Okay, here's the story. I've been going out with this guy for 16 months today and it's been pretty good but we have had some so-so days where we act like we're no longer interested in one another. So yesterday I was texting a guy from school and found out that he likes me! He called me later that night while he was with some friends and we talked for hours! This guy has been an on-off crush all year, keep in mind. We both want to go out with each other (we admitted it) but we know that cheating is wrong. He is friends with my guy, so that makes it even more complicated. If I were to break up with my boyfriend for this guy, I wouldn't be able to do so until Saturday-ish (he's out of town). I was also invited by the guy to a mini-party on Monday at a mutual friend's house (only like, 5 people are going). Should I go? And the main question: Which should I choose and why? Thank you! <3
2007-03-18 07:13:13 · 4 answers · asked by The Prep 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And yes, I really am sick. I have a small fever, a stopped up nose, and a scratchy throat. <3
2007-03-18 07:14:04 · update #1
Choose the one that you want. simple as that. if you want to go to the party then go. If you no longer have the spark with your boyfriend and your getting the spark from someone else, then maybe its time to move on, its not so easy tho considering that your guy friends are friends with eachother, its almost an unwriten rule that thats not alowd. ask your bf how he feels about your so so days and then tell him how you feel about it and maybe hell tell you hes ready to move on too.
2007-03-18 07:19:59 · answer #1 · answered by Youll See 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it just seems like you're coming down with a cold or something. And I think it's just wrong to break up with a guy and date his friend. Karma has a way of coming back to bite you in the a**. If you and your guy aren't having any problems, don't just diss him because you have a crush on some other guy (namely his friend). Remember, what goes around comes around...
2007-03-18 14:31:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like breaking with your current bf then do so. But I think that you should wait some time before you get really involved with another guy because this would be a little hasty. What I mean is that you should know him a lot better before you jump to conclusion that you want to be with him for sure...
2007-03-18 14:19:04 · answer #3 · answered by kamqx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think it sounds like a good idea to break up with someone for a nother. most likly you will want your 16 months boifriend back and feel bad. do what you want though. Personaly i would not go to the party if i were you.
2007-03-19 18:40:33 · answer #4 · answered by summer girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋