2007-02-04 04:16:29 · 21 answers · asked by loveable doll 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
True love is often thought to be the person you should spend your life with. REAL LOVE is when you chose to love someone when you find it near impossible to do so. Real love is accepting the faults in someone in your life, forgiving them for hurting you, helping them make a new start when they mess things up, staying beside them when they make a huge mistake that you wish you could beat them over the head for. REAL LOVE means never giving up on that person, even if the rest of the world does. Believing and knowing that they have it in them to be BETTER. Real love choses to love no matter what, good times or bad, through it all.
2007-02-04 04:19:55 · answer #1 · answered by Kendra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love isn't real love.
True love is a fantasy in which two people supposedly love each other unconditionaly. This is false because real relationships are based on trust which goes beyond simple feelings of lust, passion, and things of the moment.
Real love is love as it truly exists. It's love that knows that people are people and that things don't always go so perfectly. Real love can deal with these issues and can adapt to situations as they happen. Real love isn't free. It costs time and patience. It is definitely conditional but its demands are not unreasonable. When it is fed, it will grow and when it is left in isolation, it will disappear.
2007-02-04 04:26:33 · answer #2 · answered by Justin 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Real and true love are the same, both are healthy love, a want verses an unhealthy need. Better to know if it is healthy and will you flourish with this love.And unhealthy need will be like a weight on your heart, bringing you down. Translated best by this simple test you can give yourself.
Which phrase suits your feelings best?
1. “I love you because I need you.”
2. “I need you because I love you.”
If you identify with #1, you might want to re-think your feelings, this in not a healthy or real love.
If you identify with #2, then you’re off to a good start, odds are you have true, healthy, heartfelt feelings.
2007-02-04 04:32:11 · answer #3 · answered by sassysissy49 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real love is a situation , generally lived by two -or more - people , true love is a feeling , and it concerns only one person...The best thing is having true love for someone and living that love for Real ;)
2007-02-04 04:22:19 · answer #4 · answered by rewsna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real love is when you are really in love with each other. You are two people who will live together for the rest of your lives, you love each other for you, not for money or anything else.
True love is when people are made for each other. No other way to put it. Born to be together, no other people, no nothing, just two people.
2007-02-04 04:21:28 · answer #5 · answered by kiki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is defined by your willingness to give up something for someones happiness. Even if I dont want sex, maybe I am too tired, it is out of love that I seek to give my wife pleasure. It is giving up hogging the remote and sharing with her.
It is having patience. The moment might seem crappy when we fight, but love is having the patience to see things through knowing that there are always better days.
2007-02-04 04:23:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real love probably means you know it is the sort of love that you want and not something casual.
True love probably means that it is the love that you are destined for + real love.
I'm not a complete expert at this but these are my hunches.
2007-02-04 04:22:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The world today has given love all kinds of names, but when it comes down to it, love is just love. Just remember, love is not how you feel, but love is something you do. You can't always control your feelings, but you CAN control your actions. So when you "feel" like not loving someone today, go up and give them a BIIIIIG hug!!! Good luck
2007-02-04 04:21:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real love and true love are the same...unconditionial bonds...through richer and poorer, sickness and health.
2007-02-04 04:22:03 · answer #9 · answered by D.E.O.N. Sphinxxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No difference
2007-02-04 04:19:36 · answer #10 · answered by MRB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋