Singles & Dating - 27 March 2007

I am 24yrs old and I am from California. I recently moved out to Kansas because I met my boyfriend online. I have been living out here with him since April 2006. I know I love him and care about him but I recently met someone who has me all confused about all my feelings. I have a feeling that my boyfriend will soon pop the question and I am not sure if he is the one I want to marry or not. Plus he is 8yrs older than me. The other guy I met is my age and he makes me laugh and I love hanging out with him. I dont know what to do. I feel like I really need to take time and be on my own for a bit so I can figure things out Is that a bad idea? That would mean moving out of my boyfriends house and living on my own I just need to think about things alone and I am not sure how to tell my boyfriend this. I just dont know how to go about all that without hurting anyone's feelings. I am not a cheater or a player in anyway. I am just confused about things and a little advice would help so much.

2007-03-27 03:02:45 · 26 answers · asked by pixie_gurl 1

i broke up with my now 5-year bf a year ago, i told him i needed space because he was too protective of me and we needed time to discover ourselves and what we really wanted in life since we started with our relationship too early [15]. after a month, i had news that he was dating, before that he tried to win me back but i din't agree to get back together because i was too busy with school and a guy in school who was sort of courting me then made me somewhat forget my ex. after a month again, i had news that my ex already found a girl he liked after all of the flings he had also with other girls. came my internship, i was less busy then and the guy who was courting me kind of lie lowed on me, he went on vacation and i was back on being alone, but i had friends of course and my some boys were also interested with me during my internship. despite that, it was the time that i realized that i missed him, and wanted him back into my life. since we still had comm'n, what i did was asked him but after 4months, things weren't getting better again, i was the one who decided we should take different paths again. i got busy with my graduation and finding a new job and after a month again, i had news she got back with the same girl again. i got really hurt because i felt like i was not loved, we had good times and i dint expect he would get back together with that same girl he was with in school. i tried to move on and it was really hard for me, i cried everyday and everytime he went online with yahoo, i talk to him, most of the time he ignored me, so what i thought was he already moved on.. after 3months or so i realized that i was also already moving on, i dint start dating yet but was halfway thru the process of moving on. 2months passed, we met on a friend's wedding, we were ok then but after a week when he went online again, i chatted with him as usual and he did not ignore me. the thing was, he told me he wanted us to be back together, he wanted me to give him a chance to prove again how much he was sorry for all that has happened to us. he told me he broke up with his gf because he wanted me back [i did not know if i should believe this]. being too kind and considerate of the years of friendship and because of the strong bond of our relationship, i agreed, gave him a chance but told him i wasn't ready to commit. still he tried to win me back but i did not see his consistency. we had our good times then despite all but after 4months,

2007-03-27 03:02:26 · 6 answers · asked by C 2

I know what I do in that situation...but girls in here...choose to stay under the covers a few more minutes or hit the cold shower to get it off your mind...you tell me.

2007-03-27 03:02:11 · 6 answers · asked by mywild k 1

Are there any couples out there who could engage someone who you haven't yet have sex before?
My bf and I became a couple last month. We have dated 2 years ago, and seprated in few months (without sex) and since than he was a great friend, but now we're back again.
He never stopped loving me, from head to toes. I don't share the same passion, but I respect him and feel very safe around him.
We had never slept before, but I want to ask if he's interested in having a familly, or settling down with me.
Not that I'm a virgin, but I want to have it after engagement...is this ok? Could this be normal in a world now?
I'm 28, He's 37. I had 10 bfs before, no problem with idea of sex, but just want to know...

2007-03-27 03:00:56 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

there is a boy and i really like him... but the only thing that is stopping us is his girlfriend he nevers get to talk to her unless they are at school and they never go out cause of her dad. this girls is all most adult and her father still is acting like that. now i know if i had a boy i wouldnt want nobody taking him from me what should i do

2007-03-27 02:58:13 · 15 answers · asked by MODel-08 1

2007-03-27 02:57:22 · 11 answers · asked by ggg d 1

I asked cuz a few women in reality not on here said they would do that to me and was wondering how does one do that?Thanks a lot for any opinions and also I did not let them do it to me since intercourse/sex is the last thing on James's mind

2007-03-27 02:55:54 · 13 answers · asked by spiritualism0 3

My sister wants to marry her boyfriend but my mommy do not agree with it all simply because He doesn't treat her right, cheats her, never doesn't anything for her business wise, and just uses her, most of all shows no respect for her parents so because of that My mother is refusing to support her decision and come to the wedding.

2007-03-27 02:55:19 · 11 answers · asked by Mrs.Tricey 2

2007-03-27 02:53:21 · 5 answers · asked by $tevex 1

Hey,
For my boyfriend's birthday I need some good quotes or a poem.. We are in a long distance relationship and I need something sweet to message him. What should I say maybe a poem or something please help...

2007-03-27 02:51:48 · 8 answers · asked by asian baby 1

2007-03-27 02:51:35 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

WHEN I SEE HIM I MELT INSIDE

2007-03-27 02:51:18 · 12 answers · asked by bigred031691 1

2007-03-27 02:50:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

During the time I met her, she was in a week emotional state. She got out of a 2 year relationship and having problems of all sort. Being the "nice" guy that I am I was there for her; we ended up falling for each other. Out of nowhere, she decided she wanted to be friends because she was not ready for relationship. I respected it and so we became friends.

However, I just found out accidently (3 months later) that the reason she broke up with me was because she left me for her close high school friend. During the time I started getting closer, she tried giving him a chance and he ****** her over for 3 weeks playing mind games and forcing her for sex and be each other's first. She also told me that she realized that him and her could only be friends and nothing more than that…

I aint tryng to competer with him or anything but I dont get why she pick him over me. He gives her problems while i treat her right. Is there any logic behind this? Cause it seems like relationships defy logic.

2007-03-27 02:50:18 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

When ready for action....

2007-03-27 02:49:32 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

shasha likes this boy still but they broke up and she is going out with some guy named bo so kaykay thought it was ok to go out with becauz she loves him alot and i think since shasha must be jelouse or something and got her friend emy to set kaykay up when they went camping now scot broke up with kaykay and now she is so devistated you would not believe i am afraid that she might hurt her self really bad shes so depressed and they want me to chose and i said kaci and that she needed a friend right now becuz all her friends but me are
making it worse and they chose shasha and i am the only friend kaykay has what do u think i should do

2007-03-27 02:48:23 · 3 answers · asked by heather a 1

2007-03-27 02:45:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Nothing has changed with his appearance but I'm finding myself wanting to be less intimate. I love him to death and want nothing more than to be with him. We've been together for a year now and there are no other problems with our relationship. I've been in a few long term relationships and I know that things settle down after awhile but that happened months ago. I'm just curious to know if there's something I can do and why this might be happening.

2007-03-27 02:43:42 · 12 answers · asked by Bonzilla!! 3

but she wants to go,says love isnt reason enough to stay.this is the 6th time.what do i do? weve been together for three years,5 if you count friends.if tired/emotionally worn out,what to do?

2007-03-27 02:43:32 · 8 answers · asked by 9k 3

I have seperated from my ex. We are now best friends. He dumped me cause he said he didnt want commiment anymore. What does this mean??? we still sleep together. He said he needs to do some things before we MAYBE get back together. Please dont just go walk away!!! I would like some advice on why he has done this and when he may want me back??????

Also we were together for 4 and half yrs.. Im 21

2007-03-27 02:42:52 · 15 answers · asked by shoegalkb007 1

2007-03-27 02:42:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do I ask for someones phone number in a cute way or sexy way. Any suggestions or phrases.

2007-03-27 02:42:30 · 6 answers · asked by camicat 2

2007-03-27 02:41:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok heres the deal im wit my babys daddy we ben together almost 2 yrs. love him 2 death! but, we have our ups & downs. i have this major crush on his old co-worker & talk & see him often! but he has a gf as well we tell each other we love eachother & he means alot 2 me & he says i mean the world to him. but he will not leave his gf. so i do not know wat 2 do. should i stay wit the one i love? and leave this other one alone?cuz i never think he is goin to leave her to b wit me. even though he acts like he wants to b wit me and tells me he seriously loves me? is he just pullin my leg?IM SO CONFUSED!
plz plz plz comments help me !

2007-03-27 02:40:43 · 11 answers · asked by ~*Wonderin*~ 2

Been on 3 dates with him, we have only made out and not once has he tried to sleep with me which shows he might respect me. We are both 20. I am not used to guys like him and by the way I am a virgin. He calls when he says he will and hes really sweet. Is it possible I actually found a good guy?

2007-03-27 02:40:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

HELLO.
how can you tell a guy that thinks that he is a great kisser THAT HE SUCKS AT IT without hurting his ego?????

2007-03-27 02:39:28 · 7 answers · asked by juvenilja13 3

I know getting a mail order bride is pathetic and I am aware that men who have mail order brides treat them like dirt, but what about those whose lovelife is hopeless. I am a 33 year old virgin who has never been on a date or had a girlfriend. Every woman in America refuses to date me.

I deserve to have a wife because I would be the perfect husband. I would make breakfast in bed every day, I would give foot rubs every evening, I would cook for her, and take her out shopping and buy her whatever she wants. I would put her on a higher pedastal than anyone else's wife. What more can a girl ask for?

So my question is this: Why am I judged unfairly for getting a mail order bride when my lovelife is hopeless? I live in Los Angeles, where dating is very competitive. What other options do I have?

NO RUDE comments please. I deserve sympathy for the pain and suffering I am going through. I am a sensitive person. I might commit suicide if I get too may rude comments.

2007-03-27 02:39:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Yesterday, a woman gave me her phone number and when I called to ask her for a date, she told me to take a hike.

Ouch !!

2007-03-27 02:38:52 · 3 answers · asked by Phillip 4

2007-03-27 02:37:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

For the older than 21 crowd...
If you are dating someone...when do you go from dating to being bf/gf? (has been exclusive since day 1)

2007-03-27 02:37:11 · 6 answers · asked by WantSomethingGood 2