I'm 12 and I can't find a site that finds anyone under the age of 18 a boyfriend!I'm desperate!
2007-02-04 03:55:42 · 38 answers · asked by blisskissbabe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
School...no, seriously. Having a boyfriend at age 12 is really not the big deal you (and my younger sister) make it. What would you do? You couldn't go on any actual "dates" (other than school dances), especially if you have overprotective parents who aren't willing to just drop you off somewhere, like the movies.
Just enjoy being young and having boys who are friends, rather than boyfriends. You'd be surprised how much easier it is to talk to guys if you leave romance out of it. My sister was the same as you, always going around annoying everyone by complaining that she didn't have a boyfriend, and it turned out that the guy she was friends with (and secretly crushing on) liked her back. Now we're all annoyed that she won't shut up about HAVING a boyfriend ☺(and, no, they don't go on actual dates, either).
2007-02-04 04:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by JL 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Umm Bethany, your only 12..why are you "desperate" for a boyfriend? You dont "need" a boyfriend. Thats the same thing I tell my 12 yr old daughter..it's just that you think you need to have a boyfriend bcuz your friends have 1...You think it makes you more accepted by todays society, that it make you "special" if you have a boyfriend..letme tell you, enjoy it while you are young enuff to not need to worry about dating.And at 12, the internet is the last place to find a "boyfriend"..If you did meet a "boyfriend" on line, and you live in different places, how would you ever get to see him?? How much fun would that b? You would never get to hang out together right?
2007-02-04 04:05:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't use dating sites until you are 18....why are you 'desperate' for a boyfriend at your age??? Most girls your age will only meet boys at school, that's about it.
There's no reason to be desperate. Desperation is not attractive, either.
Chill out a bit and just live your life. You'll have plenty of time for boyfriends in the years to come.
2007-02-04 03:59:43 · answer #3 · answered by smee_1972 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At 12 you should be thinking of what good things you can do with your life and not how to have heart ache this will all come to you in life as you grow up, I would ask why is it so important to have a boy friend? what are you looking for? You are a person in your own right and you don't need a boyfriend to make you a whole person! Find out who you are first then you will know what you want out of life
2007-02-07 23:20:22 · answer #4 · answered by Pink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had better ask yourself why you think you need a boyfriend right now in your life?
Because right now your interists should be having fun, an education and hanging out with your friends and family.
A LOT goes with a relationship that you need to honestly be prepared to live with and expect.
1. someone else has a personal interist in what you say and do.
2. another persons opnions have to be considered, not just your
own.
3. are you a compramising person. (able to give as well as take)
4 Are you ready for pressure to have sex that your young body
is not mature enough to accept the consequenses for ?
5. Have you considered the consequences of horrible,
Sexually transmitted diseases and PREGNANCY ?
6. What will your parents/guardians reaction be to std's and
pregnancy ? Supportive or could you be tossed to the
curb? Tossed to the curb does happen, my coussin was.
7. How will you deal with the Rummers You are easy and
everybodys? That you sleep around with anyone ane ever- one.?
After you have thought about all this for a few days, make your decision and I hope and pray its right.
You are TOO YOUNG TO DATE.....
2007-02-04 04:11:44 · answer #5 · answered by andreamarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not going to look at the other 30 answers, but I bet most will say the same thing. For goodness' sake, you're 12! You're TOO YOUNG to have a boyfriend. If you did get a boyfriend, what kind of pervert would he be?
Sorry, but you need to concentrate on making friends of both sexes and developing your interests, talents and social circle, for at least a couple of years.
2007-02-04 05:03:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep searching the Internet. You're bound to find a predatory paedophile who is looking for someone just like you. Alternatively ; remember you are 12 years old and the LAST thing you need at your age is a boyfriend. Have friends who are boys and leave it at that until you are old enough to not to have to ask about it in an open forum!
2007-02-04 04:02:21 · answer #7 · answered by leedsmikey 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not trying to tell you you are to young however enjoy being a kid life comes at you to fast. You want a boyfriend now y? Y be stuck with someone when your so young dont you want to wait and give dating a try when you can drive or go to rated r movies or when you turn 21 and can go to a bar and meet some one. when your 21 you have no time to be a kid you will have bills and life will come at you fast. take time now and be with your friends at your age boys should still have cooties. stay young i wish i sould go back and be 12 when things where simple. trust me one day you will wish the same thing.
2007-02-04 04:28:36 · answer #8 · answered by B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 12 you`re too young. Blokes are just hassle anyway under the age of 25!
2007-02-04 04:00:49 · answer #9 · answered by The BudMiester 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would say myspace but everyone on there is like 15 or something try www.grab.com your supposed 2 b 13 to actually sign up but ive met @ least 20 kids that r the same age or younger than u , but i cant really call u a kid your only a year younger than me so this is advice u know that will b useful
2007-02-04 04:38:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋