I know its wrong but i am confused what should I do, a 11 year old girl from our neighbour family is in love with me, she directly told me that, even she want me to give her love [i hope you understand] though I refuse her many time, but i think now I also having some feeling about her, I am 25 year old, what should I do in such a situation.. plz help...
2007-03-18 07:08:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is a child and you are an adult. Tell her to find children her age to play with.
2007-03-18 07:12:37 · answer #1 · answered by E-Razz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is 11, under age, probably has a crush on you and has no real idea what she is getting herself into.
You are 25, over twice her age. As the adult you need to think clearly here. Don't even consider having feelings for her. You need to make sure you are not giving any signals to her that you like her, you should be staying away from her, telling her parents.
2007-03-18 14:28:45 · answer #2 · answered by iccleanne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a different kind of love, warm talks over tea, and reading peopms kinda love, untill , she figures out how she really feels. She needs attention not sex.lol.maybe she does not get any at home, and she feels you can fill in that dark hole. Be protective, it would kill her if you have sex, and leave her. Just be a good friend., and do not have sexual contact with her, even if she begs.
2007-03-18 14:18:44 · answer #3 · answered by Tellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to avoid her as much as possible. She is a child. 11 years old. She does not know what she wants
2007-03-18 14:13:06 · answer #4 · answered by Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better tell her parents ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!. Now you saying your having feelings for her sounds weird. Your 25 years old you should now what to do. "YOUR ADULT MAN"! Leave the 11 year old girl girl girl alone
2007-03-18 14:17:28 · answer #5 · answered by ellisonh22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you do know that if you get in a relationship with her and someone finds out you could go to jail you have to talk to her and tell her that she is to young and even though you like her you like her as a friend and that her "loving: you is just a small crush and she will get over it
2007-03-18 14:14:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm...there's a huge wrong vibe with this whole situation...11 and 25? That's HUGE!
2007-03-18 14:12:15 · answer #7 · answered by ~*~Starchild~*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all do nothing you will find yourself in a lawsuit so fast...
second of all that is not right go see a shrink
and tell her parents that there daughter is acting this way
dont mess up sum little girls life because you have a messed up one
2007-03-18 14:12:41 · answer #8 · answered by tobosahge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are way to old tell her that and stay your distance due to things might be confussing for her and u can be put in jail if the parents suspect anything
2007-03-18 14:21:19 · answer #9 · answered by sashabear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her mother to make her stay away from you. I'm assuming she doesn't have a father, or not a very good one & she's looking for something she's lacking.
2007-03-18 14:12:07 · answer #10 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋