11 months ago i ran intot his guy that is mutual friends with my ex.we really hit it off.I was still bitter about catching my ex of a few years cheating,he listend and udnerstood although he told me there was a 'guy code',he drove me home that night and i invited him to stay,i asked him to sleep in the bed with me,he did,i asked him to put his arm around me,he did till i slept,things were awkward when he left the next mornign,a mutual friend said he liked me but was freaked about my ex,who was trying to get me back.I ran into him again 2 months later,he came to me and said"your killing me"my ex was also there and upset that we liked eachother.i sent him a text a couple weeks later and he never replied.I saw him ata party 6 months later,he walked in saw me and looked away quick.my ex was there again.I see my ex round still because he is best friends with my brother,we al have the same friends.why did he just look away?
2007-02-04 04:05:38 · 7 answers · asked by kerri r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is caught between respecting his friendship and you.. I would not pressure him.. Let him decide. I am sure its hard for him as well as your ex.. Put yourself in his shoes and your ex's shoes..
If it was me, I would talk to my ex. with respect and let him know that there is nothing there but friendship with him(ex). Ask him how he feels about his friend and you, since they are good friends and you don't want to come between that. Then, talk to the guy about it also and state that you don't want to come between the friendship(him & your ex)..yet you like him.
To me that's the first step in honoring the guy, showing him you respect his friendship with your ex.
2007-02-04 04:18:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this guy digs you, but sometimes people don't wanna deal with the drama that comes along with dating friends exs... Or maybe he just has luke warm feelings for you and doesn't see a future...Good luck
2007-02-04 12:11:15 · answer #2 · answered by ladyjno7 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your x is best friends with your brother than you have to email and text him that you have no interest in this person at all and that you are interested in him. He doesn't know the whole story. You need to email him and talk it out with him when you are alone. Life is too short to live with regret, talk to him and go from there. Take care Heather
2007-02-04 12:10:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes scared of his feelings for you and your ex prabably talked about you with him and hes trying to get over you for the sake of his frendship wit your ex and there are other reasons but its hard getting into the head of a guy and you have got to talk to him about this so ya tell him straight that you like him and that your ex ruined his chance in the first place
2007-02-04 12:17:37 · answer #4 · answered by Tash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is more interested in how your ex....his friend.......feels and reacts than you do. Forget it and look elsewhere or there will be more than just 1 or 2 people hurt.
2007-02-04 12:10:24 · answer #5 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not gonna lie I stopped reading after you said "you ran into this guy"...but I'm gonna say that he had his reasons for doing so..
2007-02-04 12:09:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can you sleep with me tonight?
2007-02-04 12:11:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋