do you think family, parents and the culture of a family can tell you alot about a boy's personality or lets say behavior or even his ideas, if he doesnt have a good family, does it make him a bad guy, or if his family's culture is different from mine, but the boy is great, still i should be worried about future, will he show his family beliefs as time goes by...??
2007-03-17 20:19:39 · 7 answers · asked by Linda 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
His family life will have some influence on him however there is no way of knowing what that influence is until you get to know the guy. If he is genuine with you then there is no need to worry. Sometimes the apple does not fall far from the tree but sometimes it rolls as far away as it can. It just depends on his beliefs and how much he agrees with his family's ideals.
Good luck!
2007-03-17 20:27:52 · answer #1 · answered by twilite44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I don't think family defines us. If it did I would be a mess. Let him tell you who HE is. Ask him what He believes. And leave room in your heart and mind to eventually understand why his family believes what they do- because you may be judging them too harshly. Just because a culture is different doesn't necessarily make it wrong.
2007-03-18 03:26:57 · answer #2 · answered by Lesley M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The family always influences its children...but it doesn't mean that if his family is bad that he is bad too.
I'm sure as time goes by you will get to know him better but don't jump into marriage until you see every aspect of his personality and study it
2007-03-18 03:24:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
even though he may not show his family values they are some where in his closet. it is your job to find it before he turns into his real self. some people look at how they were raised and who they were raised around and say they will never be like that when they grwo up. but it is all up to you and that person. talk about it does not hurt to find out how he really feels inside.
2007-03-18 03:25:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've seen guys who had the most evil parents in the world and they were solid gold. Knew a guy who was an alcoholic and so were his sons, but his daughter refused to drink the stuff.
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2007-03-18 03:24:38 · answer #5 · answered by aguyinthewoods 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can be either way you know that isn't it.you are worried that you would be pulled into his culture.you should have thought about this when you said 'i love you'.all depends on both of you put together,not him alone.if you trust him go ahead,if you did trust him ,you wouldn't be asking this.so ?for you to answer.
2007-03-18 03:31:43 · answer #6 · answered by alec. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOPE!!!!!!!!!!Everyone grows up and acts, wants, needs etc. what they.... not what......wants .The Pope,if would have a child, could act like the Devil all on his own.Get the idea?
2007-03-18 03:25:04 · answer #7 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋