Im pretty depressed now that the girl I liked has moved away...and I dont know what to do...we can still talk on the phone and stuff, but it's not the same and Im becoming incredibly sad and bored without her....hmphh PLEASE HELP....any suggestions on what I can do??? Thanks...... : (
2007-02-06 15:49:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Shes living in Hesperia,IM in Ontario,California same state but about an hour away and PS I cant drive!!!
2007-02-06 15:53:06 · update #1
mostlikely you will either get over being sad on your own, or you will need to go out and start dating someone else to help you get over her. This is an OK thing to do.... just let the girl who moved away know that you still have feelings for her, and are having a hard time with her move, and tell her that you need some time to get to a better place. And let her know that when you do, you totally want to keep in touch (via phone, e-mail etc) Sometimes all you need to stop feeling so blue is some days without hearing her voice.....and get up, off your couch, and get out there.... social contact will make you feel alot better. Not to mention it may be a needed distraction. Have fun, don't jump into another serious thing... give it time, sounds like you really liked the first girl.
2007-02-06 15:56:41 · answer #1 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
man i know what you sayin ... my girl moved too but the difference is i am 22 and u i think not over 16 right ??? listen i dont mean to be judgemental or anything what i mean to say is i think u should take one step back ... because u dindnt even say that she was ur girl friend .. so i am assuming that u just liked her ... well if u like her what u can do is still keep contact with her and keep talking and occassionally u can go visit too ... what will be logical and best for u both will be is that u should from now see her as a really good friend and cherish everything in that regard ...
as for getting bored and depressed u can find new friends and try to do the same things you guys used to do ... so that u know u get the feeling ... thats it man ... it ll b all cool ... just hang on and keep having fun ... dont sit at home and slump ... when she sees how fun and everything u are maybe she ll remem them too and who knows maybe come back too ???
what say ...
2007-02-06 23:58:22 · answer #2 · answered by Yash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you both have a computer and webcam? Keep in touch that way. How far away did she move? Is it possible to visit each other occasionally? If you both are young, there is lots of time to find out if she is the one. In the meantime, get out and do things with your other friends. Moping does not help anything.
2007-02-06 23:55:39 · answer #3 · answered by Katykins 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard loosing someone. i know i moved over the summer. and i broke up with my boyfriend because of it. it was hard and i was sad for a while but then ij ust had to realize that i needed to move on. and you need to 2 move on also. try not to be sad. open your eyes and take a look at whats around you. because you are probably missing out on a great girl right next to you and you don't even realize it.
2007-02-06 23:56:09 · answer #4 · answered by allie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lonelyin, I think your putting waaaay too much emphasis on this girls importance in your life. Get a hobby, go out with a group of friends, bounce quarters off your brothers ***, whatever, she's moved away end of story........do you honestly think she's going to be moping around the new place she moved to because of you, I'm willing to bet NO.
2007-02-06 23:53:57 · answer #5 · answered by brooklynsss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go Visit or move with her. You only live once - if you believe this is the girl then go for it. If you are unsure then go out and have fun! Find a new girl and you might even end up happier with her!!
2007-02-06 23:53:07 · answer #6 · answered by yahoooooooooo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, she JUST moved away. Give it time. Ask this question again in about 2 months. Give it 2 month's before you complain.
2007-02-06 23:52:34 · answer #7 · answered by Debi in LA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need something else like another passion. Go to http://www.myspace.com/erickooproductions and you'll see what I am talking about. You can comment me or by messages is js fine because i've had the same experience
2007-02-06 23:54:57 · answer #8 · answered by Salvy102 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sit at home gloating about it. You must interact with other's to take your mind off of it. Maybe you and She can plan when you will see each other and that can help ease the pain of missing her.
GL!
'-)
2007-02-06 23:52:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start casual talking and let by gone be gone forever this is if you still want ur g.fren, and with you approaching her aim sure she wil forgive and forget what soever and start again.
2007-02-06 23:53:11 · answer #10 · answered by sharon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋