Singles & Dating - 21 February 2007

2007-02-21 18:38:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was twenty one and he was thirty three. He used me for sex. He did not say that exactly. But, he said he called a helpline and could not be in a relationship right now. He said it was him. Did he use me? I think he used me for sex. Help me please.

2007-02-21 18:35:22 · 28 answers · asked by brooke992002 2

My girlfriend says the moment she fell in love with me, all the guys she thought were attractive instantly turned into just regular guys that she didnt notice if they were attractive or not anymore.

Also, when men even I think she would think are attractive walk in, she says "Nah, I don't notice him"

So pretty much i'm the only guy she notices, according to her.

Is she lying to not hurt my feelings, or is she really blind with all those other guys?

2007-02-21 18:34:20 · 28 answers · asked by xkhsxmexicanx 1

what are those subtle hints or gesures that you do that means you are interested in a guy that an inexperienced guy should pay more attention to?

2007-02-21 18:34:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was 23 I fell head over heels in love with an older man with whom treated me with respect and dignity. Due to my faith, I had no alternative but to turn my back on this love in my life... I did however get back in contact with him (he called me) 10 years later and we met 10,000 miles away... it was almost as if we had never parted.... the day I boarded the plane in saying goodbye, I felt my world ended... he still to this day hasn't married and vowed to me that he would be there for me "one day"... he is always in my thoughts, but, I am committed to a love lost marriage but I don't have the guts to bail... I know what I should do, but, I am scared....

2007-02-21 18:34:08 · 5 answers · asked by Porshe B 2

What moves you out of sexual conquest mode and into keep her around mode?
I once had a guy say something like
“She challenged me to do the right thing”
~~~ He said I never challenged him. I just followed behind
him telling him how great he was... how smart... what a great athlete. Adoring him got me f/d but no relationship!

What about a woman makes her more than a roll in the hay?

2007-02-21 18:33:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-21 18:33:32 · 7 answers · asked by shimu 1

rather than just someone he wants to sleep with? also..how do u make the step to be exclusive? if your just datinghow do u no when he becomes your man?

2007-02-21 18:29:38 · 12 answers · asked by duffbitch 2

is it after period or before which one is safer ??

2007-02-21 18:27:38 · 24 answers · asked by persianoooo 1

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2007-02-21 18:26:43 · 3 answers · asked by persianoooo 1

if a girl constantly keeps looking at u,without stopping..but when i look at her,then she turns away..how would u feel?? she's looking soooo much..now,i feel akward..does she like me..Help..

2007-02-21 18:21:59 · 25 answers · asked by Tom sam 1

I asked this earlier..
There is a guy I like, who I've like for over a year now. We work together and see each other everyday. Nothing has happened between us, but I sense a strong mutual attraction. We're both single.Usually, things are really good between us-we'll slightly flirt, he'll be open and joking with me, etc. But once in a while, there are days when he acts completely cold towards me. Like today...when we passed each other at work, we didn't even make eye contact with me or say hi, which he usually does. Then when I saw him later, he didn't say more than 7 words to me the whole 90 minutes we were around each other. He was open and really friendly with everyone in the room except me. It seemed like he was deliberately trying to avoid me. When I left he, he didn't say goodbye or anything.
Should I give him a dose of his own medicine tomorrow, or continue on as if nothing has happened? I know I didn't do anything to make him act this way. Is he testing me in some way?

2007-02-21 18:20:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-21 18:20:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

So my boyfriend and I went to a friends party over the weekend. It was going ok, but he was having too much to drink, along with his friends.

As the party was ending, I was one of the few girls left. While I was sitting with my boyfriend, he kept pulling my underwear and poking my butt with his finger. I kept moving his hand out of there, and eventually moved to a different seat. I hated it because all the boys were sitting behind me with him as well as he stuck his finger down my underwear.

When I wanted to leave, I told him I was going, and went to go get my purse. By this time, I was the only girl left. When I was going to get my purse, my boyfriend and his friends were all snickering. I figured he was being a fool. However, when I bent over to get my purse, my boyfriend came up and pulled my underwear out. Not only was it embarassing, but my butt was exposed as well, and all his friends were watching it! I surely didn't appreciate my butt being exposed to the world!

So break up?

2007-02-21 18:18:41 · 18 answers · asked by Katie F 1

Opposite attracts I already got that, but why do most women rejected and ignore guys who treated them with respect (whether he's fun and got confidence or not), and love and respect guys who treated them like a piece of crap? It seems like women who really WANTS and LOVES nice guys are very scarce. If that's the way god planned it, then so be it. More money and freedom for me.

P.S.- No, I'm not a virgin. Yes, I had been in the relationship before. I just want a really nice, honest, and truthful answer. (if possible)
THANK YOU (^_^)

2007-02-21 18:16:29 · 29 answers · asked by Earache My Eye 3

Is this looking directly at me thing good body language for "I want to know you better!" He does this all the time and has this sexy, sleepy look on his face.

I just read this in an article...
#6: He gazes at your face.
That’s instead of your décolletage, the mirror behind your head, or the 16-ounce porterhouse on his plate. “A man who focuses on your eyes when you’re talking may be looking for a deeper connection,” says Daniels. “By paying particular attention to your face and therefore giving himself the ability to pick up your verbal and non-verbal cues, he’s telling you that understanding you is important to him.”

2007-02-21 18:16:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Her Mom works there to so it is very hard to flirt with her since her Mom is watching all the time. She is a college student so she only work there part-time and it is hard to get a chance to talk to her and I don't want to be a "stalker" and following her around. Help!!!!!!

2007-02-21 18:15:24 · 9 answers · asked by pigboykool 3

I have this problem with my security, I'm very insecure, I fear things alot and have alot of doubts about things, and this mostly takes place in my relationships. I've been going out with this guy for over 6months, it's taking me some time to get use to him and trust him, I see him just about every weekend and during the week when I am at work, I want to call him, but I don't want him to think I'm being clingy so I hope he calls me and sometimes when he doesn't I get scared of our relationship even more and feel more insecure, he's been unemployed for 5 months and he's had difficulty finding a job so I spoke to my boss and we got him a job he started there this week, I'm just afraid that he's gonna lose interest in me....maybe coz I do tarot reading online and the cards today told me that there could possibly be a break-up in a close relationship, it's making me scared, I'm seeing him tomorrow and I'm afraid that he will change his mind... eeek!

2007-02-21 18:15:14 · 20 answers · asked by Sheepless 1

i loved my ex very much and i can't move on with my life.. i keep thinking about him.. what should i do? should i call him back and tell him how much i love him and would like to patch back with him? we just broken up 3 days' ago and I already feel that it is the end of the world

2007-02-21 18:13:15 · 15 answers · asked by alluring1314 1

what would you do without ur better half? can u seriously close ur eyes and picture ur life without them....how do you feel when u do dat? when i think about my boyfriend not being in my life it hurts because i love him more than life itself and i know he feels the same about me.

2007-02-21 18:11:37 · 6 answers · asked by annawuvzchris 4

How did U get over your low self-esteem or get it high enough so U could start dating. I’m finding that every time a guy looks at me and smiles I look away or down at whatever’s in my hands at the time. (this doesn't happen a lot, but when it does I react the same to it) I’m not crushing on them, but I’m pretty sure it has something to do with my low self-esteem. I, also, think this is a reaction to thought that most guys @ my college don’t want to be bothered by me. Most of the time when I’m in the cyber café I hear guys talking about, “Yo! She looks good! She looks like a model, man.” I wouldn’t fit that description. I’m big enough to be a plus sized model, but I don’t have the looks for it. I know there are guys who like big girls, but they are few and far between at my college.

Help plz.

2007-02-21 18:08:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do they just say wad is necessary n hang up?

2007-02-21 18:08:27 · 6 answers · asked by lemondevil88 2

She's damn hot.....and I'm feeling a little jealous. I hate this feeling,...does this mean I'm still having feelings for him?

2007-02-21 18:08:20 · 5 answers · asked by dun_give_ a_ damn 3

I was friends with this girl for years and she slept with the first guy I loved right after I left town. I found it in my heart to forgive her but she continued to display signs that she was untrustworthy and a disloyal friend. I ended the relationship with her. Now my boyfriend of 3 and a half years (not the one that slept with her) hangs out with her b/c his best friend and she became friends while she and I were still friends. It really upsets me that he hangs out with her when they were never friends and she hurt me so immensely. He just doesn't understand why I can't be friends with her, someone who hurt me in many ways. How do I make him understand why I can't spend time with her and why I wish he wouldn't either?

2007-02-21 18:07:05 · 6 answers · asked by wave5tide 1

guys can vouch for me, and girls are in denial. I figured this out a long time ago... but I was watching this MTV show, the one were a girl interviews two guys in a date setting and unknown to them her friend is in a servalance van and tells the chick on the date when one of the guys is lying or not. Well i watched three episodes and i noticed the girl always picked the guy who lied the most. Proof!

2007-02-21 18:06:52 · 8 answers · asked by Jesters Deadd 2

I' m a black woman that live in that lives in the heart of dixie:) Why is it more acceptable for black guys to date white women than it is for black women to date white men.It seem to me that black men get attitudes when it's the other way around.

2007-02-21 18:06:36 · 13 answers · asked by Ms Honee 4

A man I have known well for many yrs, admired, respected and been quite attracted to called me 2 days ago. He heard I had lost my husband (it's been almost 2 yrs).
This man possesses so much of what I have hoped for, so much of what I want. Totally masculine, untamed, in control. Everything in me wants to lay at his feet...
Great food, much wine, we talked into the night. The yrs totally melted and I found he felt much the same about me that I felt about him.
Last night he returned, things got much warmer. Low lights, more wine, perfect mood, both of us clearly and completely lost in each other. Then it happened. I blew it. Can't even explain it. I totally and completely withdrew. He left confused.
Today I wrote him. Totally humbled myself, put myself on my knees (so to speak). I explained my fears but deep desire to know him, to give myself to him.
So, what say you, guys? Will he answer positively? Reject me? What might YOU do? Should I hope? Or not?

2007-02-21 18:05:47 · 12 answers · asked by Ande 4

, since i also have strong attraction for him and he is drop dead gorgeous , and when he is around me in parties ,he does not pay any attention to his wife and he hangs around the area that i am and constantly tells me with his eyes that i am attracted to you, he started this way after he found out thru some documents that i have been very financially and socially successful and have made 3 times more than his brother makes in a year and i have managed the household very well and have made my husband a happy and successful man , before he didnot believe that a girl like me as a foreigner can accomplish that much due to the influence from his mom that always put me down.and told every one that she is not the winner, it is my son who has accomplished so much.now he found out by accident for himself that she was wrong about me and all she did was to back stab me and show me as a loser if she had not portrayed me like that i would have had my life with him than my present husband.

2007-02-21 18:04:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

OMG, it's like a bad dream came true....I really do find a very ugly man attractive!!! Do I need to see a shrink?? I think I am losing my mind....

2007-02-21 18:04:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

im really shy so i dont say anything to her when i see her(everyday) but she usually looks at me like she wants to say hi..but recently she stopped..i guess she gave up..but i recently sent her an e-mail saying i was sry for not sayin hi to her when i see her..and i asked her how she was doing and i havent gotten a responce..its been like 5 days..so wat u you guess think is going through her head? i really like her too..so im going crazy waiting for a responce..

2007-02-21 18:02:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous