When I first met her, she wasn't exactly what I was looking for. Eventually, over the course of about a year, we got to know eachother alot better. We're now pretty much best friends. The day before her 15th birthday, last Saturday, I told her I loved her. The next day, the day of the Super Bowl, she broke up with her boyfriend, who she'd been with since before she and I were friends at all. She still won't tell me why she did it. She was single all up until today. Her facebook status went from "in a relationship with" to "single" to "married" (obviously not really, she's 15) in 4 days. But I had the chance! There were 3 days where she was still with nobody. I still like her alot, and she still knows it. I really want to be with her; I can't stop thinking about her, now. There's no other girl in the world who's ever been this close to me... not many girls even like me at all. Should I try and break up her and her new "boyfriend"? Or should I just be friends and wait? I'm so confused...
2007-02-06 16:03:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should just be her friend and let it be that, she know how
you feel and if she felt the same way she would have made
it clear from the begining, dont waste your time. be there for
her as a good friend but time to find that someone for you.
she has.
2007-02-06 16:09:28 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you expressed your feelings to her and she dumped her boyfriend then you should have moved in for the kill you waited
she is young she is just doing the rebounding thing. If she has the similar feelings for you she will let you know you may have just scared her a bit. Your both young and the whole love thing is
something you know nothing about. If these feelings continue ask her what's going on do you just like me as a friend or can we have something more? Sometimes girls just like to play hard to get maybe date someone else and see if that makes her jealous if it does then well she has feelings for you but doesn't know how to react to what you said and well some girls just like to have a guy as a friend to hang out with a shoulder to cry on nothing more.
Trust me I had a friend who was a girl and she knew all along that I had a huge crush on her but it just wasn't meant to be found another lady now married for over 7yrs to the love of my life and ended contact with the other girl it just felt strange and well it is disrespectful to your wife if you still talk to another women you once had a crush on. Remember your just in school it is normal to have more then one girlfriend. Experiment with other girls the only reason you feel this way is because maybe you don't talk to other girls because you have her to talk to distance yourself from the friend and get a date.
2007-02-06 16:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love and jealously are no longer unique to your sexuality, regardless of while you're gay or at latest. you may experience all the failings you pronounced, and do all the pieces you pronounced, yet that does no longer propose extra has to ensue on your relationship. do you go with for to attempt something sexual? think of a minimum of two times earlier you do something, please. For the two your sakes. Years in the past I felt the comparable way some lady chum... i'm nevertheless very gay. stable success.
2016-12-17 04:16:18 · answer #3 · answered by vogt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If things don't work out between you two, will you lost a girlfriend and a best friend ?
If you think she is your best friend, do you know if you are the type she wants ?
Do you think you can be the guy she wants ? What makes you think that you are better than her ex-boy friend ?
2007-02-06 16:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to her. Tell her that you really meant what you said when you love her. She might not of taken you seriously. But you REALLY need to talk to her. it would be so awful to have looked back and wished you had said something
2007-02-06 16:09:23 · answer #5 · answered by Cheyenne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out. You may die tomorrow, do everything today
2007-02-06 16:14:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋