Singles & Dating - 16 February 2007

Im n love with a guy that I used to just have a pure sex relationship. Feelings started 2 develop n I was ovr his house everyday. He tol me that if i couldnt reach him on his phone to just come ovr his house. one day i decided to take him up on his offer n he was having sex with another female. later i found out he gave me somethn i got rid of it. i know he's wrong for me and he hurt me so bad by doing that. But I cant help but think about him. When i see him he's alwys n my face calling my name or pulling my hair as i walk pass. Whn he sees a guy tryin 2 talk 2 me he trys his best to draw my attention from the guy to him. But u see the funny thing is tht he tol me he wasnt ready for a relationship whn wer 2gethr but he started messing with one of his coworkers n shes playin stepmom 2 his son n he 's driving her truck. What do i do? is somethin wrong wit me? leave him alone? stay away what? It would be kind hard to stay away because my friend is part owner of the business he works in

2007-02-16 03:02:00 · 16 answers · asked by FauxDr 2

If my bf and I get into a spat or are having problems....I write how I feel down in letter form. Then I keep it for a day or two then tear it up and throw it away. This way I get out how I'm feeling without a huge fight with him.

I did this yesterday and he found it...and now not only is he upset he thinks I'm the weirdest person alive. I find this to be a way to release and let go.....so my question is ....do you think this is weird or ok?

2007-02-16 03:01:52 · 22 answers · asked by to_sassy4_u 5

there's a guy that my friend really really likes, and he seems to be wear ever we are so i asked him one time when she wasn't around if he liked her and he said no, and so i asked her if he thought she was hot and he said no. and that he doesn't even know her. and some one told her that they sawme and him talking and she asked me what i said..so i told her aht he said that she was "sexy"..cuz his friend said she was(ha ha)..now she's all happy and wan'ts to start hanging out and talking to him, but if she does i'm afraid he'll tell her (he's a jurk) what should i do...

DRAMATIC! lOl! kidding. thank's love ya'll!

2007-02-16 03:01:16 · 17 answers · asked by California ♥ 2

My best friend needs a little help. She found that her boy friends not really a man like she thought. Turns out he doesn't go out he spends most of his days watching power rangers on youtube. She says its hard to take him serious when every friday night his power rangers fan club comes over with all there power rangers videos and watch them. She's upset because he never watches any good shows. He always watches little kid stuff like pokemon,power rangers,dragonballz,saturday moring cartoons, and pbs kids. HELP HER PLEASE. THE COMPLAINTS MUST STOP!

2007-02-16 03:00:40 · 6 answers · asked by purplepurp21 1

2007-02-16 03:00:04 · 27 answers · asked by muppet 4

I have photo's of a man that claims to live in Ikeja,Lagos,Nigeria. But as I have found out the zip code he gave me is for Va....He also gave me a cell phone number & the code for Nigeria does match the number he gave me.He claims he wants to come to the states.Yes, he has asked for me to send him money & I have refused to do such a thing.Though I have photos he sent me that was suppose to be him. And if there is anyone else that has met a guy online especially on yahoo personal.Please contact me at debbie_d1027 on yahoo. And I will send his photo to you to see if it's the same guy that you have been in contact with & have been talking & chatting with online as well as myself.

2007-02-16 02:59:37 · 4 answers · asked by Lonely Soul 1

Well I like this guy! And last year he liked me and told me that I was the perfect girl for him and I pushed him away and was so mean. (That was last March) And in October we started talking again and well got close and 3 weeks ago I told him we could just be friends but that was because I was afraid that he didnt like me anymore and I didnt want him to reject me.... But I love him and I dont know what to do? Any help?????

2007-02-16 02:58:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel that I can be superwomen and I can take care of myself and that I dont need a man because all they do is cause problems. Im independent and feel that I can take on everything by myself w/o the help of a male companion.

2007-02-16 02:57:21 · 12 answers · asked by lil_candi021 1

A friend of mine has a crush on this girl, and if this girl marries another man, he'll just kill that man and if the wedding is still going on, he''ll just threaten the guy. very scary, i mean, if i had a crush on this girl, i think a would be dead.

2007-02-16 02:56:25 · 6 answers · asked by thenewhorzta 3

thinking you and the other person were soulmates only to find out that you weren't?...............

I am in that relationship right now. After 4 years of being together and livng together. We've both relized that we aren't soulmates like we thought we were and we don't have that fire passion that you have when you are soulmates but we are good friends and about to end it.

2007-02-16 02:55:59 · 8 answers · asked by Irish Girl 5

other day I found a biopsy report laying on his floor. It was for a brain tumor that he had been diagnosed with 3 years ago. Brain tumors are not very curable and often recur in 3-5 years.

He is very emotional and I guess this would explain a lot. I would have to believe that he wonders how to tell me the news. He may have a minimum number of years to live.

Do I act like I don't know? Should I tell him that I saw the report? I do not feel that running is an option, as I just do not see that as a morally proper thing to do. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!! This has been tearing me apart, crying every night. I am also 39 y/o.

2007-02-16 02:55:49 · 8 answers · asked by cptkmwallman 2

2007-02-16 02:53:24 · 12 answers · asked by teresasalazar_95 1

Been in a relationship for 5 1/2 years, living with them for all that time. Now its over & I need to move on, but what's the best thing to do - go for the piece & quiet (& potential lonliness) of living alone or take the risk of moving in with a bunch of strangers?

2007-02-16 02:52:46 · 8 answers · asked by helen r 1

I fell in love with a guy last year, he then moved to a different country for 2 years. He promised that he would come back to me and then ask me to marry him. But it's been a month since I last heard from him and I want to let him go and move on with my life. Thing is....its easier said than done. Any ideas?

2007-02-16 02:52:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-16 02:51:21 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Guys and girls i need ur help?


OK i told this girl that i dont want to date her i just wanted to be her friend, and she still hinting at us getting together it drive me nuts and i really dont care about her i am sorry to say that but my heart dosent feel anything for her even as a friend we have both diffrent intrests and lifestyles for us to match as friends and all of a sudden she wants to be all close to my heart wich she said and wants to get us to the point of me saying i love her ok i deleted her from my msn am a bad guy because i feel bad

what else can i do to get thrw to her

she is rather annoyeing


i go to college with this girl

2007-02-16 02:51:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im Christian so i dont want sex before marrige but is THERE ANYTHING else that can satisfy u guys--give in details?

2007-02-16 02:50:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i don't see why!!!!! He talks to all my friends and well everyone!! it's not like he's giving me the cold shoulder but he just says a couple words to me and goes to talk with some one else. it's not like i'm boring either. everyone talks to me but not him. i'm really bummed and if you have any advice please give it to me!
thanks in advance,
smurfchat

2007-02-16 02:50:36 · 11 answers · asked by Lola 2

but the thing is that sometimes it just doesnt grow inside because always screams for anything and he's too jelous and tries to hold me back all the time...he alwyas argues with me over stupid things but when we break up he cries and tells me hes going to change and that he loves so to please get back because he wants us to get married.......what should i do?

2007-02-16 02:49:28 · 21 answers · asked by GotAnswers? 2

Men are said to be more visual and Women are said to be more about personality. Would you agree with that statement as being correct or do you think there is more to human attraction. What do you honestly think?

Please select one and explain your answer and if you have something to back up your findings list the link. Write more then one sentence and at least a paragraph on what your thoughts truly are. Choose a, b, c, d, or e along with your answer explaining why?


a) Balance in their whole being the pies factor. Physical, Intellectual, Emotional, and Spiritual. There has to be a lot more going on for me. All balanced and equally good.

b) Ah just "Personality and Looks" not into the deep stuff.

c) It's all about the looks of the person.

d) It's personality all the way.

e) How much money they have and how wealthy they are.

f) I am attracted to someone I am familar with and they remind me of someone I know.

2007-02-16 02:49:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it just a man thing.... we have been together for a year now... but i feel like he doesnt really get into my gifts...

is a mans gifts to you a reflection of his feelings or just something he isnt sooo into...

2007-02-16 02:48:49 · 18 answers · asked by coco 2

Why is it when you find a good girl that has everything going for her self. like a good job. is going to school. Pays all of her bills. is sweet, funny, good looking, and would do nice things for you, and even give you great sex. why oh why do you guys act like you don’t care. or why oh why do you guys act like you are not interested. and why do you guys play games. and when that girl just gives up on you after you didn’t treat her right why then you guys try to get her back and then its to late.

2007-02-16 02:46:54 · 14 answers · asked by ♥live life to the fullest♥ 3

ok, so one of my guy friends ("micheal") likes my friend Pendah... a LOT. seriously. he always tries to get up the courage to go talk to her, but he never actually does it.

Pendah's really oblivious though, and has NO IDEA that he liks her!! i don't know what to do! I think Pendah may like "micheal" too, but she'd never admit it (in fact, she accuses HIM of liking ME!)... help!!

also, please answer this question fast, pendah is a member of yahoo answers and im afraid she'll see it.

2007-02-16 02:46:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive been dating this guy (im 20,hes 24)for about a month and a half.I am really attached to him now, and I am starting to get VERY jealous feelings.He's not the best looking guy, but hes very outgoing and friendly.He lives in a diff. city than I do,so I dont know his friends very well.i get very angry whenevr I see him talking to or hugging another girl. I understand that they are his friends from high school,but it still bugs me(and no hes not the player type).I had a talk with him last week about this and he said he respected me telling him that and he would "take care of it".Well,last night we went out to a bar where he livesHe was doing the same thing that i asked him not to and he said that its harmlessHe also kept telling me Ishould pay more attention to him.I went to the bathroom and when I came out there was a girl all over him so I freaked out. He got really mad and said I embarassed him.I asked him what he want to do about "us" he said whatever makes me happy.What do u think?

2007-02-16 02:44:54 · 7 answers · asked by kimmy_717 1

2007-02-16 02:42:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-16 02:41:59 · 5 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3

It is just painfully boring.

2007-02-16 02:38:15 · 18 answers · asked by John J 1

I am a high school student, and I am going to graduate next year. My problem is I've been playin' it safe.I'm tired of playing it safe, but I've never dated. So how do I fined the right guy for me, and know he is there for me and not just to have a "good time"?

2007-02-16 02:37:53 · 6 answers · asked by latrece_r_06 1

She was the first girl that I ever loved deeply. And she cheated on me. After she did that... she told me that she felt reali bad and she will not be with anyone else...and just wait for me to return when Im ready. I took a big blow...unstable emotionally still today(been a year)...and she hasd lie to me constantly even after she cheated on me. I dont understand how she could lie after the fact that she cheated. Shouldnt she redeem herself? I would if I were her. Its been a year and now she just got with this other guy 2 days ago. AND I feel that she cheated on me once again because she went back on her word...cuz she said she'll wait for me. How could she just put away what we've been through? What should I do? I cant sleep anymore...I cant eat. I constantly have thoughts of suicide and thoughts of me confronting her and hurting her physically. I know Im suppose to go out but my friends arent the going out type....they do every once a month. How do I heal myself? What should I Do?

2007-02-16 02:36:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I realllly like this girl and We have hung out a couple of times and talked on the phone a couple of days ago, and I sent some flowers to her school on valentines day to show her that I really like her, she called me up later that night and said thank you and then we talked on the phone for like 20 more minutes. Then yesterday she called me 2 or 3 times but I didn't answer her calls because I was busy and I left my cell phone in my car when she did call. I tried calling her back later but her parents said she moved out of the house and she went to her friends house, I think she called me from her friends house but her number was listed as a private #. Should I call her later today? or do you think she will call me back?? I just hope she dosen't think that because I didn't answer her calls that she won't call again but she might think that I don't like her or that I was ignoring her or something, I hope i'm just being paranoid but what do you think??

2007-02-16 02:36:02 · 10 answers · asked by BAS 2