We are real friends and I told him I didn't know how to do with him and another guy I like so I was returning back to America. I gave him some drama but he always said he could never be angry at me..he would read my sms messages but not answer me..and he told me I could call him before I left so I called but he liked disappeared. So then I left and still sent him messages and when I tried to call him someone answered but didn't say anything I just wanted him to say goodbye to me but he won't. Before in IM he would always ask me where are you? So I think he does care if I leave. I don't understand...I feel sad. (He is a nice guy and wasn't after sex or has a GF.)
2007-02-04 00:53:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look sweetheart, from what I understand, you really hurt this guy. You said he doesn't have a girlfriend? And he was close to you? It sounds to me like he wanted more than just a friendship with you, ESPECIALLY if he said he couldn't be mad at you. He's probably thinking you moved BECAUSE OF HIM, and doesn't know how to deal with losing the one he loves, particularly if he thinks he caused you to leave.
If you can only reach him in IM, tell him you NEED to talk on the phone (more private) and talk to him about it. make sure he knows why you came here (america) and tell him how YOU feel ('cuz it sounds like YOU have feelings for HIM too).
Good luck.
~WolfMage
2007-02-04 01:15:33 · answer #1 · answered by WolfMage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, your story is confusing. it is hard for a female to remain friends with a male who has a girlfriend. if he has a girlfriend then he has no time for your drama. he does not need confusion in his life. that is why he won't answer your calls or e-mails. for you there is no need for goodbyes. why should you feel sad? he is doing you a favor by not continuing this game with you.the best thing for you is to move on with your life. get out of drama and love yourself. one day the one for you will come into your life and you will know that it is right because there will be no more drama. hope i helped with my answer. take care!!!!!
2007-02-04 09:16:07 · answer #2 · answered by susta1951 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he has some anger issues, he may be hurting that your leaving & this is the only way he can handle it right now.
Just give him time, he may contact you soon.
2007-02-04 08:58:40 · answer #3 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋