My fiance sent me a valentine's day card with a question mark. It was a card saying. I know you just love me for my body--but I can live with that.. Signed with an ? No I love you, no note.. Just signed with a ?. It made me cry. Sounds so impersonal.
2007-02-04 00:47:56 · 22 answers · asked by taken2007 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He put a ? on my daughters
2007-02-04 00:54:12 · update #1
I think you should send him one and sign it "!" as well. He sent your daughter the card with the same signature so I doubt it was anything but a joke. Guess I'm failing to see the whole body image concern here.
Send him one and sign it with "!" and it will probably be some inside joke between the two of you for years to come.
2007-02-04 00:59:38 · answer #1 · answered by lbkipp@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-04 00:54:25 · answer #2 · answered by pears j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is very strange! Talk to him and ask him to explain the card he sent you, tell him that you were hurt by its message. If he picks the joke angle to justify his silliness, tell him that this was not only a bad joke, it was an atrocious one. Watch out, he might be preparing the ground to break up with you. Good luck!
2007-02-04 00:57:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it really was a bit unsuitable as you're engaged. However, don't rush to judge. All men are big boys and maybe he found it funny to sent such postcard. I'd suggest that when you calm down you speak to him and let him know you weren't happy with the way he acted.
2007-02-04 00:53:19 · answer #4 · answered by Aatami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say it's rude he just wants to make sure that you know that it is him who sent the valentine's card you should call and thatnk nothing to cry about. I'm sure he still loves he asked you to marry him!!!!
2007-02-04 00:54:25 · answer #5 · answered by The gymnast 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats kinda weird maybe he was trying to be funny and he didn't know u wanted a mushy card tell him u love him and have a romantic valentines day and he'll know that he said the wrong thing.
2007-02-04 00:55:57 · answer #6 · answered by zozo da konkoer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was probably just a mistake if he wrote it in a rush. Call him, if you want though and ask him about it. He might just have been in a rush while writing the card.
Good Luck,
Forest
2007-02-04 00:53:11 · answer #7 · answered by Forest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it wasn't him that sent the valentine. Maybe you and your daughter have a secret admirer. Hope it all gets straightened out.
2016-05-24 02:44:48 · answer #8 · answered by Alison 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think you should send one signed "!". In this card, you should write: I don't love your body-- live with that.
2007-02-04 00:51:33 · answer #9 · answered by ja11389 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Was he questioning (in a joking way) whether or not you love him for his body? Ask him about it. If he's your fiance, it's doubtful that he was questioning his love for you, or vice versa.
2007-02-04 00:52:05 · answer #10 · answered by Tina K 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋