What exactly do guys like in girls?
2007-01-28 15:54:57 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
like im kinda short for my age and a lot of guys joke around and i have pretty much a oerfect body according to alot of ppl and im pretty muscular but i get called anorexic, why is that? and whut do u guys like in a girl?
2007-01-28 15:59:31 · update #1
Undefineable. The 'average' guy likes a hot body.
My personal 'taste' is a girl with a shy, sweet disposition, but strong as well. Modest. Honest. A girl who would rather stay at home and cuddle and maybe hit a concert every now and then, than go out to a bar or club at all. In fact I would rather have a gamer girl than a socialite any day. A girl with a comfy or unique style, such as baggy pants and a sweatshirt, dyed hair of various colors, piercings and tattoos if done right, goth girls are cute ... as far as physical features ... cute face (big eyes and lips are a plus), short and a soft body, ... I don't care for the six-pack abs nor seeing ribs.
But, every guy is different.
If you are true to yourself, then when someone likes who that is, then you have found someone worth it. Looks shouldn't matter too much. Personality is what makes a person attractive or repulsive.
2007-01-28 16:14:24 · answer #1 · answered by just another guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its funny, a few weeks ago I asked what girls like in guys and somebody actually reported the question for abuse. I don't think its abusive at all. As a guy I would seriously like to know what girls like about guys. I hope that doesn't get reported.
For personality I like a girl who is not uptight, not trying to impress me or anybody else, just an easy going self confident girl with a sense of humor. Gentle. Kind. Nice to animals. If she has a cat or a dog and treats it well that says a ton to me about her being a genuine nice person. I guess I respect that most of all. Intelligence is good. A sense of fun, likes to do fun things, thats good. Comfortable, easy to be around. Watch a movie over a bowl of popcorn is as good as an expensive restaurant, that kind of thing.
Looks...I am shallow. I like pretty girls. Don't have to be glamorous. Nice hair, nice figure, nice clothes but not super expensive high fashion and they don't need to be all super sexy either. I like blond hair, long blond hair. Medium height, slim to medium build. Athletic is a plus.
Please don't report this, I don't think its abusive but that question I asked got reported so people do get offended at stuff that seems innocent enough to me.
2007-01-29 00:04:02 · answer #2 · answered by jxt299 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shallow guys-aesthetics: pretty hair, pretty face, pretty makeup, pretty clothes, fun, easy-will have sex within a few months
Deep guys- still want a girl who is attractive but are care less about many of those other things. They want someone with a personality that mirrors theirs, someone they feel comfortable talking to, someone who is respectful, respectable, and expects her man to a be respectful. A positive attitude is one of my most important factors. If the woman is negative, I could care less about everything else. Also an attitude of gratitude is important. I'd like to know that the woman is thankful for everything I do for her. The most important factor however is personal chemistry. If you feel comfortable around the person and enjoy their company and like them pretty well, that is a sign for a good relationship.
2007-01-29 00:04:27 · answer #3 · answered by markbigmanabell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A great attitude. Very cheerful and of course playful, especially when the time is right! An awesome body is also a really great feature to have. One that has her head on her shoulders and really going places. Also, they have to have long hair. How do I know all this because all that I have described is sitting at home with me right now.
2007-01-29 00:00:51 · answer #4 · answered by Living the Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone they think is hot and has a matching sex drive. Has her own money and her own friends. Doesn't nag and doesn't take everyone else's opinion over theirs. Likes to cook, doesn't bug you about cleaning. Having similar goals is important.
guys just generally want a close friend to share down time with, have sex and not be bugged the rest of the time.
2007-01-29 00:19:39 · answer #5 · answered by Nonny D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty. I don't care too much in the outside beauty since that's something it will end someday any ways. I care for how the girl is inside, that's the beauty I look for, perhaps the most important indeed.
2007-01-29 00:00:40 · answer #6 · answered by Javy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends! Each guy likes a girl in different ways for there personality. I know for one thing it is the best thing to act yourself around the guy you are dating especially on your first date.
2007-01-28 23:57:53 · answer #7 · answered by travel4christ1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A girl who is not shy not super twig like with some curves and has a good personality
2007-01-28 23:57:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy and where he's coming from...
typically... guys who are sincere, and want more than just sex would be interested in personality, smiles, hair, your beautiful scent etc.
Shallow guys or guys with only one thing on their mind...you know what they like!
2007-01-28 23:59:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
my guy friends love a girl whos funny and not so uptight like those preppy annoying girls...and one who can always be there for him when times get hard just sumone to tlak to basiclly
2007-01-28 23:58:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋