now he is texting me at work, wondering if i got my birthcontrol, wants to be condomless,etc. I'm 27, he's 25, and i;m afraid he may stalk me, or keep trying to "Get Some." He thinks i'm easy. I need help, Fast!
2007-03-17 20:14:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Does he work with you? If so, that is sexual harrassment that you can report to your supervisor.If you think he is stalking you, you probably should report it to the police.
2007-03-17 20:21:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best policy. If you are afraid of his responses do it in a letter or talk to him with a friend close by. I understand the condom issue for I am the same way in that regard. Just let him know that his aggression toward sex is a turn off for you and if he pushes the issue it is not going to happen. Stocking is a whole different situation. Get away fast if you think he's a stocker. But again open honesty is the best approach. Be blunt and tactful, Not to tactful. If he dose move toward stocking inform him that you will be contacting the police.
2007-03-17 20:25:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing in saying no. If he is so easy about sex, he is easy with anybody, and more likely has been with anybody. Aids is real, so is the clap and other diseases. The best girls are the ones that wait until they are married. I should know, I'm a guy and I distain girls who've had sex with other guys. I'll either marry a virgin or not marry at all, and there's more virgins out there than you think. Actual number according to the Government stands at 37 percent of girls over 25 are virgins..
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2007-03-17 20:21:49 · answer #3 · answered by aguyinthewoods 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
on the date, did u give him clear warnings that you do NOT want to have sex with him? you need to make sure that you are doing your part to ward him off. if you sent him mixed signals, then thats your own fault. as far as him stalking u, get a restraining order, if it comes to that. another solution to this, is do you have any friends that u think he would like and she would like him? im sure if u pawn him off on someone else, he'll leave u alone. try and think if there are any single girls that u dont really like too well. if there are, think of ways to introduce them, then maybe he will go away and be with her.
2007-03-17 20:22:20 · answer #4 · answered by waterlily750 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cut off all conversation and contact. Do not answer ANY attempts of contact from him....not even to say, "don't contact me". AVOID. This should not be hard to do...you just got done telling the world that he thinks you are a prostitute....or less. You owe this man nothing....not a response....not anything. He is not worth any thought or effort of any kind. He already holds no respect for you. He expects that you will answer his attempts at contact......so don't
2007-03-17 20:24:57 · answer #5 · answered by tlbrown42000 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sorry to hear that you have to deal with such a creep.
Please do not meet him again, EVER!
Tell him that you met someone else if he continues to hound you.
The most important thing of this story is to find out (dont ask him, he will lie) why he thinks you are easy.....is it something you said or did or is he just a jerk.
My point is taht you will contiue to have this horrible experience if it is something that you are saying or doing so lets nip that in the bud too!
GOOD LUCK
2007-03-17 20:19:28 · answer #6 · answered by lisa s 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
tell the cops if you see he is stocking you. in the phone book for non emergency's or call 911 if it is first of all tell aparent. or if your out side run in a stop can call 911.
2007-03-17 20:20:39 · answer #7 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be completely straight forward with him and tell him you are not interested in him at all. Do not answer any further text, phone, letters.
2007-03-17 20:19:50 · answer #8 · answered by Diver 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell him u just found out u r pregnant to ur ex or whoever u last slept with. that should scare him off
2007-03-17 20:17:50 · answer #9 · answered by Onie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well he thinks that because you probably are easy. just let him hit it once. sure he will leave you alone. you could always charge him and make yourself feel better when he is done. it will only take a minute.
2007-03-17 20:42:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋