He just disappeared with out a word.?

Question

I'v been dating this guy for 2 months and we have not seen eachother for a week because schedules conflicted eachother, but we did talk for a few hours each night and he would always tell me how much he missed me and then sunday we he was gonna come over and he did'nt and I have not been able to get a hold of him since. Why would he say he missed me one day and disappear the next? I really wish he would have been honest with me, instead of leaving me wondering....ok...sorry small lil vent there.

lol, yes he is!! I'v already have, I just really wish I knew the reason why someone would do that!

Answer 1

I had the same thing happen to me. The best guy ever told me that i was perfect and there was nothing about me that he disliked, I had dated him for 5 months. He went on vaca to see his family and then dissappeared, even though, like you, I had talked to him every night of the vaca. He didn't answer the phone when I called nor did he return my messages. I caught up with him a year later on myspace. He sent me a message out of the blue apologizing and said he was a runner. okay now my story is over.
A runner is a guy that has developed feeling for his lady and it seems the relationship(to him, mind you) is going to quickly and he catches up to himself. That is when he gets scared because he doesn't know what to do. Have you ever heard of "fight or Flight'? well he chose flight.... It happens with women too... there is not much you can do about it. And you can't be persistant because that will make him run further... it sucks, i know!
Hope all goes well!

Answer 2

Yeah, definately a jerk. Maybe he's locked up or something? Hopefully nothing awful happened. I don't know what to tell you. Who knows he may pop back up and give you some sorry excuse of what happened. Just wait and see and in the mean time try not worry yourself too much with it.

Answer 3

What a jerk!! Move on girl!