I'm sorry for those answered this question a few hours ago, but for some strange reason, yahoo wont let me log in.
This is not the kind of question that someone can read and say "right, here's what you gotta do", but I think your answers might help me, so plz put in your two cents.
I like this guy who's my housemate, but I'm not sure if I love him [i nvr been in any kind of relationship before (neither serious nor fun)].
Its not even his appearance that I am attracted to, its his way of thinking, his thoughts and the way he looks at the world and literally anything in this world. I adore talking to him. And, whenever, I am in the house kitchen, he makes a point to just hang around and start a talk (tho I, start by generally asking how his day was, which I ask everyone else too) and then we end up talking for like hours together (many a times till morning like 7ish)
2007-02-04 04:21:24 · 9 answers · asked by brittany 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He speaks to almost everybody, the same way, as he does to me, the only difference, a bit longer (we sometimes spend about 7 hours in the lounge talking about random stuffs) and he's told me a few things about his family that he wudn't tell others (maybe thats becuz I told him about mine?).
I dont want him distanced to me by telling him I like him (if he only likes me as a friend and nothing else).
He previously had a girfriend who he broke up with and I dont want to push him into liking me, becuz if he does not, he just does not..its that simple.
Also, he's from Norway and I am from Thailand and we're both presently in the United Kingdom, pursuing our education and after our education wud be back in our respective countries.
2007-02-04 04:22:12 · update #1
I dont see a point to the "like me, like me not" game. Also, I dont think I will be staying in the same house as I am at present becuz I want to do a placement and chances are, the placement is not gonna be in this city. I dont want to lose him, but at the same time I dont want to alienate him either.
I know for sure that I'll not find a person like him. Should I just forget about these things and carry on?...As I mentioned before, he's nice to everybody, so I'm dont wanna be getting the wrong ideas that he likes me.
If you care to give your opinion or suggestion that might help me, I'd be more than happy to read them.
Even if you dont, I still appreciate that you actually did care to read the question.
Stay blessed,
-Brittany
2007-02-04 04:22:58 · update #2
Keep doing what you are doing now and don't push for anything else. Spend time with him whenever you can and see where it leads.
2007-02-04 04:26:17 · answer #1 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short to live with regret. Ask him if he would enjoy having lunch or dinner or a movie and talk to him. Ask him if he thinks of you as a friend or if he likes you for more than a friend when you get your answer you can ask him if he would like to date. As for going back to countries, is there a chance that what you are studying could leave you or him in the one country so you can be together. You have a lot to discuss. be open minded and really think about what is important, long distance relationships don't usually work out very well so try to come to a compromise. Hope this helped. Take care Heather
2007-02-04 04:30:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awe sweetie, I feel ur pain. U r in a hell of a situation. I realize this is so much easier said than done but all I can give u is "charish ever moment with him for this is ur summer fling". Do not dwell on the future but concentrate on not forgeting. Learn from this experience and have fun doing so. So u'll probably not spend the rest of ur life together but u will always have the memories. Not to mention no heartwrenching Jerry Springer break-up. Good luck doll :)
2007-02-04 04:32:53 · answer #3 · answered by kilrblue 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Right... So here's what you do. You tell him you like him. If it distances him then he's not a friend anyway so that blows him liking you as a friend right out of the water. You could also explain to him that if he doesn't like you in that way, it's no biggy.
2007-02-04 04:41:28 · answer #4 · answered by Sandy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should tell him that you are starting to like him and see how he reacts i don't think that he would become distant because you tell him that I hope things work out for you!
2007-02-04 04:28:26 · answer #5 · answered by Lakay aka Mizz B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a friend is a friend -- gotta figure out the hard stuff by yer self --
sorry couldn't help
2007-02-04 04:27:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Far too many details. Try somewhere else for the answer.
2007-02-04 04:25:09 · answer #7 · answered by Phillip 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
sex can be a good lithmus test for this type of thing. Why dont you take him for a test run.
2007-02-04 04:26:17 · answer #8 · answered by $0.02 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
to long
2007-02-04 05:56:03 · answer #9 · answered by bossy1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋