There's this guy at work who is notorious for being a player. He has this confident, friendly vibe and good looks which made girls of different nationalities sleep with him. He's been "chasing" me for 3 months, calling me even though im out of the country, bringing me gifts, etc but i willed myself not to give in. Finally when he asked me why am I always avoiding him, I told him it is because of his reputation. Even though I acted like I don't care, he confessed everything including how many girls he has slept with. He even begged me to be just his friend so he can see me. He said he likes me very much and he likes my company. I'm falling for this guy and I'm scared. Will I give him a chance? Help!
2007-03-18 07:05:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
careful he could be playing you in a new way but if he is confessing all this to you then you must have done something to him to make him really want you. it's worth giving him a chance, just don't put your entire heart into it
2007-03-18 07:09:23 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it from someone who's been with the biggest player of all time.i even thought that i got it together.until one day i found out that he meets women off line through singles dating while he was dating me.he was a smooth operator.you know the saying once a player is always a player.he will never change.its a sickness and he will always find a way to lie to you.your probably a beautiful girl.you can find better.be smart about your decision when it comes to this guy.just the way he begs you to be his friend.there's a motive to his actions.please be careful that you don't get hurt.good luck!!!!!
2007-03-18 14:17:59 · answer #2 · answered by Chris y 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him a chance only if you do one thing only for your sake.Take things slow.I know that things between you and him are right and perfect.Any thing he might or might not be going will come to light.Don't be no fool and rush things because of what your heart says.Listen to your head because your heart can tell lies lies too.Your mind is what gonna keep you level between what is fantasy and reality.I hope he do right by you.My bf is a reformed player too.So your not alone on that situation.
2007-03-18 14:15:40 · answer #3 · answered by jany50002002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is definitely a player so don't give in to his game.
This guy is only out for one thing and will tell you what ever it is you want to hear to get it .Who knows how many women he really slept with at the job. That would make me feel nasty knowing that allot of your co - workers have slept with him. Share your lunch if you want but not a guy. (ilk!) I don't know why you would even consider it.
2007-03-18 14:14:43 · answer #4 · answered by Star 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get him to go to church with you at least 3 times. Get photographed coming out of the church. Doesn't matter which one. If he is for real, he will go.
I have $100 says you are his for a day. or a night. 3 nights tops.
2007-03-18 14:42:25 · answer #5 · answered by jinoturistica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it......don't get sucked in! once a player, always a player! he will end up hurting you when he sleeps with some other girl and you will get your heart broken. he doesnt want to be your friend, he wants to get close to you so he can sleep with you!
2007-03-18 14:18:52 · answer #6 · answered by SuzyBelle04 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just follow your heart and take a risk. But life doesn't always have happy endings.
2007-03-18 14:08:06 · answer #7 · answered by vexen431 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just do it if it what your heart tells you to do
who knows you might be the girl to really change him dont underestimate the power of a woman and love
2007-03-18 14:10:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give the man a chance... just dont let your guard down too quickly
2007-03-18 14:09:08 · answer #9 · answered by ladycarebear101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he considers himself a player still i would stay away
2007-03-18 14:08:41 · answer #10 · answered by san_ann68 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋