you already do. That's just life stuff babe...and happens to the best of us darling. Be faithful to yourself first hun....and everybody else cums later...if you know what I mean! Good luck to you...and your decision. Stand strong with your chin pointed a little bit upwards. It'll keep your character rich hun...just like you!
2007-04-05 08:01:29 · answer #1 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are wanting to know what a man thinks, but asking the question like a woman thinks. He doesn't need to find her beautiful or have strong feelings for her to have sex with her. It could be that he just wants to get into her pants to say he did her and nothing more.
No that doesn't drive a guy crazy, he is fine with that and will wait. Fact is many men are usually waiting like that for more than one women, and can do it for years. It's just something they do and it's no big deal.
2007-04-05 14:53:44 · answer #2 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depend on the competition.
If another woman who is just as good-looking as the first one comes along. And she is willing to have sex. Then most guys would leave the first lady and go for the second one.
But if there is no such competition, then perhaps the guy would wait for a long time despite the lack of sex and uncertainty about the future of their relationship.
2007-04-05 14:58:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely, he'll probably have that desire for a while for the woman. If the man knows her for some years then he most likely has feelings for her, and is physically attracted to her.
2007-04-05 14:52:26 · answer #4 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the first set of questions, he may have found you attractive from the beginning.
For the other part, he won't that desire for that woman for long. He will normally go find something else that will fulfill his needs. If men can't find sex one place, they will definitely find it from somewhere else if they aren't attached to that woman.
2007-04-05 14:52:31 · answer #5 · answered by Super Haitian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well besuty has something to do with it. he could have feelings for her yes. and drivieng a man wild by withholding sex is backwards. and no not always.
remember at a certain point parts are parts, and emotion has little or nothing to do with the getting to sex. afterward is different but before is little if any.
2007-04-05 14:52:24 · answer #6 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, it's a physical need....for men it's like hunger that absolutely has to be fed - women can go ages without sex no problems, but it's different for men - it has a little to do with physical attraction, but when desperate (as when you're well starved), you'll go for anything - c'est la vie...If you hold back from your man, don't blame him of he looks for alternative sources for his needs
2007-04-05 14:55:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not a man but i say no woman would like a man who likes her for her beauty
2007-04-05 15:00:42 · answer #8 · answered by Maral 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depend on the man
honesty, when i was younger it will drive me to go after her more
but now at this age when i know there are others out there that will give it to me
i will just go after the others to have sex with
and if the other one comes around then i will have sex with her
2007-04-05 14:50:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are into sex not relationships. If they are having a relationship, you can expect they are also having sex elsewhere concurrently or trying hard to get it from whatever source they can.
2007-04-05 15:00:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋