ok heres the deal im wit my babys daddy we ben together almost 2 yrs. love him 2 death! but, we have our ups & downs. i have this major crush on his old co-worker & talk & see him often! but he has a gf as well we tell each other we love eachother & he means alot 2 me & he says i mean the world to him. but he will not leave his gf. so i do not know wat 2 do. should i stay wit the one i love? and leave this other one alone?cuz i never think he is goin to leave her to b wit me. even though he acts like he wants to b wit me and tells me he seriously loves me? is he just pullin my leg?IM SO CONFUSED!
plz plz plz comments help me !
2007-03-27 02:40:43 · 11 answers · asked by ~*Wonderin*~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep the one you have. The grass is not always greener on the other side and if her will live her for you he will live you for some one other then you.Keep the one you have and tell the other man that you love your man and that he need to stop asking you to be with him. He only wont you to play with you and then after that he will steal have his girl friend and you wont have any one.
2007-03-27 02:47:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever hear the phrase that a "bird in the hand is better than two in the bush"? You know that you have one that you love. Why try to go after the one that you don't have, which will definitely leave you without the one that you currently have, in an attempt to get the other? Is the other one THAT much better? Is he a millionaire that is going to shower you with love and gifts for the rest of your life? Is he going to do the things that your current bf doesn't? Why take the chance. Stay with the one you have, and if it works out fine, and if not, then you'll have a free conscience to go after the other. By that time, he will probably have gotten rid of his current gf anyway.
2007-03-27 02:47:15 · answer #2 · answered by auditor4u2007 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's takin' you for a ride! Get out now before the GF finds out!!! Everyone has ups and downs in their relationship. Keep researching the troubles you are having (using the Internet and this site for advice) to see if you should stay with your baby's daddy. Good luck!
2007-03-27 02:45:39 · answer #3 · answered by searching_please 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being with someone who is involved with someone else is wrong!
My mom always said "If he leaves her for you, he will leave you for someone else". So, that is the one bit of advice I still remember from my mother and adhere to.
I don't give anyone the time of day if they are involved with someone else. I wouldn't want to find out my bf was seeing someone else behind my back so I am not going to do it to someone else.
Stay with your baby's daddy ONLY if you truly love him and want to spend the rest of your life with him. Staying together for the sake of the kids isn't always a good thing. Stay together for the right reasons.
What you need to do is quit worrying about your love life and devote your time to your baby as your baby will grow up too fast and you will wonder where the time went. You will have plenty of time to think about you and a relationship and if I were you, I'd stay out of a relationship before I got pregnant again. Being a single parent isn't easy but it is a lot easier with one baby.
2007-03-27 02:52:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
EDIT - you know what - I missed the 'baby's daddy' part. Forget what I said. Stay with the father for the child's sake and quit being so selfish.
2007-03-27 02:44:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
perhaps they get somewhat moist down there? yet i notably doubt theyre having an orgasim till ur no longer kissing there lips or ur palms are interior the NAUGHTY zone. yet yea i imagine if ur kissing them on the Lips they're pulling ur Leg!~
2016-10-17 21:33:15 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're sad.. you might have ups and downs and sh!t but if you say you love'ya baby daddy to death then stay with'em.
cuz if you get o boi to leave his gf what makes you think anotha ***** won't get him to leave you?
2007-03-27 02:45:01 · answer #7 · answered by M!sta Carter 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
some men will manipulate you any way they can.Sounds like a dangerous move.Work on being responsible mother and partner,try to better yourself in more constructive ways.
2007-03-27 02:50:29 · answer #8 · answered by cookies_lips 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just trying to get sum from you... just let that go, you might lose your boyfriend for something that is not even worth it
2007-03-27 02:45:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you SHOULD stay with the kids dad.. if you dont your wrrronng.
2007-03-27 02:44:21 · answer #10 · answered by Amber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋