I am totally hooked on this woman but I am having trouble reading her signals and don't want to make a fool of myself. Ok, I don't see her that often but when I do she is really pleasant and polite. Her eye contact with me is amazing, she stares in my eyes for ages and she smiles and makes silly little jokes. She recently split with her boyfriend who was very aggressive and I want o show her I am not like that. She said she has very high standards and I said thats good and asked her if she was ready yet for another relationship and is she over her old boyfriend because I needed to know. She said she definately was and smiled at me and looked down. Will she know I am interested? She then started giggling and flirting a little bit and we joked about sexual things. Does she like me back and have I given her the impression that I really like her? Can't afford to get this wrong she is perfect. Please answer this question
2007-03-17 00:42:19 · 18 answers · asked by Pete R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
awwwww how sweet ... yep ... she likes you! Think she knows you like her too .... Go 4 it ..... & I wanna know the outcome ok!!!!!
2007-03-17 03:59:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi m8,I am in the same situation,as u will see from my questions.I don't know for sure,but it seems the same as me.The signals are all over the place from her, it is the same with mine.
Guess we are both going to have to follow the advice of the fair heart never won fair maiden that has been stated.
Just what you have said so rings a bell, the smiles, jokes, the long looks in the eyes. And the girl I like too is amazing, it is a hard situation to be in.
All I can say it, good luck, I wish you all the best with it and feel for the situation you are in.
2007-03-17 09:45:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing; no one is perfect; second thing; faint heart never won fair lady; you don't have to go in charging like a bull; if she likes you, you can afford to wait a while, but not too long. Take the bit between your teeth and ask her out. If she says yes, be a perfect gentleman for the night - treat her like a queen. My present partner and I knew each other for a year beofre I got a bit fed up with the flirting and I asked HIM out. The closest we got during the evening was that he gave me a gentle kiss on the lips before we parted. That was it; I was sold! Ten years on, he's still the best kisser I ever had!!And all from that one night when he was a perfect gent to me. Give this girl space if you do get together -women like to be respected. It sounds like she likes you, is giving all the right signals, so do it. And good luck.
2007-03-17 08:03:52 · answer #3 · answered by marie m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep testing the water and getting closer if you can, The signs will be clear at the right moment. If in doubt ASK, she will either be flattered and GLOW or start talking friend talk, "you're a nice guy etc." Can you be around her if she only wants to be your friend or will it frustrate you too much?
2007-03-17 07:49:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to let her know you're interested (it sounds like she might be interested in you). Ask her out on a simple date like coffee or a drink. (You might not want to commit to a whole meal yet unless you do know her pretty well.) But you'll never know unless you come straight out and ask her out. If she doesn't like you she'll either say no or say yes but you should be ablt to tell if she thinks of you as a friend or not.
2007-03-17 07:51:50 · answer #5 · answered by attack_of_the_5ft_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what if the chemistry is there and you feel she is the one then ask her out on a date.It sounds like she feels the same but remember she has just come out of an abusive relationship so word of caution take it slowly and reassure her you`ll take it at her pace no pressure.............good luck.
2007-03-17 10:41:17 · answer #6 · answered by sarah y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me she really likes you but you did say her ex was aggressive so go easy why not ask her to go see a movie or suggest something fun but light hearted that you both could do together keep the mood light and fun and see how things go good luck but by the sounds of things i don't think you will need it
2007-03-17 08:43:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she likes you.I would'nt push too hard at this very moment.Don't go in for the kill staight up.Find a daytime activity you could do with her and treat it like a friendship date;perhaps with another couple....a race meeting,yum-cha at a chinese resteraunt (get my drift!).Day dates are good;less pressure; and if you hit it off you can carry on into the night.Dont be too serious,relax and be your charming self as it seems she likes you at least enough to joke around with you already.Good luck.
2007-03-17 08:08:34 · answer #8 · answered by strings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your insecurity is bordering on paranoia! Get your act together, ask her out, kiss her goodnight on the first date and take it from there. If she's interested, she will ring you and I hope this is the relationship of the year. Invitations to weddings accepted.
2007-03-17 07:50:43 · answer #9 · answered by MANCHESTER UK 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok heres what you need to do jump on it while you still have the chance if you are showing intrest yea she will know if she does have high standards like you said you need to take her off the market while thers still a chance cuz it wont last long
2007-03-17 07:48:13 · answer #10 · answered by fearsnoevil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she digs ya dude but be carefull if her last bf was aggressive she may just be looking for a good friend that she can talk to and trust. also if she does like ya and you get together her ex bf might not be amused so be carefull and whatever you do dont hurt her feelings..
2007-03-17 07:48:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋