Singles & Dating - 17 March 2007

I am a confused guy, because every female I ever dated has had some other guy she admired, including, some of them, their fathers.

I went with a gal for a year, we were on the brink of deciding the big one, she was excited right through to the week before, and suddenly, like, someone popped the cork, she's telling me about her last boyfriend or other. Needless to say I met one of her men afterward and they had not finished having a relationship.

Is that a girls way of dumping us? Guys?

2007-03-17 20:43:49 · 3 answers · asked by d4d9er 5

Hey. How are you? From the moment we stopped talking, I missed you. I still remember what you said to me the last time we talked, the things you were mad at me about. I've worked on those things to improve myself. A special girl like you is hard to find, you're unlike any friend I've ever had. No other girl is as amazing, wonderful, smart, talented, funny, and beautiful as you. No one else has your light brown eyes that sparkle when you're happy and fade away when you're sad, or your bright smile. I miss when we used to talk and I would really like to work on things and get to know you again. I really care about you and like I said, you're special to me. I'm tired of playing silly games around you, trying to act like you're not when you really are. Without you, I just had to admit that I must be really stupid for not understanding then what you were trying to tell me, that it wasn't anything wrong with me that you didn't like, it was you just didn't share those feelings for me that I

2007-03-17 20:42:34 · 6 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5

does it mean that a guy likes you when asked by a mutual friend whether he likes you and he says, 'i really don't know, i don't have time for a serious relationship right now because i have exams coming up and i'm really busy'?

does it mean that he does like you but doesn't want to screw up in his exams?

2007-03-17 20:42:10 · 9 answers · asked by the sweet escape <3 1

The bad date guy is still a jerk, i get that. All we had was oral sex, but no regular sex, am I wrong for that??

2007-03-17 20:41:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-17 20:40:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

A dude I use to talk to who my sister calls her brother ups and ask her who I talk to while another girl is ova . My sister tells him that I said I'm going to get him back and he just smiles. He sometimes calls and ask wat I'm doing and might hold a conversation for a minute. He tells my lil sista stuff I lik for him to do while he takes her to work. One day he says let's fight so then we can make up after it. He then says make up sex is the best and smiles. He often ask me where I'm going when we're at skool. He tells me that I should stop smoking and often gets mad. Wat you think he wants me back ,still got feelings, or wat?

2007-03-17 20:40:02 · 8 answers · asked by Kimmy 1

i'm 30 this year but still cannot find gf.sometimes i feel really shame when people ask me when marry or where is my gf.most of my friend and relative at my age already have relative including my brother.i know its because of my own weakness.i'm too shy when talking to girls especially to girls i like.some more my lifestyle is boring.i don't have much friends and most of them is guy.i really worry now and i start feel that i'll become single forever.

2007-03-17 20:39:05 · 29 answers · asked by Chong F 1

im feeling so hurt and so sad and upset .. that after all 9 months with the guy i believed and loved with all my heart..
everything all the dreams of future is not there now..
he is dating around to see if it helps him to get over me he said he wants to go back to the way he was before i met him.
he says he doesnt feel anything for them and its not helping but he somehow knows he will get over me even though that he says he isnt sure what he wants says that he has feelings for me but dont love me, says he misses me alot but dont want to be with me.. he says he will hurt alot and that it hurts now knowing that i'll be with someone else but he'll get over it!
im so stupid i even spoke to him on the phone said its me now or never that i dont want to lose what we had that noone will love him like me. He says he isnt 100% sure he wants to be with me and he isnt 100% sure he doesnt.. then i called him again and he said i dont want you, i dont love you........ >>read additional details>>

2007-03-17 20:38:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-17 20:38:16 · 7 answers · asked by vikas 1

i moved to canada from england 2 years ago and i am trying to get a girlfreind, i have been hooked up with three girls already but i cant manage to go out with them the last girl i got hooked up with dosent seem intersted anymore , i have just sent her an email saying why she blocked me dosent she like me anymore. What is it i have to do for them to like me? girls here seem so much hardwork

2007-03-17 20:36:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a guy stars singing love songs to you when they come on the radio...is he IN LOVE with you...?
he admitted he was singing to me ... not just singing because he liked the song... He sang Toni Braxton's UNBREAK MY HEART and did Motown style hand motions to the song.



So is this GUY-language for I LOVE YOU?????

I forgot to mention I am a singer and he loves my music. So he knows I relate to songs!


He sang another love song Monday, but I forgot the name now.
I do like the Toni Braxton song....



And I'm crazy about the guy, I am just trying to convince myself he sees me as girlfriend potential.

2007-03-17 20:35:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

did i screw up?

2007-03-17 20:32:15 · 21 answers · asked by Timmy 1

His GirlFriend!!!!!

what does that mean?

2007-03-17 20:31:07 · 15 answers · asked by Nice Girl 1

Last summer me and this guy started talking. We went to school together but never said a word to each other. I would help him get over his old girlfriend and stuff and then he started talking to my friend about me. He told her that he liked me and that he wanted me and wanted to ask me out but he was scared of getting hurt again. I told him not to be scared but everything changed when school started up again. We don't go to the same school so we drifted apart and he never asked me out. I still like him a lot but we don't really talk anymore. He would put songs on his myspace and told me that they reminded him of me. He even told me he loved me. Now I have bands on my myspace and like he would put the same band on his page. We go to the same church so thats our only way of seeing each other. He told me I was the only reason he goes to church. Was I just a rebound? Do you think he still like me? please help.

2007-03-17 20:31:00 · 2 answers · asked by vondee 3

She likes it, but I wonder if i want to marry her?

2007-03-17 20:30:50 · 6 answers · asked by David C 1

i've liked this guy for four 1/2 years. he's the ONLY guy i've EVER said i loved. but.....he loves my best friend (he likes her just as much as i like him.) it hurts just to talk to him anymore.

2007-03-17 20:28:09 · 20 answers · asked by bananas 2

im feeling so hurt and so sad and upset .. that after all 9 months with the guy i believed and loved with all my heart..
everything all the dreams of future is not there now..
he is dating around to see if it helps him to get over me he said he wants to go back to the way he was before i met him.
he says he doesnt feel anything for them and its not helping but he somehow knows he will get over me even though that he says he isnt sure what he wants says that he has feelings for me but dont love me, says he misses me alot but dont want to be with me.. he says he will hurt alot and that it hurts now knowing that i'll be with someone else but he'll get over it!
im so stupid i even spoke to him on the phone said its me now or never that i dont want to lose what we had that noone will love him like me. He says he isnt 100% sure he wants to be with me and he isnt 100% sure he doesnt.. then i called him again and he said i dont want you, i dont love you........ >>read additional details>>

2007-03-17 20:27:23 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am not obese, but I am overweight. I was wondering how big girls give off sex appeal. And also what men find attractive in bigger women?

2007-03-17 20:26:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

We were never officially together but we saw each other for a month and a half before he finally stood up for himself against me and said "I can't be with you if you constantly treat me like crap." and that was that. that was about a week ago. and i know this sounds really ridiculous to even bother with, but his AIM profile is always filled with lyrics that are kind of hinting at something. Is it just me or do these lyrics mean something? "baby i will wait for you
if you think i'm fine it just aint true
i really need you in my life
no matter what i have to do i'll wait for you
i'll be waiting..."
the weird thing is that the other day his best friend was out with my friend and his friend said that he's doing just fine and that he's never seen him get over a girl this fast before.

I think his profile is about me because when he first told me he couldn't see me anymore, he told me he'd wait for me to change.. but then later on he made the decision to just not to give me any chances.

2007-03-17 20:24:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

girls do you think thats personal to tell guys how many you slept with yes or no? girls do you think that is imporant for a guy to know how many you slept with. because I do not feel comfortable share that with a guy because I think that,s very presonal because they may not like the number of guys girls slept with.

2007-03-17 20:23:43 · 10 answers · asked by Carebear22 4

me and this girl were best friends for about a year. that whole year she had a huge crush she describes it as "for a girl to like you this much is once in a lifetime". i didnt ever think of her as more than a friend until we started messing around during the summer and then at the end of the summer we got together. i gave her everything she could want. if she wanted something i bought it for her. i look around me and i see guys treating their girl like **** and they get more than i got from my girlfriend. i was always kind to my girlfriend and in return she never cared about my feelings, played with my emotions, ignored me, left me for her friends but i still loved her. our relationship got better and we were both happy. she never made time for me even though i drop any plans for her and always told her how much i loved her and appreciated me. girls wanted me but i didnt ever cheat on her even if she treated me like **** and constantly played with my emotions and never listened to me..

2007-03-17 20:23:41 · 6 answers · asked by robin c 3

i am thinking of asking a girl to prom, at her house. how should i dress. i'll be giving her cards and flowers. dont really kno what kind of flowers yet, you can suggest me some. but should i dress more formal or just everyday clothes(hollister/A&F)?

2007-03-17 20:23:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-17 20:22:44 · 7 answers · asked by hola 1

okay, i am good friend with this girl who just got out of a relationship with my other friend, they went out for approx 3 months. before this the girl was single for about 5months. i think she likes me but i dont kno if she likes me as just a friend or more. i would really like to ask her out. but should i give her more time or sometihng?

2007-03-17 20:21:17 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you think family, parents and the culture of a family can tell you alot about a boy's personality or lets say behavior or even his ideas, if he doesnt have a good family, does it make him a bad guy, or if his family's culture is different from mine, but the boy is great, still i should be worried about future, will he show his family beliefs as time goes by...??

2007-03-17 20:19:39 · 7 answers · asked by Linda 2

when a man loves a woman why?

2007-03-17 20:19:27 · 8 answers · asked by sakaya 1

Okay so i like this guy..and im not sure if he likes me back. but he's always flirting with me but he does it to other girls too so i'm not sure what to make of it?

2007-03-17 20:19:13 · 6 answers · asked by googlie 1

2007-03-17 20:18:31 · 8 answers · asked by debra 2

now he is texting me at work, wondering if i got my birthcontrol, wants to be condomless,etc. I'm 27, he's 25, and i;m afraid he may stalk me, or keep trying to "Get Some." He thinks i'm easy. I need help, Fast!

2007-03-17 20:14:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

just wanna know the stats and just very much curious.. please answer honestly... thanks!!!

2007-03-17 20:14:57 · 15 answers · asked by ibn khaldun 2