2 questions in one?

Question

Ok this guy and me from work are in a weird situation...we have had two what i consider dates(first one he made me lunch at his apartment, and second was a dinner and a movie), and im starting to like him. when we work the same shift he will always walk me out to my car at the end of the night. but he has never really done any moves like hold my hand or try to kiss me or anything. so that makes me think he might just see me as a friend and that we are just hangin out not going on dates. but like today we were really slow at work and i talked to him for 2 hours..the two hours that we worked together before he left. and then i know that he doesn't work tomorrow and i don't either. so my 2 questions are..are we just friends or more than..and 2 should i ask him to do something tomorrow or wait for him to ask me?

Answer 1

Well, remember one thing that guys r shy n a bit hesitant to open up n disclose their feelings.
Another thing is that a girl shud never make the first move, instead support or encourage the guy to make the move by giving him signs that she does have feelings for him, this doesnt mean that u make it obvious but give him some signal from time to time, once he's sure that u too have some feeling for him then he surely would open up... It will work but u shudnt make the move let him do it, n if he really loves u, u just add fuel to the fire, he shall soon realise it is high time he let his emotions flow out...All the best. God bless

Answer 2

some guys don't read signs well, and don't care for girls who play games.

I believe he has a thing for you. Take it slow and let it work itself out. I would start out like he is, but the next step is the most awkward to take ... he may be thinking the exact same thing you are.

I have never had a problem with a girl making the first move, as long as she wasn't overly aggressive or sexual. If she grabbed my hand, or kissed me on the cheek, I would blush and get the hint.

Verbal cues would go over my head because I would prevent myself from assuming anything and screwing up a future chance. I have only gone after 2 or 3, the rest have came after me. There is nothing wrong with it, we should have gotten past gender issues like who should make the first move, etc. It is silly.

As long as your personalities and modesty levels match, it is what is important.

Answer 3

are we just friends or more than?
seems lke more than if ur able to have such a nice time with him, dating doesnt have to be all hands and kissing, friendly dates are fine too, its just slower than normal which is nothing bad, if hes slow then just slow down with him, walk his pace but if it starts to become a problem with u and u want to get things going, then just have a talk with him, it seems lke u have a strong communication bonded

should i ask him to do something tomorrow or wait for him to ask me?
since he asked u twice i think u shud ask him back atleast once to even things out, i dont see any problems with that, if ur eger to know the answer to ur first one then just have a talk with him about it, ask if hes ok if you two are more than just friends, unless words is not ur type or it does come out, be spontaneous, grap his hand when your having a stoll in a mall or something, if hes the sweet and kind man that i think he is then he would like that, i noe i would

Answer 4

I think that he just doesn't know if you'll be interested. Maybe he don't want to get involved with a co-worker, god forbid it don't work out, it would be an ugly situation. Either way I think he's just being careful and taking his time.

Answer 5

dont overanalyse --- yes if you would like to go out call him and see if he wants to --- i suspect he will ---- let the relationship mature without adding labels --- you are both enjoying yourselves so keep enjoying --- best wishes