Singles & Dating - 6 February 2007

My bf is a very busy man and travels alot. Hes always very serious and aggressive at work and thats how he is with me, so cold. But when I do get to see the other side of him, I love that. We had good moments together. He did say he's serious abt me. However, he rarely calls and hates it when I 'bother' him whether he is in the office, outside or overseas. When I voice out my concerns he said im being unreasonable, demanding and childish . I dont want to have negative thoughts but I cant read his mind, what he wants and cant get use to this cold treatment. Im a very affectionate person but hes actions make me feel less important at times and this would eventually drive me away. I do love and want to be with him. Maybe its his nature and maybe he has other ways of showing affection which is so hard to tell. How do I break this 'big piece of ice' without giving wrong signals and damage the relationship further.

2007-02-06 16:12:07 · 5 answers · asked by Sheri 1

2007-02-06 16:11:03 · 13 answers · asked by Rick O 2

I've thought about writing a cute little Valentine card, as this would be a good time to break the ice. Any suggestions?

2007-02-06 16:07:49 · 7 answers · asked by "Stacia" 1

It seems like i can't orgasm and i just get too tired too quickly. i feel like i'm letting my man down, i give him pleasure other ways tho...

2007-02-06 16:07:37 · 3 answers · asked by Starry Eyes 5

I've been with my boyfriend for 7 years and he still hasn't asked me to marry him, am I stupid or just in love I don't know. He always wants things his way and so do I, he is a Sagittarius and i am a Aquarius. I wonder do our signs match????

2007-02-06 16:06:28 · 8 answers · asked by crystal c 1

3 weeks ago my ex-bf called me & asked me to go see a movie with him. The weird thing is that HE was the one who dumped me, we only dated for one month AND this call came after one year. I said yes, he picked me up, then as soon as the movie was done he drove me home. It felt kinda rushed, on the drive home when I asked him why he wanted to see he said, "I wanna see you every once in awhile". We never had sex cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. During this year although he never asked me to see him, he did talk to him on msn. Is he stringing me along & what does he want? He's 26 while I'm 21.Some say he wants sex, but he knows my beliefs and he can get anywhere since a lot of girls put out. He could still have feelings for me but why won't he just ASK ME OUT again? Not ask me to “hangout” but I mean why won't he ask me to be his gf again, to really date again? I mean he's 26, he's graduating from grad school, gonna get his MBA degree & he's strating a job in June. It seems like he wants to settle down but why won't he just ask me out? What the hell is his deal?

2007-02-06 16:05:08 · 13 answers · asked by Hottie 1

I'v been dating this guy for 2 months and we have not seen eachother for a week because schedules conflicted eachother, but we did talk for a few hours each night and he would always tell me how much he missed me and then sunday we he was gonna come over and he did'nt and I have not been able to get a hold of him since. Why would he say he missed me one day and disappear the next? I really wish he would have been honest with me, instead of leaving me wondering....ok...sorry small lil vent there.

2007-02-06 16:04:21 · 3 answers · asked by ohiogirl2009 2

girls will call me cute and sum hot what does cute mean? i mean a baby is cute, a puppy is cute. whats that suppose to mean

2007-02-06 16:03:58 · 13 answers · asked by dark_days7 1

When I first met her, she wasn't exactly what I was looking for. Eventually, over the course of about a year, we got to know eachother alot better. We're now pretty much best friends. The day before her 15th birthday, last Saturday, I told her I loved her. The next day, the day of the Super Bowl, she broke up with her boyfriend, who she'd been with since before she and I were friends at all. She still won't tell me why she did it. She was single all up until today. Her facebook status went from "in a relationship with" to "single" to "married" (obviously not really, she's 15) in 4 days. But I had the chance! There were 3 days where she was still with nobody. I still like her alot, and she still knows it. I really want to be with her; I can't stop thinking about her, now. There's no other girl in the world who's ever been this close to me... not many girls even like me at all. Should I try and break up her and her new "boyfriend"? Or should I just be friends and wait? I'm so confused...

2007-02-06 16:03:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

like not forgiving u right away and it was just an accident i mean i said was sorry what should i do now??
helppppppppppppppppp

2007-02-06 16:02:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've always wondered if boys have as much drama as us girls do.

2007-02-06 16:01:13 · 22 answers · asked by dirtbikgal 1

Do guys actually want to marry a virgin?

How would it make you feel to know that your wife or future wife saved herself for you?

2007-02-06 16:00:18 · 16 answers · asked by Cheyenne 2

i dont care much, lol im not self-conscious just curiousi have a lil
but how do girls feel about guys w/:

acne
contacts/glasses
braces
height
muscularness? lol

2007-02-06 15:59:25 · 16 answers · asked by Andrew 2

I am a guy who is new in Los Angeles and looking to build a circle of friends. Some of the people I am meeting online are women that are interested in dating. I don't want to rule out dating, afterall if we like each other as friends more could develop, but I really don't want to start dating until I have some friends first. How can I make friends and keep options open without messing everything up?

2007-02-06 15:59:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've known this guy for a while through a school sport, and now that it's ending, we can't hang out unless we get each other's phone numbers and hang out outside of school and sports. How should i ask him without seeming like I want to date him?

2007-02-06 15:57:43 · 9 answers · asked by :] 1

He has a backround of serious anger management!!!!!!!! Plus, i think he's ugly and I like another person in my class. (I'm in high school and my parents don't want me dating until sophmore year and i don't want them to get invovled)

2007-02-06 15:57:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-06 15:56:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

she and i have been secretly seeing each other

2007-02-06 15:56:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

So there was this guy i really liked and i thought he liked me back but obviously he doesn't because he likes this girl named courtney. Well todayy he was very down and stuff and i thought it was just one of those days i'd be able to chipper him up but no it wasn't.........i asked him why he was madd and he gave me a dirty look and he has never given me that look so i was wondering through 1st if he was mad at me. Ok so there is this girl named felicia and she usually thinks everybody is flirting and when i asked him what was wrong felicia said stop flirting when he was actually gonna tell me something!! So heres the deal he was nice to everybody else but me the entire day and that's just torture to me!!!! when i get my myspace back the first thing i'm gonna do is talk to him about this but of course i'm nott gonna be mean!!! any other ideas????
please i'm desperate right now because i really like this guy and he ignored me for the first time ever!!!

2007-02-06 15:55:25 · 13 answers · asked by diamonds_are_love 2

Instead of sitting here at the darn computer?
I know I should...
Its 12:00am and I have to work in the morning...

2007-02-06 15:54:38 · 10 answers · asked by ♥ Jasmine ♥ 4

I'm in college and never had a date. I was a late bloomer and didn't even think about girls that way until I was 17. I get made fun of by a lot of other guys for not ever dating girls. Is this such a bad thing? My goals in life involve finishing college with the best grades I can and then going on to get a pHD (I'm a physics major) and have never really included a relationship. Obviously, I'll be 30+ by the time I'm finished school; would it be too late to start dating then? Should I just forget about having a relationship and work on my school/career? BTW, I do have friends and they are an important part of my life, so it's not like I'm a loner.

2007-02-06 15:52:50 · 23 answers · asked by Steady As She Goes 2

This girl I really like has way over protective parents all she wants to do is see a movie or come hear my band play (she told me that) and her parents wont let her out of the house with me I offered to meet them and they still said no they if I call her, her dad freaks out and she is stuck baby sitting almost every weekend and when she has a free weekend we can't do anything. her parents have never met me so I don't know what there problem is it not against her religion or anything like that. if anyone who has had this experience or has advice could help me on how to get her parents to chill out I would appriciate it.

2007-02-06 15:52:32 · 5 answers · asked by matman 1

my ex had bought me a big screen tv. well we agreed if we breakup that i pay half of the tv. well we broke up and i had got the money up to give him. i told him to come in the morning and get it. well he said i dont have to pay him right now. but to me that sounds like he is still trying to hold on. because im tired of how he treats me sometime. well should i just not worry about it or should i just go ahead and pay him and be thru with him. im really short on money right now but i just want to resolve this matter. and he did make remarks like why should he pay for a tv that another man will be watching. well i dont want to date him anymore and i think he knows that. so he might just want to have something to hang over me and keep me in his dept. or maybe he dont want the money. what do you think?

2007-02-06 15:52:23 · 6 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4

Will going up to a girl for the first time in fornt of her friends be better or worse?

Will her judgment of me change? or will it look better?

2007-02-06 15:52:09 · 28 answers · asked by Andrew 3

Ive been called a pretty boy tons over the yrs or very good looking by many girls. Im not bragging but I feel i wouldnt be able to date as many girls if i wasnt that great looking. so my question is how much do looks count for girls to be initially interested in a guy?

2007-02-06 15:51:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, me and my boyfriend just got together last week. he told me yesterday that at our last dance, winter formal, where he was my date, he kissed another girl. we weren't together yet though so i don't know if i should be mad at him or not. I know we weren't together but i'm just confused why he would kiss another girl right before he asked me out, especially when she wasn't his date and she had her own date at the dance.
Plz help, i'm so confused...

2007-02-06 15:50:37 · 10 answers · asked by xbambix 2

there is this girl i like and i hung out with her friday night, and saturday night. she has had sum bad stuff happen to her and carries it with her still. I want to help her, i dont want her to feel the pain she carries with her all the time. So she drinks to dull the pain and she hates talkin to people. cuz of what happened. i want to show her happiness cuz i was down a lot in life cuz of the way i looked and stuff but grew up, she is so beautiful and id give anything to make her happy.
she was even suprised that i listened to every word she said, never breaking eye-contact w/ her. she told me that night that she had never recieved roses before from anyone, so later that night i went out to buy her a dozen roses, and she was so happy. ive never felt like this with a girl. she is so cool to hang with. i try to talk to her all the time she tells me stuff she doesn't tell anyone else, but she is moving in July and doesnt want to hurt me, and she spazzed on me one night

2007-02-06 15:49:48 · 2 answers · asked by dark_days7 1

Im pretty depressed now that the girl I liked has moved away...and I dont know what to do...we can still talk on the phone and stuff, but it's not the same and Im becoming incredibly sad and bored without her....hmphh PLEASE HELP....any suggestions on what I can do??? Thanks...... : (

2007-02-06 15:49:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Seriously. If you had to pick. If you would pick hot-smart or cute-smart, please specify as a footnote.

2007-02-06 15:48:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Oh man, once I figure this mess out I'll be happy...so thank you for your time for those who answer this, I appriciate it.
So.... theres this girl i like (kinda) and she likes me (shes told me and I can tell by her body language) and the thing is.... I dont know if she really likes me, if she is playing me, or just playing hard to get. Or if its just that everything is happening in coincedence (sorry my spelling blows).
Anyways, heres the story... she says im cute, and she likes me...that im am sweet and what not. When I flirt, she smiles at me. However this girl is weird as hell... She told me to come to her house after saying that her dad wont care, well i go and she says that he said she cant have company. Also she is always telling me that she thinks her sister likes me (knowing that i dont care) I asked her out to the movies, and she said yeah, but she cant have company on the weekdays, only weekends? And she keeps hanging up on me on the phone.. out of words to use. sorry

2007-02-06 15:48:34 · 2 answers · asked by wickerpark 2