Do guys actually want to marry a virgin?
How would it make you feel to know that your wife or future wife saved herself for you?
2007-02-06 16:00:18 · 16 answers · asked by Cheyenne 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lucky for one thing; that doesn't happen too often here in So-cal. 2ND It makes your marriage which is something so special even more special. Something about a profound respect for their decision too; they probably went through a few boyfriends and not all men are respectful so it would have taken her a lot of courage and determination to keep it that way. Also for me personally and I don't know if anyone would share the same view; but marrying a virgin; it's unique because she won't compare you to anyone else she's been with. And last but not least a woman saving herself for marriage is like an unopened gift; and it is the most sacred thing she can offer a man; of course after marriage.
2007-02-06 16:11:18 · answer #1 · answered by nestor_armas 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi, absolutely! I did and guess what she did to! Course that was a few years ago and was it not as unique then as it is today. We've been married now 23 years. It was and is a relationship based on both friendship and passion but is filled with respect for each other and ourselves.
I am not actually sure which is the most important element other than I really believe it is quite impossible to respect and care for others when you have lost respect and integrity within yourself.
Be true to yourself. Keep your integrity physically and mentally and you will find a soul mate who does and is likewise. My wife and lover is by far the better half of our life I only hope to some day be worthy of her gift to me.
love and best wishes!
2007-02-07 00:12:10 · answer #2 · answered by MtnManInMT 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It would be nice to find a future wife that is a virgin so that I can show her the way I want her to be in the sack and then she wouldn't be comparing me to another dude. On the down end, I've seen when sheltered women mature they get more curious than what I would want.
2007-02-07 00:07:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I, too, am a virgin, and intend to stay that way until my big night as a wedded man. I'd marry a virgin and knowing she saved herself for me makes me feel like I'm the best one for the job.
2007-02-07 00:03:25 · answer #4 · answered by airjimmyshoes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is like anything else in the world there is the pros and cons. It is a nice thought, but what if she has really geared herself up for that first night and is disappointed with her husband in bed? And it never really improves? All the sudden all those guys you heard about that were great in bed seem even more attractive and BOOM! Your out there slingin it with every bozo with a stiffy. Or you make sure you are both compatible now and get married later. There is nothing worse than being hitched to a bad lay!
2007-02-07 00:05:37 · answer #5 · answered by raiderking69 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i don't think most guys would want to. but it sounds nice the way you put it, saying that a person saved herself. anyway marrying a virgin would be breaking the charolastra manifest.
2007-02-07 00:06:57 · answer #6 · answered by jonsinher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd give her more respect and be like wow! I would be heart felt I guess. Good luck...
now a days, it's all personally preference about the virginity.
2007-02-07 00:04:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it would be pretty cool
there's little to none chance of STD's, they are "innocent", smart, stubborn (in a good way), and goal orientated,
i think that thats a awesome thing to do
i'd marry a virgin if i could
2007-02-07 00:04:26 · answer #8 · answered by Nolan H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course.If not you wonder how she was with her previous partner.Did she make comparisions sexually.Maybe promiscious and may find yet another man.If she saved herself for you it is a token of true love and devotion.
2007-02-07 00:08:26 · answer #9 · answered by jjinbkk 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not something that would make a difference to me.
2007-02-07 09:31:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋