Singles & Dating - 27 March 2007

well my boyfriend left me for the stupidiest reason. Me and him were together for 1year and 3 months. We have been through alot together,but we haven't spent any time together and i was tired of it,so i sent him a pix of me,then he ask me who was that on the pix i told him it was my cousin even though it was me.see thtas how you konw that he hasn't seen me in a while. But after i finaaly told him that it was me,he brike with me saying that it was a mistake for us to be together. that hurt me bad to my heart. so he lieft me b/c he said i was ugly and that he cant bring me around his family b/c they will talk about. thats when i knew that he did not love me like he said so i just left it along. What should i do?

2007-03-27 03:29:57 · 20 answers · asked by Babygurl89 1

2007-03-27 03:29:55 · 9 answers · asked by fredeline need's help 1

Let me start off by saying that I am very honest, sometimes too honest with her. When we got together 5 years ago, I let her know that I have commitment issues. She said that we'll just have to work on it. About 1 year into it, I knew she loved me. I did not feel the same. After about 3 and a half years I left her to pursue another women. The whole time thinking about her. I begged for her back and we got back together. I realized that I was so miserable without her, I did love her. So I told her.

Now during our whole relationship, she has pressured me to move in together. I was never ready for that. About 8 months ago I tell her I am. We make a plan to do it, and now she thinks it’s a better idea to move out on her own for a year since she has never lived alone. It took me 5 years, but as soon as I’m ready, now she’s not? Should I be upset that she waited until I was ready to back out? What is she really thinking? Please help.

2007-03-27 03:29:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I told my girlfriend she was fat and she went off the deep end on me. (actually I called her "lard @ss" ). It was like I cheated on her with her sister....she totally freaked out. Whys so sensitive...geesh!

2007-03-27 03:29:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

well my boyfriend left me for the stupidiest reason. Me and him were together for 1year and 3 months. We have been through alot together,but we haven't spent any time together and i was tired of it,so i sent him a pix of me,then he ask me who was that on the pix i told him it was my cousin even though it was me.see thtas how you konw that he hasn't seen me in a while. But after i finaaly told him that it was me,he brike with me saying that it was a mistake for us to be together. that hurt me bad to my heart. so he lieft me b/c he said i was ugly and that he cant bring me around his family b/c they will talk about. thats when i knew that he did not love me like he said so i just left it along. What should i do?

2007-03-27 03:29:29 · 28 answers · asked by Babygurl89 1

I don't know how to let a guy pursue me. Someone I like, but I don't know how to let him make the moves. I'm used to being aggressive and overwhelming. But that always chases guys away. A guy I'm attracted to, I run into him now & then, we smile, make small talk, he asks how my wkend was, where I'm from, my instincts tell me he's attracted to me. But he's not hounding me or coming around much. Maybe it's because we work at the same firm? I'm trying to be cool & I'm doing good but I wonder are guys shy? Do they move slow when it comes to a girl they like? Shouldn't he be trying to get my telephone number and talk to me more?

(this was posted before but i think i did something wrong)

2007-03-27 03:29:22 · 5 answers · asked by RuffDiamond 1

I have a female friend we have been tight for ages we talk and text mostly everyday she knows that i fancy someone but does not know its her i am worried about telling her as if she knocks me back i may lose her friendship

2007-03-27 03:27:33 · 13 answers · asked by jay_geezs 1

i am sure definitely not if you are in a long term relationship, but say you slept together on the second or third date?do you still respect her?or do you just see her as another notch under your belt?

2007-03-27 03:25:33 · 13 answers · asked by abstract 3

2007-03-27 03:24:22 · 7 answers · asked by Adam G 1

he dumped me two months ago from a two year relationship on saturday he said we couldnt hang because it would be awkward but we are mates, then on saturday i kissed a lad who i like an when my ex found out he sat on his own in college an looked really down, he has been telling me he is totally over me an doesnt want to go back out what do you think? do you think he will ask me back out ? i also had a dream that my ex gave me a letter asking me back out

2007-03-27 03:24:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

please help there is cute guy i like but i dont know if he likes me like he is really shy.. like whenever i say hi to him he presses my hand real hard like hard and then he gets red and like people who see us talk say that it seems like both of us just doff off everytime we see each other like just a moment for us.... i dont know what to do!!! please help... how do guys act toward the girl they like...remember that he is shy!!!! ohh and also if you think he does like me who should make the first move???

2007-03-27 03:23:36 · 6 answers · asked by Whyislovesocomplicated! 1

ok so me and this girl just met about a week or so ago, and on the first day we were talking for about 4-5 hours on aim. i kinda know this girl, she goes to my church and she used to go to my school. she also gave me her number the first time we talked and she was saying how she would be there for me n all that. she has a myspace so i went to check and there was this section where she was like i want this kind of guy, i want that kind of guy and at the bottom she said she already found him, i know its not me cuz we've only been talking for about a week. i really like her, shes really cute,she has great personality, and a cute voice. she always said that she would call me but i never got a call from her. i texted her once and then she called me n' she said that she would call me back but she didnt. i like her and i dont know if she likes me, what should i do?

2007-03-27 03:23:24 · 2 answers · asked by Adrian 2

I really like this guy and we had been talking of a long time. All of a sudden we had stopped talking. Two months later we started talking again and well yeah it's nice. He says he doesn't want a girlfriend right now and that's cool i guess. We hang out and he calls me everyday and the other day we kissed ever since then we have been talking more and we kiss when we see eachother. What do you think our relationship is are we talking to get together or are we just friends?

2007-03-27 03:22:03 · 15 answers · asked by shortyrosas2007 2

when i go chruch this girl stares at me alot and she wisper to her friend then i was cute and i think she call me cute like 2 times more befor and when her girlfirend take pics of everyone in the chruch and i tihnk she saw me in one of the pic i dont know busaec i was siting far and she say hes cute cute and her girlfirend say thens why u stare at him then the girl looks at me then the pic was then girl talking about me?

2007-03-27 03:21:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

this is something that happen to me a few times, like the other day i was at a mall with my uncle and i saw these two girls, and i stopped to ask them a question, but they didnt know what my question was going to be so they start acting like they in a hurry because they thought i was gonna try to holla them or something, but then i ask them where is "Target located at this mall ?" then guess what !!!, they started to calm down not hurrying no more and took their time to explain to me where the Target store is and how to get to it.
The point is, why did they change their mood as soon as they realize i didnt stop them to holla them but just to ask a direction. and i can even bet that after i ask them the direction, they would've opened up for me to talk to them about holla at them. " a LOT of girls do them SAME EXACT thing to diffrent guys why ?????

2007-03-27 03:20:53 · 10 answers · asked by stickdriver 2

2007-03-27 03:20:10 · 29 answers · asked by Kali S 1

and the number is a guy friend, well now my boyfriend is acting psyco calling this person over and over and over again until he answers, i told my friend not to answer the phone and there would not be drama, he does not answer the phonw, which makes my boyfriend even more madd, he keeps harrassing me at work what can i do he keeps harrassing both of us.

2007-03-27 03:19:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-27 03:18:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I wanna tell my girlfriend I love her, but I don't know when the right moment is. How did you guys / girls do it?

2007-03-27 03:18:18 · 10 answers · asked by bitchlips411 3

Ive been with my boyfriend for a year now, and I feel like he is trying to control me, I left him once, because he was always mean to me, he begged me back and said he would change, well, he did for about two weeks. Everyone I know hates him and thinks i can do better, but i really do love him, but he really needs to grow up even though hes 7 years older than me. We argue alot, and when we do its really bad, but when we are good, we are great. I dont know what to do...im lost i sometimes think id be better off without him, but then again i dont know what i would do without him, and id loose everything...a place to live, a car, and a phone. i dont want to stay with my mom, and i dont really talk to any of my friends anymore, because of our relationship....im so confused!!!

2007-03-27 03:17:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-27 03:14:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok well do u go talk to a girl if shes pretty or if shes nice. what makes u want to come talk to a girl? do you expect them to talk to you? cuz i like this guy and i hardly know him and im not so great at talking to guys that i like and i wish hed save me the trouble and come talk to me but sometimes i wonder is he even knows im there or if im invisible to him like everyone else. i wish i knew wat he was thinking.

2007-03-27 03:12:00 · 16 answers · asked by Ashley 1

I'm so devastated right now. I just got off the phone from my b/friend of 8 mths and he has told me he is leaving me for another girl.(We were in the same class at school).
Should I fight for him or let him go?
How do I deal with this?
He was such a nice guy too, I feel as though I am never going to find
Mr Right!!
Will I ever get over him?
My heart is heavy with grief right now. I can't stop crying.

2007-03-27 03:11:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

About a week a ago, my girl friend started to have bad things happen to her. Her car broke down and her mother started having heart problems. During that time, she needed time to get through this and told me not to call her but she'll call me. Well, since then she's called a few times and I have been blocked out. I haven't even seen her since then. I gave her space, but it bothers me not to see her. But today I talked to her mother because my gf was asleep from a night of 3rd shift. She said my gf got her a new car but, her mom said that she has a tumor.
I know this is a big deal, but when a girl is going through a problem like this, with her mother finding out she has a tumor, will the girl push alot of people away during this time? Why is she pushing me away? Is this normal? How can I be supportive during this time? What can I do for her mother?

2007-03-27 03:10:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay my bestfiend is in LOVE with my other bestfriend and she likes him soooo much but he doesnt like her anymore he likes someone new so what should i say to her she dont get the point!!!!!

2007-03-27 03:06:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am good friends with my ex's sister and today is her birthday. She asked me a little bit ago if I could come over and stay the night and hang out with her since its her birthday. I love her to much to tell her no so i said i would. One problem, my ex lives there too. Should i text him and tell him im staying the night tonight or should i just show up like i usually do?

2007-03-27 03:06:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm leaning towards imaginary but anything is possible.

2007-03-27 03:06:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I messed around with this guy I used to have a crush on yesterday and he left me the biggest hickey on the front of my neck. I noticed what he was doing and made him stop but it was too late the damage was done. He's not a child he's like 30 years old. Why did he do this? Should I ask him? We aren't dating or anything.

2007-03-27 03:05:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

when a girl has a low income job that isn't an important one but she works hard at it and you really like her...is it a big deal to you that she isn't in a special line of work? does it keep you from asking her out? I have a good job but it doesn't give me many hrs at all so i might just get a little job as a cashier to make extra $ but my brother says it will wreck my reputation...and i will be made fun of...true?

2007-03-27 03:04:47 · 9 answers · asked by forget_me_not 3

why do guys mess with girls heads i am in a relationship and he is all ways acting like he doesnt like me so what should i do??

2007-03-27 03:03:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous