Singles & Dating - 17 March 2007

i met a guy two months ago (24), and at that time he was dumped by his girlfriend and was heartbroken.
We had so much in common and we became very good friends.We got on well and started hanging on to the phone a lot. Now im in love with him too, and he knows that.
We are really close but he misses his girl a lot. anyways it wouldnt have worked out between the two, cos of religion differences.
i dont wanna miss him.and i cant even bear to think of him hookin up with another girl. i decided to stop contacts many times, but sadly failed...
but the thing is,he still cant forget about his Ex.he has an idea not to start another relationship for his life again.
he had been so deeply in love with her.
but suppose we do go out, what if it goes wrong all the way, what if he wanted to start an affair just to forget about his Ex?
what if it was just friendship which he thinks is love?
WHAT if he loves me OUT OF SYMPATHY or somethin?
ERGH...... its too complicating.
help me plz?

2007-03-17 01:07:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

What should i do now?? so confused and scared?
ok i lyked this guy for lyke 2 months rite but never told him well today all of these ppl found out and they all told him. im a very shy person u kno. low self esteem. whenva a boy i kno finds out i lyke them. i act as if i dont even kno them lyke walk rite past him and all that. i dont wanna do that this tyme wat shud i do??!!??

REAL TALK
THIS IS SO CRAZI LYKE WHEN ALL THOSE BOYZ TOLD HIM THEY PUT ME IN AN AKWARD MOMENT AND I JUST WALKED AWAY SHAKING MY HEAD. DID I MESS UP DOIN THAT
HE SAID I WAS CUTE !!!


WHAT SHOULD I DO IF HE DONT LYKE ME!!!???



WE ARE ALREADY ON THAT ASSOCIATE TYPE FRIENDSHIP WHEN WE SAY HEY N BYE ONCE N A WHILE. BUT KNOW I DONT KNOW IF WE ARE GOING TO DO HAVE THAT ANYMORE!!!!! IS OUR FRIENDSHIP GOING TO CHANGE???

2007-03-17 01:06:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i used to work with her, not anymore thought, she messaged randomly after we havent contacted eachother in 3 months, it kinda creeps me out a bit
i dont know what to say to her i am straight!!!
she messaged asking where i live?
i didnt tell her
What should i do???

2007-03-17 01:01:05 · 15 answers · asked by <3 ...sEz... <3 3

i meet her about 2 weeks ago and she really likes me. we both go to high school still. so whats next?

2007-03-17 01:01:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-17 00:54:27 · 14 answers · asked by edi_edi88 1

Me and my boyfriend want to have sex for the first time and he wants it to be romantic when he comes home from work so what should i do?
1: Decorate the bedroom with candles, rose peddles and nice smells.
And be laying on the bed with a sxc bra and a g-string.
2: When he walks in, ill be standing there with a big jacket on and when i let it open i will have nothing on.
3: or just wait untill he gets home and just see what he wants to do.
What do you think i should do?
and if you have any suggestions can you tell me because i need to know!
Thanx alot,
ta ta xx

2007-03-17 00:46:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

1)at work
2)at play(i meant sports!)
3)in the kitchen
4)just lounging around in the house

& last but not least!
5)in the bedroom

just curious & bored
thanks guys! :)

2007-03-17 00:44:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a fifteen year old girl. I'm around 5'6 and i weigh around 55 kilograms. recently my mom has been telling me that i'm ugly, and that i'm really fat...have really poorly shaped legs, really fat face...and such. why is she doing this? i feel like there's some "COMPETITION" or some beauty thing going around here. but why? IM HER DAUGHTER.. answer seriously please?

2007-03-17 00:44:35 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am totally hooked on this woman but I am having trouble reading her signals and don't want to make a fool of myself. Ok, I don't see her that often but when I do she is really pleasant and polite. Her eye contact with me is amazing, she stares in my eyes for ages and she smiles and makes silly little jokes. She recently split with her boyfriend who was very aggressive and I want o show her I am not like that. She said she has very high standards and I said thats good and asked her if she was ready yet for another relationship and is she over her old boyfriend because I needed to know. She said she definately was and smiled at me and looked down. Will she know I am interested? She then started giggling and flirting a little bit and we joked about sexual things. Does she like me back and have I given her the impression that I really like her? Can't afford to get this wrong she is perfect. Please answer this question

2007-03-17 00:42:19 · 18 answers · asked by Pete R 1

2007-03-17 00:39:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-17 00:38:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

like do you girls get put off by thongs or do you like fashionable shoes, or does it not matter? One girl i asked out said "your not my type and for starters you're wearing thongs"
fair enough i suppose but it was a little hurtful.

2007-03-17 00:38:24 · 6 answers · asked by nightdreamer 3

We have been friends forever, her grandparents and my parents are friends, and ever since i was 5 months old they have been bringing her to play with me.
Well we are both turning 17 this year [she was my first crush, when i was 13 we went to the pool and i saw her in a bikini, thats the day i started liking girls]
Well over the years as i got to know her better, and she grew out of her awkward stage, I fell in love with her (not just her body)

but when i (kinda didnt) told her how i feel about her, she said
"Oh Bobby i Love you too, But, I like you as a Brother"
and later on after i said lets just put this behind us, she ripped out my heart already but now she had to stop it into the ground by saying
"I love you more then words can express"

OK i think theres more then brotherly love there, so how can i get her to love me as much as i love her?

Right now i can only talk to her through E-mail and over the Phone, because she is in Michagen with her mom.

2007-03-17 00:37:20 · 3 answers · asked by Bobby 3

-and no, I don't mean by lovers. Just what do couples do to be considered as having a healthy relationship.
Sounds like an out of this world question...can anyone have a relationship as a couple but do NOT do the things that couples do?

2007-03-17 00:32:03 · 7 answers · asked by witch_dr 3

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2007-03-17 00:29:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

A few months ago I asked what I should do about my bfs mother and her snide comments and lies she was spreading about me. She started doing this as soon as me and boyfriend moved in together. I asked my boyfriend to ask her to talk to me face to face about what was wrong. She refused and then saw me in the shopping centre and started shouting abuse at me.

Since then my boyfriends family refuse to acknowledge me which is a bit much since we live together. I have tried to speak to my boyfriend about sorting things out and he says he will but then he never does. I dont want to be friends with them - i want things to be civil so I can stop being upset. Last night we were in tescos and we saw his brother and his girlfriend and they blanked me and spoke to my bf and he never said anything to them. I used to want to marry my bf and have his kids but there is no way i can live like this. I cant stop crying about it

2007-03-17 00:29:18 · 28 answers · asked by Lady Claire - Hates Bigotry 6

My childhood sweatheart my very 1st everything and I was his we were unstoppable in our love for each, my father did everything to keep us apart , however I disobeyed my father and continued to see him, however since I was 13 he has been cheating on me. Both of us now are in our 30's we have been running back and forth to each other for 20 years. 6 years ago I moved to California to get away from the love of my life, because he choose to be with someone besides me. It destroyed my heart really bad. I was involved in a relationship in california for 6 yrs it ended up not working out. so I contacted my childhood sweatheart after not talking to him for 6 years and he was happy to hear from me. 2 days later I flew him out here and three days later we went to las vegas and got married I just found tonight he is living with a girl down there and I am not hearing from him at the moment. he was suppose 2 to move to Cali on the 10th but chickened. He is a player an has been still. does he luv m

2007-03-17 00:24:29 · 14 answers · asked by Samantha M 1

I am totally hooked on this woman but I am having trouble reading her signals and don't want to make a fool of myself. Ok, I don't see her that often but when I do she is really pleasant and polite. Her eye contact with me is amazing, she stares in my eyes for ages and she smiles and makes silly little jokes. She recently split with her boyfriend who was very aggressive and I want o show her I am not like that. She said she has very high standards and I said thats good and asked her if she was ready yet for another relationship and is she over her old boyfriend because I needed to know. She said she definately was and smiled at me and looked down. She then started giggling and flirting a little bit and we joked about sexual things. Does she like me back and have I given her the impression that I really like her? Can't afford to get this wrong she is perfect. Please answer this question.

2007-03-17 00:22:05 · 7 answers · asked by Pete R 1

my mate has found out her bf won't marry her cos his family won't agree to him marrying her and he said he wont go against his family, now she blames him for not wanting her, so she wants him to feel bad, real bad. so she wants to lie and tell him she got pregnant and got an abortion, what shud i do i've told her not to cos it's not right, but she won't listen, help :-(

2007-03-17 00:21:28 · 15 answers · asked by sweetchick 1

i couldnt find a boyfriend. i know i am under peer pressure to find one, one that can show me concern, one to keep me occupied, one to make me feel loved. But i just feel that i am not outstanding enough to gain the attention of the opposite sex. how can i find myself a boyfriend?

2007-03-17 00:21:07 · 7 answers · asked by Valerie 1

I have a 7 acre track and an extra room at my house. He is welcome to stay anytime, so how can I get him to extend the invitation? He likes picking up chicks anyway. : )

2007-03-17 00:18:50 · 3 answers · asked by jennainhiding 4

I live on my own. I am getting on in years. get lonely,spend hours on here to releive boredom.Fed up with most of telly. Can't get out a lot. Do drive but not at night.

2007-03-17 00:18:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-17 00:17:23 · 8 answers · asked by tilak_92584 1

he keeps asking me out and messaging me then cancels last minute and always seems to be busy...b4 he asked me out he liked me alot........whats up with him if he doesnt like me WHY ASK ME OUT!!!! hes done it twice now should i give him another chance or the flick?

2007-03-17 00:16:11 · 6 answers · asked by <3 ...sEz... <3 3

my bf told me that he rather talk online 2day instead of me phoning him why would he say that

2007-03-17 00:15:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I started going out with her almost by accident. We're lab partners in a biology class that I can't afford to drop, and she first called me "baby" about three weeks after she met me. Valentine's was our first official date, and it's been a little over a month since. She couldn't be bothered to kiss me on our one month anniversary, or to call me when she said she would. I'm also beginning to have doubts about some things she says about her career and her outside life.

On the one hand, I'm 20 and don't want to lose her, as she is my first GF. On the the other hand, she's cold enough and distant enough that I'm having doubts. Any insights?

2007-03-17 00:15:32 · 13 answers · asked by good huggle bear 2

Hi...
I'm 13 and I really like this girl (who's the same age), and my parents know her parents really well. I think that she likes me back, but the only problem is that i don't see her very often. I only see her when my parents invite her and her family round, because she lives quite far away from me - about 2 hrs away. Also, she might move somewhere abroad in 1 or 3 yrs. Mine and her family are, I think, going on like a trip to somewhere in Europe this summer, but how could I know that she likes me or not? Is it right for me to tell her that I like her even though she might not like me? And, could our relationship stay and work out even if she moves abroad in the future?

Thanks...

2007-03-17 00:09:41 · 4 answers · asked by T 3