I really like this girl but the problem is that i think my best friend likes her too. Help please
2007-03-18 07:09:59 · 17 answers · asked by airiv311 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would just avoid that girl all together. That spells trouble. Girls come and go. But best friends, well they're hard to find.
2007-03-18 07:15:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, this happens all the time. And the answer isn't a clean one.
You both need to let this girl know you guys like her. If she has interest in either of you, she'll ask to be with one of you. If she doesn't, move on.
I know it's hard, but maybe you can your friend if he feels something for her too. Again, I know it's a messy situation with many answers. Your best bet is to back off if the girl is showing more interest in your friend. But if she's liking you, than your friend should back off for you.
2007-03-18 14:14:39 · answer #2 · answered by Lyssepoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in this exact situation more than once!
Here's what I think...all's fair in love, so, don't feel bad that you like her. Just be yourself around her, and if she choses you, then cool.
But I wouldn't tell your friend if I were you...that seems to make the situation all the more...sticky.
2007-03-18 14:14:11 · answer #3 · answered by ~*~Starchild~*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its going to become a huge problem if you dont think about your friends feeling you need to tell your friend you like her too and whenever she decides who she likes let it be dont ruin your friendship over a chick just let whatever happens happen
2007-03-18 14:13:30 · answer #4 · answered by I love America♥♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh u poor,poor person. i have the same issue, xcept i know 4 sure that my friend likes the guy. but nyways, if your friend hasnt told u yet that he likes the girl, then tell him 1st because then u, so to speak, have the rights to her. i dont know if that rule applies to guys, but it sure as heck worked for my friend, and here i am stuck wishing i could date a guy im not even allowed to like.
2007-03-18 14:17:17 · answer #5 · answered by 8199 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if hes brought it up with you, then i wouldnt go for it. I did the same thing, and it got my friend and all my other friends like wow why did you do that. If you have to, find somebody else, but if he hasnt mentioned it to you, go for it first.
2007-03-18 14:13:00 · answer #6 · answered by Tommy T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First be sure (and not think) if he likes the girl. Depending on this, make your move.
2007-03-18 14:22:54 · answer #7 · answered by thinbrownline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask. I mean, no sense ruining a friendship over a girl.
2007-03-18 14:13:18 · answer #8 · answered by Alecto 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask your friend if he likes her and is planning on dating her or not, because if he is not, then you can take the chance.
Good luck!
2007-03-18 14:13:13 · answer #9 · answered by peachy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell you best friend you like her more , and go for it!
2007-03-18 14:12:46 · answer #10 · answered by Tellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋