Singles & Dating - 28 January 2007

I'm not used to this after being married for 7 years to someone who never had a single female friend. He is a very confident (or should I say arrogant) man and admits that most women find him attractive and that there is often sexual tension between him and these "friends" of his. He says he can control himself when alone with them. I ask why does he ever need to be alone with them at all. I have given up several male friends for him because I knew there was flirting going on. But he refuses to do the same in kind. A few of these women are ex's and one of them is a stalker. But he still gives in to them. Do I make ultimatums or just get over it?

2007-01-28 16:17:29 · 13 answers · asked by paddington_ck 4

Ok this guy and me from work are in a weird situation...we have had two what i consider dates(first one he made me lunch at his apartment, and second was a dinner and a movie), and im starting to like him. when we work the same shift he will always walk me out to my car at the end of the night. but he has never really done any moves like hold my hand or try to kiss me or anything. so that makes me think he might just see me as a friend and that we are just hangin out not going on dates. but like today we were really slow at work and i talked to him for 2 hours..the two hours that we worked together before he left. and then i know that he doesn't work tomorrow and i don't either. so my 2 questions are..are we just friends or more than..and 2 should i ask him to do something tomorrow or wait for him to ask me?

2007-01-28 16:17:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Porn stars, please don't answer to this question. In fact I would like to know if the size really matters, and if it does, what is the size that girls feel more comfortable with?

2007-01-28 16:17:15 · 7 answers · asked by reeftanksforall.com 2

Even if she is really nice, if you wasn't interested, you'd tell her to stop, wouldn't you?

2007-01-28 16:16:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Any ideas
Im sweet nice smart tall I have a good personality and 16

2007-01-28 16:14:34 · 1 answers · asked by $$$$$$$$ice man$$$$$$$$ 3

The guy I like, has a girlfriend... We are good friends, but i talk to him alot. I am starting to have feelings for this guy. He is wonderful.. but he has a girlfriend, they have been together for a year. I dont know what to do.. I know i should move on. how can i go about doing that?

2007-01-28 16:13:16 · 9 answers · asked by alohaforever16 3

I was engaged to a great, but really busy guy - I was about fourth priority. He was really awful to be around when stressed out and I fell out of love with him when he wasn't there for me when I really needed him. He now promises that he has changed and that he will do anything to get me back. He says that he's a fool and that he loves me. I've tried to move on but tend to compare other guys to him. They just don't have that "something" that he does. I loved him so much but am afraid to be neglected again. Marriage is a big deal. I don't know if I love him, but is it wrong to try - he offers me a great life, and we share a smilare vision and values. What to do!!!!?

2007-01-28 16:13:14 · 6 answers · asked by Lucy D 1

i see him look at me at times. But i have algeries and tend to blow my noise alot. Do u think he could still be attracted to me even though i have that problem. What do u think?

2007-01-28 16:11:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and this guy have been going on dates for about a month in half now and we do something every sunday like go to movies and just hang out. There have been two times were he was over until after 2am watching a movie. About 3 weeks ago i told him that i liked him and i asked him what his feelings were towards me were and he said that the time we spend together has been very enjoyable. That was like 3 weeks ago. I want to bring something up as far being a couple or a relationship or whatever. Should I? and if so what should i say? please help me

2007-01-28 16:11:11 · 6 answers · asked by Jalana 4

This one guy and me used to be good friends then we really liked eachother and he gave me a necklace and he told me it was because I was very special to him. Later we both liked eachother and told eachother. Then he just stops talking to me and is talking to this one girl, I gave him the necklace back. Then he starts talking to me again. The he stops again. I haven't talked to him since may 2006. Then last sunday he comes over to me and he's like, hey haven't talked to you in a while. I really don't like him anymore, I'll be his friend, but I don't care for him in any other way. But he still likes me. What's up with that?

2007-01-28 16:10:25 · 5 answers · asked by Fallon K 1

ok this is really weird and ironic but my boyfriend comes from a religious family but I guess having sex is the one thing he strays with. anyways, he always says when we are away (long distance relationship) that he wants to try this or that or cant wait to do this or that but then when we see each other it's like he gets all shy. why would he even say this? also, I love the whole handcuffs idea and he says thats the one thing he wouldnt do because he likes to have control and wouldn't like being restrained. I told him that was the whole point of it and it really sounds like he doesn't trust me with his body but he says it just sounds stupid..I dunno I'm just confused

2007-01-28 16:10:08 · 11 answers · asked by Sarah 4

My ex said she loved me so much she would die for me. I wasn't sure if she was sincere, so I pretended to trip in front of a bus while we were crossing the street. She pushed me out of the way--I could have made it myself--then was struck and killed.

Was that wrong of me?

2007-01-28 16:10:00 · 4 answers · asked by Skinny Minnie 1

2007-01-28 16:09:15 · 11 answers · asked by patchesbychance 1

meaning if she's playing mind games or trying to test me?

2007-01-28 16:07:53 · 6 answers · asked by sweetnstubbornsensitive 3

2007-01-28 16:06:17 · 8 answers · asked by midnight_star_chaser 3

girls have said i look good but im nervous to talk to a girl i see that good in the streets that i dont know i want to get to know and talk to her and i dont have any game i need advice on what to say and do

2007-01-28 16:06:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

what is it and why is it better than normal?

2007-01-28 16:05:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-28 16:03:07 · 8 answers · asked by Lilly 2

2007-01-28 16:02:55 · 12 answers · asked by Ariana 2

Let's say if a really nice girl that you like and had many things in common with you, flirted often, would you tell her to stop, lead her on, or flirt with future intentions (date when shes 18 and done school.)?

2007-01-28 16:02:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I work 30 hours a week and am in school 25 hours a week, ( I am about 8 years older than everybody on campus and about 15 years younger than everybody at work) My friends are all married and I'm having trouble meeting a woman for a relationship. I've always felt that online dating was a chickens way of doing it, I guess I'm wondering if I do it is there any chance of meeting normal people? Thanx

2007-01-28 16:02:19 · 14 answers · asked by maggist97 3

I always here people talking about women's bodies like objects. People ask "which is better? Skinny, curvy, thick, thin, big breasts, small breasts, etc, etc etc. Then people reply "skinny is best. or curvy is best. or this is better etc." its just as bad to promote only curvy and voluptuous as best as it is to promote skinny as best. Don't befriend and create relationships with people based on their body shape or appearance. that is stupid, materialistic and pointless. Love others out of a genuine concern for them regardless of shape, size or background.

2007-01-28 16:01:07 · 1 answers · asked by fuzzie 1

anemic?

2007-01-28 15:59:59 · 6 answers · asked by amanda 1

id really like a nice slap in the face..but since you're arms prolly wont reach...a nice middle finger will do....


i do not have problems!

2007-01-28 15:59:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

All my close friends and my pyschologist say that he is no good for me. I even know he is no good. Im always trying to get him to explain his actions and I actually think it makes him mad and less attracted to me, but its the only way for me to be semi satisfied.

tonight we were supposed to talk it out he said 8 oclock was good. I knew somethign was going to come up so I dint have my heart set on it, but as usual when i went to meet up with him he had friends over.

obviously he dint want to have the talk, he dint even call me to cancel. should i call him on it or let it go.

2007-01-28 15:58:10 · 15 answers · asked by Tian 3

My boyfriend gave me the wrong phone number and we were suppose to go on a date Saturday and I go back to school tomorrow and I'm really worried. So I mean wouldn't you be mad if you planned a date and then it got canceled 'cause your significant other never got back in touch with you? His parents only speak Spanish and this whole time I thought I had the right number 'cause everytime I called I always got a Spanish guy thinking it was his dad,but his dad is in Mexico right now so when I called today I new the man wasn't his dad so I must have the wrong number. I can't stand the thought of us breaking up all the other guys I've dated in the past were jerks, cheaters or were just desperate for a girl friend. I know this probably won't be the last guy I date,but I can't stand the thought of losing him right now. We've been dating since January 4th and I know that might not seem that long 'cause my longest relationship ever was a year,but there's just something about this guy.

2007-01-28 15:56:05 · 2 answers · asked by Blue eyed girl 2

What exactly do guys like in girls?

2007-01-28 15:54:57 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are they insensitive or they just pretends. We share everything to them but why they don't ( mostly problems).
Please comment ......

2007-01-28 15:54:40 · 8 answers · asked by @rrsu 4

My boyfriend and I been having sex a lot, and he's on asking for more and more> i have to say no at times. I think he understands but tries again later on the same hour. Im scared that he'll get too turned on to stop. I even asked him "if i told you to stop, would you" he said no because he'll be too turned on. Im scared to have sex with him now, Guys, what would make you stop. What should i do?

2007-01-28 15:53:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is the guy and he does think of me on the holidays and always responds to my calls and text messages. He does seem happy to hear from me. Well anyway he was suppose to come over to my house this weekend for some cookies I baked him, that he said he would like if I made, but he never showed up. Sometimes I feel maybe he doesn't like me, but why would he always answer my calls and text messages, but he didn't show up this weekend. What should I think?

2007-01-28 15:51:26 · 7 answers · asked by christginy 1