3 weeks ago my ex-bf called me & asked me to go see a movie with him. The weird thing is that HE was the one who dumped me, we only dated for one month AND this call came after one year. I said yes, he picked me up, then as soon as the movie was done he drove me home. It felt kinda rushed, on the drive home when I asked him why he wanted to see he said, "I wanna see you every once in awhile". We never had sex cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. During this year although he never asked me to see him, he did talk to him on msn. Is he stringing me along & what does he want? He's 26 while I'm 21.Some say he wants sex, but he knows my beliefs and he can get anywhere since a lot of girls put out. He could still have feelings for me but why won't he just ASK ME OUT again? Not ask me to “hangout” but I mean why won't he ask me to be his gf again, to really date again? I mean he's 26, he's graduating from grad school, gonna get his MBA degree & he's strating a job in June. It seems like he wants to settle down but why won't he just ask me out? What the hell is his deal?
2007-02-06 16:05:08 · 13 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
simple remember alot of guys want what they cant have if you did have sex with him chances are he'd be gone after that.
2007-02-06 16:09:51 · answer #1 · answered by Robert C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to find out it you have change your mind from a year ago, that;s a long time and he figure he would try and give it a go to see were you were coming from and to see if you still like him because he dump you, Yes he is trying to so his oaks, also 26 years old is still to young to settle down, he is still girl happy,if you know what i mean.
2007-02-07 00:15:25 · answer #2 · answered by I am women 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a strange situation. You and he seem to be in very different stages of life, and you're not communicating effectively because of that. Your best bet is to come right out and ask him for some clarification. Guys can be kind of dense when it comes to answering a woman's questions clearly. Ask him in a direct way, using specific examples, what his goals are for your relationship.
2007-02-07 00:11:20 · answer #3 · answered by spanishmarlena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really have answered your own question.Why waste time just holding hands with you when he can have a sexual relatiohship with someone else At the age of 26 he needs sex.
2007-02-07 00:14:38 · answer #4 · answered by jjinbkk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, there's not enough affection (plus passion) in your relationship. Ala.. go ahead. U dun hav to wait til you r married to have sex. Come on we are in the modern era now. No one cares if you're a virgin or not. Cos sometimes baby... love just aint enough....
2007-02-07 00:12:35 · answer #5 · answered by marriot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause he dosnt want you after amonth he breaks up with you and then calls you a year later he kjust wants to be friends, my x fiance did the same **** she ended it when i was in basic, cheated on me before i went tot basic when i was in wisconsin and she was in texas and she started emailing me while i was over in iraq she aid she wanted to talk and be friends thats it i asked her why she even said she still said i love you and she said cause she dos and honestly she dos just she just wants to be friends just like he does
2007-02-07 00:10:50 · answer #6 · answered by Metalup87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe his just playing withyour fellings. if you still have fellings him maybe you said something to someone and they told him. or maybe his just needs someone but isnt ready to be with anyone as boyfriend and girlfriend.
2007-02-07 00:09:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants sex. You won't give it to him. Why would he want a girlfriend who won't give him sex?
2007-02-07 00:22:04 · answer #8 · answered by Alan K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gee.... i have no idea whats your situation.
but i am 14 and i think sex have to wait
2007-02-07 00:12:15 · answer #9 · answered by elaine_lurvbes_yooh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you why?if i were my shoe Just perserve virgintie coz Its better gives your areal one you eternal husband.better than any body else okay.!!!!
2007-02-07 00:58:46 · answer #10 · answered by sergio a/dino 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋