How do you become approachable?

Answer 1

If you're asking how do you become approachable as a girl, here are a few suggestions:

Generally men are looking for something to start up a conversation with you about. The problem is, is that women rarely give them anything. And when they do, women generally perceive their actions as coming from a horny male trying to get laid, therefore making it really difficult for even the good guys to approach unless they are in a setting where it makes things easier (e.g. school, class of some kid etc.)

First of all, smile and be more aware of your surroundings. If you see a guy looking at you, and you find him attractive, don't runaway. Move closer to his surroundings.

Second, wear things that a guy can comment on. Do you have a special necklace, cool earrings, or a nice bracelet? What about a strange pair of shoes? Guys are looking for things to start up a conversation about. If they use one of these things, don't get annoyed, even if they make fun of them. Oftentimes, guys think that because they are starting up a conversation with a girl, that the girl is automatically going to perceive them as wanting them, and therefore place them lower on the social totem pole. Therefore, they'll often make a dig about what you're wearing to see not only if you have a playful sense of humor, but also to make sure you don't get arrogant and just blow them off. If you do blow them off, they still have social value because they are the one that took a dig at you and you got angry.

Third, are you in shape? If you're not then get to the gym. If you want a good-looking guy to approach you, then you should hold yourself up to the same standards you have towards other people. Not only this, but the gym is a great place to meet guys. You can easily start up conversations with guys about working out, how to use a certain piece of equipment, etc etc.

In summary, if you want to become more approachable find ways to make it easier for other people to approach you. Put yourself in their shoes. Become more confident in yourself. Don't walk around with a posse of other girlfriends, because it only makes you more difficult to approach.

Hope this helps,
Rob

Answer 2

It's really simple...smile. Don't have a puss on your face or have a stand-offish attitude. I think it's hard enough for a guy to make the first move and risk being shot down...that long walk back across the bar after a 'no thanks' can be pretty brutal on the ego.

If you want to be approached by a certain someone, make eye contact and give a little smile - that's the green light.

Answer 3

I'm always working on this one myself, but I would say relax, smile and enjoy yourself (or at least at like you're enjoying yourself). I would think that if you seem friendly and warm, people would be more apt to approach you.

Answer 4

u just act normal and dont act like u dont want some one to approach u but dont act like u really want some one to approach u

Answer 5

A big huge smile and a great personality. Say "hi" more often to people you don't know. Reach out to people who seem down and invite them to lunch or just go hang out. Get to know different people and what they are all about. Be friendly and considerate.