Singles & Dating - 18 March 2007

have started to attend church groups since last month. I have had small talks with a 25 yo ladee I met at one group. I've talked to her a few times - there were times where I had to cut off the conversation because it was getting late.

she asked for my email and number last week which I politely gave her. she was going to send me more information on the group which she did. why does she need my number for that?

Today I went to one of their activities day. She was there all dressed nice with might i add, the nice shoes. When she was leaving with her friends she said if I want to have coffee to discuss anything.

I'm new to the church scene so I'm not sure what is appropriate behaviour...

2007-03-18 07:13:26 · 11 answers · asked by tripppah 3

Okay, here's the story. I've been going out with this guy for 16 months today and it's been pretty good but we have had some so-so days where we act like we're no longer interested in one another. So yesterday I was texting a guy from school and found out that he likes me! He called me later that night while he was with some friends and we talked for hours! This guy has been an on-off crush all year, keep in mind. We both want to go out with each other (we admitted it) but we know that cheating is wrong. He is friends with my guy, so that makes it even more complicated. If I were to break up with my boyfriend for this guy, I wouldn't be able to do so until Saturday-ish (he's out of town). I was also invited by the guy to a mini-party on Monday at a mutual friend's house (only like, 5 people are going). Should I go? And the main question: Which should I choose and why? Thank you! <3

2007-03-18 07:13:13 · 4 answers · asked by The Prep 4

2007-03-18 07:13:02 · 2 answers · asked by Sara007 5

always try to get the attention of the girl that there friends used?? this guy used me and lied to me but when his friends and him see me they always look at me. when they drove past me today i didnt look at them and made no attention to them but from the corner of my eye i saw the guys friend looking back at me!!! i dont understand why guys do ANYTHING but can someone please tell me why they doing this to me (hav'nt they done enough)

2007-03-18 07:12:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Friend from camp price drops a lot. Lit she will be like " I got this skirt at hollister it was $50 isnt that good?" how do you tell them to stop with out maknig them mad or seem like your jealous?

2007-03-18 07:11:25 · 2 answers · asked by Micro spice 3

My sister used to casually date this guy (who happens to be my b.f.'s best friend) Mostly they were just friends. Enter guys girlfriend now. Her and my sis are now rivals. When my sis calls the guy his g.f. freaks out then the 2 girls get into some wierd *** argument. And i land in the middle. I try not to say anything. Just listen sympithetically. But I am sick to death of this twisted triangle.

2007-03-18 07:10:43 · 1 answers · asked by Mel 2

I really like this girl but the problem is that i think my best friend likes her too. Help please

2007-03-18 07:09:59 · 17 answers · asked by airiv311 1

I am dating my crush for two years little brother. His little brother is my age. But I have made-out with my crush. Now all I think about when I kiss my boyfriend is his older brother. What should I do?

2007-03-18 07:09:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-18 07:09:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know its wrong but i am confused what should I do, a 11 year old girl from our neighbour family is in love with me, she directly told me that, even she want me to give her love [i hope you understand] though I refuse her many time, but i think now I also having some feeling about her, I am 25 year old, what should I do in such a situation.. plz help...

2007-03-18 07:08:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in my 30's and was married for 15 years. My ex husband and I just went our separate ways, we didnt fight or get crazy or jealous. It was an amicable divorce. Now I have been with this man for 2 years and he has deceived me alot. Now I am very insecure and I accuse him of being interested in other women. I am totally losing it. I dont know if he has cheated, but if he hasnt he sure makes it look like he has. Like he even lied about going to his friends house, he said he never left our house, but he did. He doesnt pay his share of the rent. Borrows money and doesnt pay it back. I break up with him but keep getting back together with him because I miss him so much. Now he is starting to get borderline physically violent. I have never been abused in my life. Why am I doing this to myself? I am totally losing control and am acting in ways I never have before. I have always been very calm and never swear or yell, but now it happens all the time. Please help me.

2007-03-18 07:07:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

A guy i liked gave me his number and we had been texting and calling each other,he seemed really keen and would text alot however he text me on friday and said that he was interested and if i wasn`t then just to tell him and that he really liked me.

We seemed to be getting our wires crossed and he said to my mum last night he was going to give me a call(my mum knows him from his work as do i)he then text and asked if he could call me soon and i said yes it was fine but he didn`t call me at all.

So i just sent a friendly text saying that if he`s not interested then it`s totally fine and there`s no hard feelings and he didn`t even reply!I just don`t know whats going on with him as i said before he did seem really keen and was always texting me then he just went quiet on me so i dont know what to do now as i will see him at his work next week.

To make matters worse we are both quite shy and get embarrassed really easy and walk about with red faces when we see each other!!help!

2007-03-18 07:07:59 · 10 answers · asked by onlyme 5

something different, lets say licking and kissing your shoes, would you let him do it to u?

2007-03-18 07:06:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can I forget about me ex-gf (who cheated on me and slept with another guy.

I forgave her but ended up ending it after she did nothing to gain my trust back, and told me to my face that she loves me one day but those feelings change everyday.

I spend plenty of time with my friends and am quite active in sports around school.

Our friends overlap and often I see her when I go out with my friends. And we still see each other alot in school.

Please I want a wealth of ideas to figure out how to forget about this sl*t.

2007-03-18 07:06:24 · 6 answers · asked by vincy015 1

Buff JOCKS/ bodybuilders??
I seem to attract a lot of jock/bodybuilder type of guys..not that I am complaining (I like that type myself) but I am curious as to what about me that might attract them?

2007-03-18 07:05:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to start talking to this guy again, what are the best ways to get a guys attention...physcially or verbally???????? 10 pts for best answer

2007-03-18 07:05:56 · 15 answers · asked by Kaliana A 2

There's this guy at work who is notorious for being a player. He has this confident, friendly vibe and good looks which made girls of different nationalities sleep with him. He's been "chasing" me for 3 months, calling me even though im out of the country, bringing me gifts, etc but i willed myself not to give in. Finally when he asked me why am I always avoiding him, I told him it is because of his reputation. Even though I acted like I don't care, he confessed everything including how many girls he has slept with. He even begged me to be just his friend so he can see me. He said he likes me very much and he likes my company. I'm falling for this guy and I'm scared. Will I give him a chance? Help!

2007-03-18 07:05:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think I'm in love with my 16 year old step daughter. She is fine as hell but something tells me it aint right. Should I continue with her mother who is a fat pig but takes care of me or jeapardize it all by knocking the boots of that youngling. I have to choose. This trailer aint big enuff for the three of us and I don't think her mom is into a 3-some. What do i do???

2007-03-18 07:05:28 · 14 answers · asked by Ted Bundy 1

2007-03-18 07:04:27 · 1 answers · asked by Ladybug Girl 1

My boyfriend is 29, soon to be 30 this summer, and I'll be 22 at the end of the year. Just curious about what people think about age differences and how much is too much?

2007-03-18 07:03:08 · 19 answers · asked by megansa0811 2

ok, heres how it went: we were @ the dance friday and all week hes been wondering if i really love him, then he read something i wrote for him and then erased. so he wants to know. it said i love you but i wont tell him. he figures out thats what it said and wants me to say it. he comes behind me, rest his chin on my shoulder and wraps his arm around me and says, plz say it. i say then he whispers ilove you too very quickly, then lets go and says now was that so hard.

i cant figure out if he means it or if he just wanted me to feel better.
tthe facts: we've been together for 1 month 2 weeks
we're both 14
plz dont say ur too young, too immature or anything like that plz. i dont want to read it so just dont write it. thx for ur help

2007-03-18 07:03:04 · 16 answers · asked by R ♥ I ♥ P ♥ Casey Calvert 3

I am talking about women aged 19-21.

If you example I was dating a women but was worried that she might get drunk with her mates then start kissing other guys or even cheating on me.

How can I ask her to be responsable with alcohol without sounding like a bully or control freak?

2007-03-18 07:02:52 · 14 answers · asked by Michelino 4

ok....wht would yall prefer...

some one who is like 5'9ish 150ish lbs ...but muscular and "Hot" but he thinks hes a "pimp" or a guy who is like 5'11, 180ish lbs but is more altheltic but not as "hot" and is new to all the relationship/love type of things, but hes nicer than the other dude??

2007-03-18 07:00:52 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Everyone please do not think the worse of me cause I am hating myself enough for my situation. I have been in a relationship for over a decade now but recently I been having mixed feelings for the person I am with and with this other person I think I am beginning to have feelings for. This guy I work with seems to give me all the right signs that he is falling for me, but I am not sure what to do with it..(LOL krazy right?) I have this great guy at home yet at the same time I think I am having feelings for this guy I work with. I am so confused. Please help me think. All the advice would be greatly appreciated.

2007-03-18 06:59:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

hispanic or mexicans? no to be full of myself, but i think i a good looking guy, my friends have also said that, and why i dont have a girlfriend. idk i would like to know that to. do u like the latin heat? or????????

2007-03-18 06:59:42 · 4 answers · asked by that musican 2

my girl friend of 3.5 years broke up with me 3 months ago.she started to see someone else right away.now we are talking and would like to get back together.but she don't know how to end the relationship she in now..she said she doesn't want to hurt his feelings.and waiting for the right time...(when he screws up again).....how can she get out of that relationship before more time passes and his feelings will be hurt.i feel like the fall back to guy.she say im in her heart for marriage.
we do talk ,i do see her once a week.everything looks promising then when the weekend rolls around she disappears..she tells me she needs to distance herself from me.after i tols her to tell him you still have feelings for me.she treats me like,if the relationship shes in now doesn't work i will take you back .i have asked her to end it as soon as possible,before to much time goes by and he wont be so hurt...she says its too late for that

2007-03-18 06:58:55 · 4 answers · asked by David 1

I have this freind who is a girl and about 12 and is gonna 13 in December. And I am 12 and im gonna be 13 in April. Is it 2 early 2 ask her out? If not how should I? PPL say she likes me. I tryed asking her out a couple months ago over the computer but she never got it. WE ARE REALLY GOOD freinds.

2007-03-18 06:58:25 · 6 answers · asked by ? 3

Last night i was having a real down night. I was stressed and started crying. My boyfriend is a easy going mild mannered sensitive type... most of the time(We've been dating for 3 years and don't live together). So here i am crying and he's saying that he wants it tonight. while I'm sobbing. So i offer it very unethusiastically, no fore play nothing. And he still goes for it. After ward he feels bad, but that doesn't make up for what he did.

2007-03-18 06:58:07 · 10 answers · asked by Mel 2

Okay. My closest friends are mad at me for liking this guy who used to go out with my best friend during the time that they broke up. Now I REALLY like this guy, he's cute, smart, and funny. But I can't stand having my closest friends all mad at me. What would you do to fix this? I want to go out with the guy without having to worry about what others may think of me.

2007-03-18 06:57:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-18 06:51:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous