We have been friends forever, her grandparents and my parents are friends, and ever since i was 5 months old they have been bringing her to play with me.
Well we are both turning 17 this year [she was my first crush, when i was 13 we went to the pool and i saw her in a bikini, thats the day i started liking girls]
Well over the years as i got to know her better, and she grew out of her awkward stage, I fell in love with her (not just her body)
but when i (kinda didnt) told her how i feel about her, she said
"Oh Bobby i Love you too, But, I like you as a Brother"
and later on after i said lets just put this behind us, she ripped out my heart already but now she had to stop it into the ground by saying
"I love you more then words can express"
OK i think theres more then brotherly love there, so how can i get her to love me as much as i love her?
Right now i can only talk to her through E-mail and over the Phone, because she is in Michagen with her mom.
2007-03-17 00:37:20 · 3 answers · asked by Bobby 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My advice and answer to your question is to tell her as soon as you can how you feel, exactly. and then tell her you want a
completely and totally honest answer as to how she feels about you. this way you can either live happily ever after or close this chapter and move on sweetie! best wishes .
2007-03-18 12:07:27 · answer #1 · answered by Penny Mae 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man that would kill me, when you know someone for that long and your friends and then you realize you actually love her, that's hard. So does that mean she still loves you in a brotherly way or does she love you proper, I hope she does dude I hope you just sweep her off her feet one day. I suck at relationships so maybe dont take my advice but i would wait till she comes back, and tell her face to face how you feel then just kiss her. The longer you leave it the more likely it is that she'll start going out with some other guy, then you won't be able to sleep and you'll be sick with jealousy and sadness. I really hope you get this girl man good luck.
2007-03-17 07:50:39 · answer #2 · answered by nightdreamer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you can't.
There is no escape from the Friend Zone.
2007-03-17 07:42:22 · answer #3 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋