So my boyfriend and I went to a friends party over the weekend. It was going ok, but he was having too much to drink, along with his friends.
As the party was ending, I was one of the few girls left. While I was sitting with my boyfriend, he kept pulling my underwear and poking my butt with his finger. I kept moving his hand out of there, and eventually moved to a different seat. I hated it because all the boys were sitting behind me with him as well as he stuck his finger down my underwear.
When I wanted to leave, I told him I was going, and went to go get my purse. By this time, I was the only girl left. When I was going to get my purse, my boyfriend and his friends were all snickering. I figured he was being a fool. However, when I bent over to get my purse, my boyfriend came up and pulled my underwear out. Not only was it embarassing, but my butt was exposed as well, and all his friends were watching it! I surely didn't appreciate my butt being exposed to the world!
So break up?
2007-02-21 18:18:41 · 18 answers · asked by Katie F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If this is an isolated incedent it could just be about the alcohol, that makes lots of folks act stupid. If he behaves like this a lot, I'd be making other plans. If it's isolated, talk to him about it, tell him how dissiapointed you are at his behavior. I wouldn't left a lot sooner than you did.
2007-02-21 18:22:47 · answer #1 · answered by heart o' gold 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-16 05:40:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend showed you no respect at all and they do say that you can find out how a guy is when he is around his friends. So what do you think can you handle him being rude to you again. I hope you break up with him even if it is for a little while to show him he cannot disrespect you like that. God bless.
2007-02-21 18:25:52 · answer #3 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not encouraging you to do this, but if I were you i would have put a slap on his face so fast, at the spot, and made his teeth play hide and seek together!
He deserves to be dumped. Who the hell or what the hell does he think he is, treating someone with so much disrespect?! Girl, if I were you I'd dump him and find someone who deserves you!
Good luck...
2007-02-21 18:28:03 · answer #4 · answered by saxoool 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
either break up with him or confront him when he is sober and tell him what if it were him that this was done to? How would he feel? and further more, you shouldn't be disprected in front of no one..... a man loves a lady to act a lady and be respected and treated as such in public, but when the two of you (empahasis) of just you and him are in bed alone, then he can act like a slut..
if it were me, whether he were in his right mind or not, I would dump him and tell him to grow up ...
Peace
2007-02-21 18:25:11 · answer #5 · answered by Porshe B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the only one who can chose to stay or go, but either way, don't let him get away with treating you like that. Tell him how it made you feel and if he ever does it again, drunk or sober, knock him on his a** then dump him. You don't need that in your life.
2007-02-21 18:27:57 · answer #6 · answered by kiera70 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Big time disrespect here. Drunk or not, he knew what he was doing. If he cares for you, he wouldn't show your butt to his goofy friends. He sounds like a bully to me. Dump his immature behind and find a real man who isn't such a stupid drunk. I'm actually surprised you didn't slap him. I would have!
2007-02-21 18:23:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and tell him how this made you feel. I would definitely say break up with this bastard, because anyone who disrespects women in that manner doesn't deserve to be with a good woman. But if you really love him and feel for him, talk to him. If the problem persists, consult your heart breaker manual.
2007-02-21 18:22:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's horrible.
Listen, if he really cares about you, he would never do that just to get the approval of his friends. It's ridiculous.
Yeah, he was drunk. But I'm pretty sure he knows what he's like when he gets drunk, and it's his own fault.
Talk to him seriously about it and really seriously consider the pros and cons of your relationship. Good luck.
2007-02-21 18:30:05 · answer #9 · answered by dark_reaction 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't stay with someone who is so obvious not respect me at all. Especially in front of everyone. Who knows what else he might do to disrespect me more in the future?
2007-02-21 18:24:03 · answer #10 · answered by Lilian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋