my ex had bought me a big screen tv. well we agreed if we breakup that i pay half of the tv. well we broke up and i had got the money up to give him. i told him to come in the morning and get it. well he said i dont have to pay him right now. but to me that sounds like he is still trying to hold on. because im tired of how he treats me sometime. well should i just not worry about it or should i just go ahead and pay him and be thru with him. im really short on money right now but i just want to resolve this matter. and he did make remarks like why should he pay for a tv that another man will be watching. well i dont want to date him anymore and i think he knows that. so he might just want to have something to hang over me and keep me in his dept. or maybe he dont want the money. what do you think?
2007-02-06 15:52:23 · 6 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He told you that you didn't have to pay him right now. Okay then just leave it like that. He'll probably be an asshole and ask for the money when you don't have it anymore.Just leave it alone for now
2007-02-06 16:00:36 · answer #1 · answered by Proud Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like you are trying to hold on to him too.If you are serious about not having anything to do with him then you would have made it your business to make sure that he had taken the money from you. I don't understand why you women just don't go out and buy these things yourself that way you wouldn't have to go Through these type of things.Tell him to either take the money or the T.V.and that you are through with him for good.put the money up somewhere and don't spend it so that when he does come for You can pull it out and give it to him and see if he comes up with another reason not to want it.By the way whats his name or his initials?
2007-02-07 03:42:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
by all means even if it runs you short give him the money but make sure you get a receipt for the cash in case one day in the future we should see you on Judge Mathis he sounds like he is in the mood to try and reconcile and since you want none of this pay and get rid of
2007-02-06 23:59:37 · answer #3 · answered by billc4u 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him the usual "30 days or quit" type option. Tell him, if he doesn't collect the money within 30 days, he loses. If you can get him to sign something, even better. I think you're right though... he wants you to feel you owe him something. Pretty sad.
2007-02-06 23:58:49 · answer #4 · answered by zosofan59 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear its depand upon understanding between you and yur ex. with my opnioin you should pay right now because it was a deal and you shold not break a deal. its put bed effects on your personlaty.
2007-02-06 23:59:21 · answer #5 · answered by MAHI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't pay, you should set-up a payment plan or give back the TV.
2007-02-07 01:18:30 · answer #6 · answered by zotzotzot 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋