Why did she leave me for someone who gives her problems? Is there a psychological explanation?

Question

During the time I met her, she was in a week emotional state. She got out of a 2 year relationship and having problems of all sort. Being the "nice" guy that I am I was there for her; we ended up falling for each other. Out of nowhere, she decided she wanted to be friends because she was not ready for relationship. I respected it and so we became friends.

However, I just found out accidently (3 months later) that the reason she broke up with me was because she left me for her close high school friend. During the time I started getting closer, she tried giving him a chance and he ****** her over for 3 weeks playing mind games and forcing her for sex and be each other's first. She also told me that she realized that him and her could only be friends and nothing more than that…

I aint tryng to competer with him or anything but I dont get why she pick him over me. He gives her problems while i treat her right. Is there any logic behind this? Cause it seems like relationships defy logic.

Answer 1

This kind of drama only takes place in the movies or TV.She is something else or you blew it big time when the ball was in your yard.No other explanation might be logical to see a solution regarding this conflict of two different personalities.The best way is leave her alone.She does not want you period. Look for another girl.Sometimes you must let it go.