All my close friends and my pyschologist say that he is no good for me. I even know he is no good. Im always trying to get him to explain his actions and I actually think it makes him mad and less attracted to me, but its the only way for me to be semi satisfied.
tonight we were supposed to talk it out he said 8 oclock was good. I knew somethign was going to come up so I dint have my heart set on it, but as usual when i went to meet up with him he had friends over.
obviously he dint want to have the talk, he dint even call me to cancel. should i call him on it or let it go.
2007-01-28 15:58:10 · 15 answers · asked by Tian 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok I would say let him go. But what difference is that going to make when after you have all the evidence you need to make that decision for yourself you are asking someone else to validate it.
2007-01-28 16:07:45 · answer #1 · answered by Christopher B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is not the answer you want to here but: let him go. The simple fact that you are asking this question shows that you know the right answer... Breaking up is terrible, especially when the relationship was at one point good and you just can't figure why you can't make it that way again, but the sad reality is that things change and people change. Good luck and even though its hard to think about: when you're in a relationship with somebody who loves you as much as you love them, you'll thank yourself for getting out of this one...
2007-01-29 00:05:03 · answer #2 · answered by lilmisshelpful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you need to let him go-you are too emotionally dependent on him-i know this cause i was in the exact situation-u let him get away with almost anything altho it hurts you and makes you mad-you hold it in cause you dont want to make him mad so you try to "talk it out"-its not gonna work-he knows he has you where he wants you and he knows what the consequences are for his actions..nothing-i had to learn to love myself and so do you-quit putting him before yourself-compromise is a beautiful thing but when you are allowing everyone else be happy and giving up yours something is wrong-hes not gonna change so first you have to say it and move on--its hard trust me but you can do it-if i can do it after a 12yr relationship you can do it too-good luck!
2007-01-29 00:04:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds alot like my ex. in his opinion he never did anything wrong. even though everyone told me he was no good i still stuck around...even when he said it was over. he'd still come down and see me...next thing i know he has been seeing someone for 2 months...yet didn't tell me until after the fact.
my point is whether you think so or not...if everyone around you is saying that he's no good chances are he is and you just need to accept it...as hard as it may seem. he's not worth your time.
best of luck to you.
2007-01-29 00:13:08 · answer #4 · answered by smilingchild.heartscoconuts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should forget about him. You say that you know hes not good for you, so why do that to yourself? He seems complicated and the whole relationship seems complicated. You need to start fresh with someone else, you will be surprised to see how easy and better a relationship could be.
2007-01-29 00:02:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same sort of problem. it's really hard to let go. but just take a few days off from him after every date you have. after you see him either wait a week to call again, or if he calls say your busy. try to keep extending the time you go without him. i think your just used to him and afraid to lose him, after a while you'll see that your fine without him.
2007-01-29 00:08:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve better...yes, you do. I think you are after thought for him or a footnote. Let him go and get someone who will listen to you and hug you on occasion, This guy is a loser and you don't want to be part of a losing situation.
2007-01-29 00:03:52 · answer #7 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like such a jerk, if you are still stuck on him then random people on yahoo or even people you dont know arent going to convince you to leave him if you dont want to. maybe go on a break or just ignore him for a few days straight and since he is so used to you "annoying" him or asking to talk he will be caught off guard and maybe realize that he really likes you
2007-01-29 00:02:31 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer - just let him go. I don't think he's all that good for you, and it sounds as if he's irresponsible, or possibly subtly trying to call it off on your relaionship with him. Good luck.
2007-01-29 00:01:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him. Why should you settle? There are plenty of fish in the sea.
2007-01-29 00:02:27 · answer #10 · answered by sk33t3r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋