What should i do about this now ???? girls only?

Question

there is this girl i like and i hung out with her friday night, and saturday night. she has had sum bad stuff happen to her and carries it with her still. I want to help her, i dont want her to feel the pain she carries with her all the time. So she drinks to dull the pain and she hates talkin to people. cuz of what happened. i want to show her happiness cuz i was down a lot in life cuz of the way i looked and stuff but grew up, she is so beautiful and id give anything to make her happy.
she was even suprised that i listened to every word she said, never breaking eye-contact w/ her. she told me that night that she had never recieved roses before from anyone, so later that night i went out to buy her a dozen roses, and she was so happy. ive never felt like this with a girl. she is so cool to hang with. i try to talk to her all the time she tells me stuff she doesn't tell anyone else, but she is moving in July and doesnt want to hurt me, and she spazzed on me one night

Answer 1

Don't let yourself get too emotionally attached, to be honest with you it doesn't sound like she is ready for a relationship right now. I have been where she has been it sounded as if you had just jumped out of my past.... People who still carry there past with them are destined to have relationships fail, and she is right she will hurt you if you do get too close either that, or you will hurt her in her fragile state and she is trying to keep you at that distance. I am not trying to be mean by saying these things, but she does need to get help or she needs to learn to put the past behind her before she can have a successful relationship with anyone whether it be romantic or platonic. Anyone who lives in their past does not have a future of happiness. I say this because I have been there, trust me it is hard, but if she really cares she will get help, and if you really care about her, you will keep your distance. Good luck, I hope you make the right choice.

Answer 2

You have a few choices on this one. First, if you really just enjoy spending time with her and you want to be supportive, be her friend. It seems like you've been very good to her, and maybe that's what you and she can be satisfied with.
Another option is that you can pursue a romantic relationship with her, assuming that she wants that too. Just be aware that you'll both hurt when she moves, so be prepared for that heartache.
You can also cut ties now before you get too entangled. It sounds like she has some heavy baggage, and maybe neither of you are ready to sort through that.
Personally, I like the first option best. Good luck.