Singles & Dating - 4 February 2007

remember its very new......... thats the problem.... she says she dreams of kissing me but then she already said to me not to have any physical relationship with her..... does that mean she doesnt want me to kiss her.???? by the way she is from germany

2007-02-04 01:30:02 · 9 answers · asked by joeldavids 1

Well, it happens about a year ago. My girlfriend is leaving my hometown to another country. So basically me and her having a long distance relationship. I admit I have to adjust a lot of things in my mind and eventually i managed to survive but ironically... alone.
Let's get to the main point. My girl having an affair with my friend ( and I never want to know his name ). I can't believe it for the first time, but right now I already forgive them all sincerely. A year passed away and I still feel like I'm in love with her but she never call me anymore, except when she need me for something. I made a promise to go to continue my study in her country but I don't know what she feel bout it. Moreover when we met not long time ago, she kicked me out from her house ( in indirect way ). Well, people, I'm traumatized by this case, I still have feeling with my-ex and I want to find someone new but it seems so hard for me because of cultural problem here. Any advice? Feedback? Thanks :-)

2007-02-04 01:27:37 · 14 answers · asked by wonderkid 1

2007-02-04 01:24:51 · 15 answers · asked by m 1

Ok well my bf told me the other day that he really loves me etc..He wont stop telling me how beautiful I am etc...but thenn he said out of the blue "I want sooo badly to have a child with you",I dont want to loose you" etc..I know its black mail but I really want you to stay with me!
Guys is this normal hes 18 im 16 thanks!!!

2007-02-04 01:23:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

i cant move on from one past that i really want to leave,well in the past.i had this online thing with this guy(before i got together with taylor).he said his name was mythyus cromarty.then said his real name was mike hanns.and he is/was from scotland.he never wanted to meet,but,odd as it sounds i loved him with my whole heart.and never(when i had friends)had time for my friends.i just sat by the computer waiting for him.
i dont know what i did wrong,but he never came on for a few days,i was worried.so i asked a few of his friends where he was,then the next day he went off on one and told me never to contact him.it happend years ago(less then 5 years ago).i still think about him,even though tay was my soulmate.i cant stop thinking about mythyus/mike.its driving me nuts.maybe thats why part of me is insane now. :(
how can i move on?is there anyway to?he left me with so many questions.why did he get mad at me?i loved him even though we never met and he never wanted to.
help me!please.

2007-02-04 01:21:46 · 10 answers · asked by cory_paige_davis 1

2007-02-04 01:20:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-04 01:19:43 · 20 answers · asked by whyowhyowhysocomplicated 1

My fiance use to write me the most beautiful letters and cards. Now I get a Valentine Day card signed with an ?. It was an impersonal card. No I love you or anything. He is in Iraq. I asked him if he is excited about his up coming R & R and he says "no yet". He text me, calls or emails every day saying he loves me. I don't feel it. My nerves are shot. He is British and they say Brits are as touchy-feely as us Americans. But I am nervous too. My friends think he really just wants a "green card". Meanwhile I have 2 ex-boyfriends asking me out, but I love my boyfriend with all my heart.. It just seems when I started sending him romantic cards and letters, he stopped. Shouldn't he be excited about this R & R and our wedding plans?

2007-02-04 01:19:28 · 8 answers · asked by kitty cat 3

There is this guy that I like a lot. Only two problems. First off, he lives in a different town so i don't get to hang out with him very often, but when we do we have so much fun. We still talk, even when we aren't hanging out, over the phone, aim, etc. Second off, I don't know if he likes me the same way. I think I see signs that he likes me, but I mite just see them b/c I want him to like me. When we do hang out, we usually hang out with other friends, too. We will go to the mall or the movies, etc. I have caught him looking at me, and then he would quickly look away. He would walk real close to me- bumping into me several times. If I go outside when we are waiting for a ride home from the movies (b/c I am hot, etc.), he would follow me outside, even though everyon else was staying in. When we talk it is either flirty-make-fun-of-eachother-talk, or serious stuff, like stuff you don't tell just anyone. So am I seeing things that aren't there? Should i tell him I how I feel?

2007-02-04 01:17:57 · 8 answers · asked by yo. 3

What can a woman say to melt your helt, or make you feel closer to you. In general, make you feel good.

2007-02-04 01:16:21 · 11 answers · asked by halo 1

2007-02-04 01:16:01 · 7 answers · asked by Blood_Child69 1

i was talking to a guy online about going to one of his games, and i said something like this:

me: "heyy, sorry i havent gone to any of your games yet, i always say im going to go to one, but i never do. i feel like a b****."
him: "nah, thats ok. you'll get to one. i dont really care."

does it seem like he does care, but he doesnt want me to know, or is it just that?

2007-02-04 01:14:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i met this gorgeous half asian guy while i was doing an intership at the hospital few days ago. we talked and giggled. we walked together and had good time.(at least i had good time). intership was not the thing that excite me the most. but there i was with him. time just flied!!!! soon i found out that he is not just cute but funny and smart.
he will come to hospital again the day after tomorrow. i thought of asking him his number or e-mail. but the problem is, i have this national championship thingy which is quite important to my career(to be exact, resume.) on the same day.
if i go for this championship, my resume will look great but i will never gonna see him again. if i go to hospital instead of championship, i will be able to keep in touch with him but my resume will lose quite a big thing..
i am sure he is not a normal guy that i can find anywhere. he is very special!! what should i do?? any advice will be greatly appreciated. :)

2007-02-04 01:13:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

She says hi to me every morning, even though I don't say it back. She seems nervous when talking to me when we're alone. She did my work for me during class when I fell asleep, and she wanted me to be in her group when we were going on a trip. Does it seem like she likes me? Hell, I can't even tell if I like her.

2007-02-04 01:09:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

you like your best friend.

2007-02-04 01:08:40 · 9 answers · asked by elvira 2

He broke up with me, does this mean he no longer has a heart or he never had one in the first place?

2007-02-04 01:08:06 · 13 answers · asked by Lynne 3

2007-02-04 01:05:37 · 9 answers · asked by ticko 1

and I mean a partner, someone you would have sex with and create life with, not a child or a family member.

It seems that infantile needful attachment & romantic infatuation and all that young selfish greedy self interest arises simultaneously and is unavoidable!

Your thoughts?

2007-02-04 01:02:14 · 4 answers · asked by lowroad 2

I like this guy and he acts like he like me too. alot but sometimes he is real mean to me. especially when we are around his friends. wats up?

2007-02-04 01:01:51 · 7 answers · asked by yaya 3

Girls what would your ideal first date scenario be?

I would like something like Golf where you have to help each other (I know its a man thing)

The more unusual the better

2007-02-04 01:00:26 · 9 answers · asked by davie 2

saying the truth should be way any body knows to read the mind and how tell me plzz

2007-02-04 00:57:15 · 2 answers · asked by persianooo 1

Im in college and have a boyfriend. The problem is I don't know how really feel about him. At times I actually think I love him but there are those other times when I ask myself why i'm with him. Its weird because he's the youngest guy I've ever been with and I think he's a little immature but I normally overlook that. I know he loves me but he just does not mean 'that' much to me. My friends say I should give it time but now I'm at my wits end. I don't want to hurt him but he just isn't my ideal guy. Should I go along with it till I get redemption or should I break up with him? (I really didn't want to break his heart :( )

2007-02-04 00:55:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My work is associated with east African countries, mostly Kenya and Ethiopia.
I just got back from Ethiopia with the weirdest encounter of my life, which changed my previous sympathy for the country.
It all started with me and my co-worker as we visited the Lake Tana that’s the origin of Nile River in Ethiopia. There on the lake were these poor Ethiopians trying to fish while we sow one man dropping bunch of fishes, crabs, shrimps and lobsters, etc..back to the lake, I asked him why he was doing that, he looked at me with surprise and asked with broken English what else he could do with them. I told him why couldn’t he eat them or give them to other people, he shouted out, how people could eat such things and left immediately. We were both so surprise, imagine how shrimps and crabs can’t be eaten and the weird part is, they are Ethiopians always suffering with hunger and famine.
After we encounter this we tried to show to the local people how to eat, shrimps, crabs and different kinds of fish as they only eat one type of fish , we cooked and tried to give them to taste, some of them were actually vomiting for just watching us eat and none of them dare to try, my friend was laughing at their stupidity but I was actually offended and the worst part is not just sea foods that they don’t know how to eat, we found out there are many types vegetables that they don’t know how to eat specially mushroom they call it “ umbrella of hyena” and children play with is everywhere on the street , but no one use them as food, my general encounter is that poverty is both mental and physical in Ethiopia and they are the poorest and the most proudest people I have ever seen.
Can you imagine, they think eating pork is disobeying God?
Anyway Kenya is relatively better, actually they are growing economically better than Ethiopians, and they know mushrooms, sea foods and pork are for food. My friend and I now working on project to teach Ethiopians what to eat hopefully we can get somewhere, anyone who read this can give me idea to include in the project

2007-02-04 00:54:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are real friends and I told him I didn't know how to do with him and another guy I like so I was returning back to America. I gave him some drama but he always said he could never be angry at me..he would read my sms messages but not answer me..and he told me I could call him before I left so I called but he liked disappeared. So then I left and still sent him messages and when I tried to call him someone answered but didn't say anything I just wanted him to say goodbye to me but he won't. Before in IM he would always ask me where are you? So I think he does care if I leave. I don't understand...I feel sad. (He is a nice guy and wasn't after sex or has a GF.)

2007-02-04 00:53:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

If your at the movies with your girl friend,whats the first move you make??arm over shoulder,on waist,kiss...WHAT?!

2007-02-04 00:50:42 · 4 answers · asked by piggie_wiggie06 1

i am 18, i don't have many friends and no girlfriend, i want to be friendly guy who have no worries in his life just fun!! i want to travel to anywhere in the world but i am in college so i can't go anywhere.no money, no friends i feel like there is nothing in my life. i want to change that but i don't where to begin. help me in details!! plz

2007-02-04 00:50:39 · 17 answers · asked by shone 1

I'm a muxlim guy age 23, currently doing undergraduate, i started seeing this girl from scotland since the beginning of last year, we broke up 2 months back, we were going strong and had a lot of things in our minds for our future....but something along the way went wrong n things got worse between us...we quarelled more often n fought for stupid things.....the break up decision was actually her...i just told her i'm cool..if she didnt feel it was going the right way i wouldnt hold her back....i would let her go....i tried to be friends with her which i didnt want to be at first coz its not easy....but she just hates for everything as if it was all my fault...we dont talk, see each other neither try to know how we r doing n all.....i've deleted all her contact infos....n have recently heard that she's been hanging out with her ex bf whom she hated like anything for his psychotic behavior...i have no idea why would she get close to him again...i'm dealing with a lot of confusion now

2007-02-04 00:50:30 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1

My fiance sent me a valentine's day card with a question mark. It was a card saying. I know you just love me for my body--but I can live with that.. Signed with an ? No I love you, no note.. Just signed with a ?. It made me cry. Sounds so impersonal.

2007-02-04 00:47:56 · 22 answers · asked by taken2007 2

i dont know if thats gramatically correct but i hope you got what i mean

2007-02-04 00:44:44 · 13 answers · asked by sacred_90 2

I came to know this guy for a year and it's only recently that we're on quite close terms. I mentioned about him briefly to my friends (who sadly, happened to be gossipers) and they started spreading rumors about me and him to his girlfriend. I heard that they just broke up a week ago, however the girlfriend now is pushing all the blame to me. I admit that I got a small crush on him, but this isn't a valid excuse to blame me. She is also hurting me indirectly by gossiping with my friends saying mean things about me.I feel I shouldn't medle too much in other people's affair, but it seems like I can't. It feels like I'm invoved. Please help!

2007-02-04 00:42:02 · 9 answers · asked by skybellaz 1