Singles & Dating - 4 February 2007

I'm sorry for those answered this question a few hours ago, but for some strange reason, yahoo wont let me log in.

This is not the kind of question that someone can read and say "right, here's what you gotta do", but I think your answers might help me, so plz put in your two cents.

I like this guy who's my housemate, but I'm not sure if I love him [i nvr been in any kind of relationship before (neither serious nor fun)].
Its not even his appearance that I am attracted to, its his way of thinking, his thoughts and the way he looks at the world and literally anything in this world. I adore talking to him. And, whenever, I am in the house kitchen, he makes a point to just hang around and start a talk (tho I, start by generally asking how his day was, which I ask everyone else too) and then we end up talking for like hours together (many a times till morning like 7ish)

2007-02-04 04:21:24 · 9 answers · asked by brittany 1

my boyfriend and I frequent bars...except he go to a paticular one and only a few times has he asked me to join him there. We are only there for a few min. then we leave and go somewhere else. Or i will pick him up from there and then we go somewhere else but he spends a lot of time there with out me. And is it ok for me to just show up if he is there?

2007-02-04 04:19:54 · 16 answers · asked by ladyjno7 4

Been asking this girl out for months, she refuses to give me an answer. Last month she said to me If I didnt stop asking her out her answer would be NO.

2 weeks ago she asks me if I wanted to go on holiday with her, my kids, her kid and her friends etc. I said I couldn't afford it but would love to have gone.

Not heard anything from her for ages and last friday night I sent her a txt saying I think we should just be friends.

Just recieved a txt asking if I know what a horrible weekend she has had following my txt, wanting to be friends

WHAT THE HELL IS THAT ABOUT!????

But guys I do have to say that she is the most caring beautifull, sensitive woman I have ever met, who just melts my heart!!

2007-02-04 04:17:05 · 20 answers · asked by Simon M 1

2007-02-04 04:16:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

what are the chances he will be virgin. i mean i wait all this time wouldnt it be unfair if my guy had already done it before. and seeing that sex is on so many minds these days what are the chances of him being a virgin like me while having good looks like me as well

2007-02-04 04:16:48 · 10 answers · asked by beach girl 1

2007-02-04 04:16:29 · 21 answers · asked by loveable doll 1

2007-02-04 04:16:13 · 7 answers · asked by j_tool15 1

A coworker sent me an email that I was too weird for him to be friends with because I was sending him mixed signals. We had been close for awhile and I told him it was best that we ignore each other so I can get over my crush on him since he already has a gf. Anyway during all of this, he suggested that the best way to get over him was to sleep with him. I thought he really wanted me because he kept asking if I wanted to do it. Then he told me that I should do it with someone else since he already has a gf. Of course, I felt hurt ,angry, and embarrassed since I told him things that I wanted him to do to me. A few days later I called him a dog via text since he jerked my feelings around, then I felt bad about it and wrote a letter apologizing to him. This is what provoked him to ignore me for the past month. A few days ago, he looked at me like he wanted to say hello and I emailed him asking him if we could just treat each other like coworkers and say hi. He told me I was too weird.

2007-02-04 04:14:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

it is ture men usely think about sex once every 5 minutes when we are like in the mall or something... but what about women? they probley think about sex too and when they think of sex is it the same as when we men think of sex?

2007-02-04 04:13:30 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

my g/f recently said that she wanted to break up with me because she felt like I was too controlling - that I get mad when she goes out with a friend for dinner (sometimes 3+ hours) - I worry about if she's okay and what she's actually doing for so long. we have talked and she says she loves me, I'm her best friend, loves the way she can be herself with me and loves the way I make her feel, asked me to hug (which I did for 10 minutes) and kissed me before she left. i'm confused since this is what most want in a relationship, right? also, she said that a guy she dated before me (a year 1/2) who she saw as a friend, kept trying to make contact with her and she said no, but a month or so ago she replied. she also has him as a friend on her myspace page and has listed that she is there for 'dating'. I'm very confused about what is going on considering as soon as 5 months ago we were talking about if I would move with her if she had to for work, if we want kids, kids names, etc.

2007-02-04 04:11:45 · 4 answers · asked by nsoccer30972003 1

I'm 18 wks pregnant by my boyfriend who until the mid Jan lived with me. We broke up then because he wasnt coming home or calling at night and was having a sexual TM relationship with some young girl. Like a fool I took him back, he said he loved me-sort of blamed his behavior on me which he always does, says it's because I dont communicate with him which is bull. So hes with his mom and dad now and sees me only when he has nothing better to do. He will say hes not feeling well, staying home whatever. He goes out, For anyone who's ever been cheated on you know it. There are loads of signs. Tues I know for a fact he was cheating on me. Last night he was pulling his staying in stuff and I basically told him I was tired of him making me feel bad, dont know why hes with me and i feel like a toy. He responds with of course you assume the worst&I make HIM feel bad.What do I say to him next time I see him to avoid having this blamed on me. I am not at fault that he's a cheater and a liar!

2007-02-04 04:10:00 · 7 answers · asked by alexandria1_1999 5

The guy I've been seeing for about 7 months was diagnosed with testicular cancer a few months back. He's older than me and I'm away at college. We live 2 hours apart. I wanted to be there for him everyday, but I knew realistically I couldn't be in person. We talked constantly and I sent my support as well as I could that way. I just found out, however, that his ex who lives where he does visited him alot during his treatment and that they have been spending alot of time together. He never told me this, I found out through a friend. Do you think because she was there for him during the treatment that he wants to get back with her, over possibly being with me since we aren't officially boyfriend and girlfriend yet. Please help! He's very important to me and I want him in my life, and to be in his.

2007-02-04 04:08:33 · 8 answers · asked by citygirl 2

We both go to school and we talk about our school history. She told me she used to go to private school and had to wear a dress. And she didn't like it. So she now goes to public school. And are conversation ended when the bell rang. She said i'm a loser and she walk away and I told her no your not. And that was it we both walk away and headed toward to another class. Why do you think she called her self a loser for?
She sound pretty serious when she called her self a loser. Maybe she thought I was bored with our conversation.

2007-02-04 04:06:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have you ever met someone and become friends by asking or answering questions on Yahoo Answers? Would love to know...

2007-02-04 04:06:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

11 months ago i ran intot his guy that is mutual friends with my ex.we really hit it off.I was still bitter about catching my ex of a few years cheating,he listend and udnerstood although he told me there was a 'guy code',he drove me home that night and i invited him to stay,i asked him to sleep in the bed with me,he did,i asked him to put his arm around me,he did till i slept,things were awkward when he left the next mornign,a mutual friend said he liked me but was freaked about my ex,who was trying to get me back.I ran into him again 2 months later,he came to me and said"your killing me"my ex was also there and upset that we liked eachother.i sent him a text a couple weeks later and he never replied.I saw him ata party 6 months later,he walked in saw me and looked away quick.my ex was there again.I see my ex round still because he is best friends with my brother,we al have the same friends.why did he just look away?

2007-02-04 04:05:38 · 7 answers · asked by kerri r 1

2007-02-04 04:04:51 · 11 answers · asked by Jazz H 1

I'm 15. [gasp! I know-get your butt back to class and you have another 45 years ahead of you and NO SEXzomg! No, I get that] I used to think the exact same thing, and I've harbored this crush on my boyfriend now for.. a year and a half. Unbelievably long for the life expectancy of a crush. And apparently, he's liked me for a while too. we've been going out for a month, and he's just amazing. He's witty, hot, incredibly smart, sweet (though he doesn't show it to others besides me), responsible, and honest. But he'd been in a few bad relationships in the past, so he was nervous about this one at first, but things just sort of sky-rocketed because we communicate so well. yeah. I'm in love with him. Even though I'm only 15. Oh, and btw, yes I know I should keep up my grades. I'm doing prettyyy well in school, and i'm not some hormone-driven sex-crazed teenager. and neither is he. So. Obviously, I'm seeing what I'm looking for here, but somebody jsut tell me if I'm deluding myself.

2007-02-04 04:03:19 · 5 answers · asked by rawrr 2

2007-02-04 04:02:42 · 11 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6

2007-02-04 04:00:51 · 14 answers · asked by kiran s 1

i mean - when you met her, thats the way she was. and thats they she's always been, as far as you can tell. and, in fact, you suspect that the its the result of her being the person you love . . .

so what do you do? she goes out about once a month with freinds. no saying she's getting anything on - but who knows? so do i forbid her from going out? is it fair to set some ground rules, to protect me just in case something happens - and assuming she isn't insulted, is that essentially giving her permission? can i realy make her be monogomous, even if i wanted to?

2007-02-04 03:59:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have known this guy for six years. I have liked him the whole time but has always acted like he didn't know or care. Now we are seniors and he is starting to act like he likes me but I am not sure that I like him back. I say this because one day he will be all friendly and the next day he won't talk to me. I just really want to know if he likes me or not.

2007-02-04 03:58:50 · 3 answers · asked by Bookworm 2

2007-02-04 03:57:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 12 and I can't find a site that finds anyone under the age of 18 a boyfriend!I'm desperate!

2007-02-04 03:55:42 · 38 answers · asked by blisskissbabe 2

When you are in love do you see flaws in your mate?
My boyfriend mentioned to me the other day that I have acne and if my hair was real. He also pointed out that my right eye was bigger than the left. When he asked of his flaws and said I did not see any. I don't think he was trying to be mean but I dont know. I told him that my last boyfriend said he cheated on me be the other woman did not have skin like mine. He said that I should be more witty and funny because he says that I only talk about a limited number of things? I feel like he is comparing me to something and it made me feel bad even though I don't think he was trying to hurt my feelings. Why did he say these things? What does it mean when they say these kinds of things?

2007-02-04 03:55:05 · 9 answers · asked by EVADIVA 1

This guy who I know and once cared for has caused me so much disappointments and hurt and he is so clueless of that fact. I can't ask him serious questions cause he just ignores me and is very secretive. I can just stop contact with others but with him I am having a hard time doing it. Has any of you had this problem and if so how did you finally handle it.

2007-02-04 03:54:30 · 6 answers · asked by homesweethomediana@sbcglobal.net 3

2007-02-04 03:53:45 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

my best friend talk to him everyday he said he likes me but he dosen't know that i like him plus i to shy to ask!

2007-02-04 03:50:39 · 11 answers · asked by neeika 1

Today is the Superbowl as we all know, I texted my b/f and also father of my baby i'm only 3wks pregnant...well I asked him if he would rather hang out with me here at my house or still go to his friends house. Well he goes I would hang out with you but ***** is my friend so I am gonna hang out with him. I texted back to him Then I am going to stay home because I don't really feel like going anywhere today...He hasnt answered my text at all it's been like 20min. My mom knows i'm pregnany and his mom knows i'm pregant do you think he is wierded out by seeing my mom? Well I had to see him mom after she found out so I don't get how he thinks it's wierd seeing my mom I dunno maybe he feels that way. But I ditched my friends to hang out with him plenty of times to hang out with him so I dunno should I be worried? or concerned? I don't want to seem like a ***** telling him he can't hang out with his friends you know...but it just bothers me a lot...HELP

2007-02-04 03:49:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

we're in a conservative country and saying it's important is like saying you're a wh*re

help me pls. can you? thanks...

2007-02-04 03:47:38 · 8 answers · asked by CedDigorry 1

2007-02-04 03:47:08 · 6 answers · asked by bobby s 1