we're in a conservative country and saying it's important is like saying you're a wh*re
help me pls. can you? thanks...
2007-02-04 03:47:38 · 8 answers · asked by CedDigorry 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most couples divorce because of bad sexual compatibility, sex before marriage is not a try-out at all and you can't do it with a girl you met 2 weeks ago because you'd be exploiting her and yourself. Making sex before marriage, after both persons know one another enough is however a good way to secure a better marriage afterwards because many people are not compatible in bed or what they thought was love could only be physical attraction (from both sides).
2007-02-04 05:18:30 · answer #1 · answered by chadi.wehbe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I could only argue with you more on that. Sex is done after marriage so as to protect the women from being used, exploited by their boyfriends, or even defamed by rumors. Sex before marriage shouldnt be an issue with men unless they are insincere with their girlfriends and all theyre after is... sex!
P.S.
Contrary to briandabels answer, women arent cars or shoes that you'd have to try first! If the girl you marry dont know anything about sex, then teach her... don't that make you feel more special? That she's all yours?
2007-02-04 03:56:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well ethical issues aside have you tried the argument from the perspective of trying something out before making such a big committment? like a car, it is an accepted standard for a buyer to take a car out on a tent drive to see how it handles, whether they like it and if it meets their needs. Most people put a lot of time into purchasing a car. that is an object which most people dont plan on keeping more than sevral years. a marriage is supposed to be forever!
even with something as simple as a shoe, it is customary to try it on to see how it fits. I would not bring these arguments into play though unless you are serious enough to be engaged already.
2007-02-04 03:58:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a tough question. On one side I would say yes it is important to fully experience someone b4 you marry them. But the Christian side of me says to wait because thats the right thing to do. So Now it comes down to what feels good and what the Bible says. So I would lean towards the waiting side it will be more special if you wait til marriage. But it is a very important part of a relationship.
2007-02-04 03:57:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would agree that sex is important in a relationship. You can't truely know someone unless you've experienced all the sides of them that they have - sex and being intimate is a ver important part of a person.
2007-02-04 03:52:58 · answer #5 · answered by northukstudent 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think that sex really is that important. i think sex is what can destroy many relationships. i think that having sex is good, but before marriage it is not that important. people just think that it is because of how society makes it look.
2007-02-04 04:18:43 · answer #6 · answered by young grown man 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Sex" is a tool of control by Females. A Trophy of accomplishment, for Men. Is it necessary? Only for those reasons. But it's much better if it's "Making Love". And that is totally different than "Sex".
2007-02-04 03:52:06 · answer #7 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
why do women have to be the whores.
2007-02-04 03:52:40 · answer #8 · answered by MJ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋