My girlfriend says the moment she fell in love with me, all the guys she thought were attractive instantly turned into just regular guys that she didnt notice if they were attractive or not anymore.
Also, when men even I think she would think are attractive walk in, she says "Nah, I don't notice him"
So pretty much i'm the only guy she notices, according to her.
Is she lying to not hurt my feelings, or is she really blind with all those other guys?
2007-02-21 18:34:20 · 28 answers · asked by xkhsxmexicanx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's the same way you don't notice beautiful women who walk by.
2007-02-21 18:39:06 · answer #1 · answered by Julia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm happily married and I can tell you that I know when a man is attractive or not. My husband is the same way with women, and we are both faithful towards each other. She's probably telling you this because she loves you and wants you to know that she only has eyes for you. So be happy knowing that you are the apple of her eye!
2007-02-21 18:41:20 · answer #2 · answered by Tiki™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how long you've been going out. At first, most guy are invisible to us girls if we're totally head over heals. After awhile, you do start to notice hot guys but if you're committed and in love, you're not going to act on it. It's human nature to see a hot person and look. We all do it at some point, it's how we react that matters. She could be telling the truth. Some women are totally absorbed in their men and don't really notice other guys, period. I notice hot guys but I don't drool over them or talk to them or anything because I adore my bf.
2007-02-21 18:38:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could be telling the truth, if she loves you shes not lying. I feel the same way about my boyfriend, he's the hottest guy in the world in my eyes, no one else even comes close, probably because I'm not even looking anymore, so even if they might be attractive, Im too busy thinking about my man to notice.
2007-02-21 18:38:15 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Interpreted 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a bold face lie, but she's lying because she doesn't want her man to get upset or perhaps even jealous. She's just being politically correct.
2007-02-21 18:39:35 · answer #5 · answered by Pontius 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can understand a glance here or there but to bring attention to it is a little over the top for my standards... I can only account for my own actions and if something is truly troubling to my loved one then I have to reach that common ground to keep our relationship stable... I completely understand your views and passion towards the issue and I think you have valid reason to question the actions but don't let it bring you to question yourself... If he gets defensive about it then there is a deeper issue that needs to be addressed but that's common courtesy 101 in my book... if I had a girl that always stated about guys being hot, etc... It would wear me thin very quickly and I'd probably get a little irritated in the process but the issue needs to be addressed and resolved to save the troubles of it lingering more and more in the future and hopefully he realizes the truth behind the love you profess for him and makes him take the unselfish act of obliging to your request(s)... Good luck...
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2016-04-16 11:36:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every girl notices wheather she admits it or not....HOWEVER that doesn't mean she cares....Just because a guy is attractive doesn't mean she is going to find you any less attractive especially if she loves you.
2007-02-21 18:39:36 · answer #7 · answered by Alicia H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The things your gf are saying could very well be true, she will still think they are attractive and would normally notice them but you are all she sees by the sound of it. I know for a fact that when you really fall for sumone your with, you dont really notice anybody else as the one you used to be looking for, you have found. This is huge for her and you it sounds like she really loves you and that noone else on her part could get between you 2 congrats and i hope she stands in your eyes as much as you do to her.
2007-02-21 18:47:18 · answer #8 · answered by tarasa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seeing as I am a girl, I don't like to put us down too much, but we do have a lot of faults...she is almost definitely lying. My bf is hot, i love him, but there are some things you only tell your gerlz. My friends know I will look a hot guy up and down if he enters the room and looks at me, but so will they if you get my drift. No one can help being attracted to the opposite sex. Its more a sexual thing probably coz you don't love them, just think they're hot!
2007-02-21 20:37:57 · answer #9 · answered by Bambi 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I thnik if she's very much in love with you or a faithful loving wife, probably she really did not notice, meaning that the person may be attractive but not attractive in her opinion or she thinks he is attractive but it means nothing to her. My husband of 24 years is balding, with a large spare tyre but in any crowd he still stands out to me as the most attractive.Maybe love is blind???
2007-02-21 18:39:56 · answer #10 · answered by riang 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋