Will going up to a girl for the first time in fornt of her friends be better or worse?
Will her judgment of me change? or will it look better?
2007-02-06 15:52:09 · 28 answers · asked by Andrew 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What if I went up to her in front of her friends then asked to talk to her privatley or something
2007-02-06 16:00:45 · update #1
If you go in front of her friends YOU'D BETTER BE ONE SMOOTH DUDE!! You will have to be firing on all cylinders to effectively pull that one off. When women are with their friends they're in a protective pack that will not hesitate to shoot you down.
However, if the gazelle strays from the pack....
.... that is your best chance.
When she is alone, she has nothing to prove in front of her friends. She is stripped down to her own simplest form... her true self. You will find it much easier to talk to her this way.
Good luck, bro!!
2007-02-06 15:56:33 · answer #1 · answered by BrewMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you go up to her alone, it will be a lot more personal, and would probably be easier for you to handle. If you go up to her while she's with her friends, make no mistake - her friends will definitely talk about what happened afterwards, and may even be able to change her opinion of you!
2007-02-06 15:57:52 · answer #2 · answered by lunesca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she is with her friends she might be more herself and just act normally. But, if she is with her friends she might not talk to you as much as she will if she is alone. She also might judge you a little differently in response to what her friends think.
It depends on your comfort zone. For some people, it might even be more comfortable to come up to her when she is with her friends because then it isn't really akward.
But, if you are really focused on having her full attention and want to talk to her about something important, then I would come up to her when she is alone.
2007-02-06 15:56:26 · answer #3 · answered by Dancer101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when she is alone is the best way to go. if you ask her when she is with her friends you are putting her in a tight squeeze. besides if she says no you'll only one person laughing at you, otherwise you might have 5, 6 or maybe more laughing and pointing at you.
2007-02-06 15:56:26 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Sir 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when she is alone because u never no how she might react when she with her friends no just u and her.but who really knows.most girls judgments about a guy r different in front of thier friends.
2007-02-06 15:57:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, her friends can influence her decision to talk to you, but she should still be cordial.
However, if a girl allows her friends to dictate who she talks too, she is to dependent and probably a disaster waiting to happen.
2007-02-06 15:56:20 · answer #6 · answered by Ryanz_way 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her when shes alone when you talk to her around her friends she will think of you just like a friend
2007-02-06 15:55:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alone
2007-02-06 15:54:57 · answer #8 · answered by tooyoung2bagrannybabe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is with her friends then they can influence her decision for bad or good.. do it alone in a publice place so she doesn't fel intimidated!
2007-02-06 15:56:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when girls r with their friends, a lot of desicions r made because of them or because they r influenced by them. plus, if she rejects u for whatever reason, u would feel better with just her and not the whole group of friends...
2007-02-06 15:56:20 · answer #10 · answered by book worm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋