The guy I like, has a girlfriend... We are good friends, but i talk to him alot. I am starting to have feelings for this guy. He is wonderful.. but he has a girlfriend, they have been together for a year. I dont know what to do.. I know i should move on. how can i go about doing that?
2007-01-28 16:13:16 · 9 answers · asked by alohaforever16 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make yourself go out with somebody you don't like, probably named Eugene. He will talk about things like computers and chemistry and you'll hate yourself.
2007-01-28 16:18:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off right now, and I'd suggest kill your feelings somehow. Take some time off from him. When u feel u can return as a friend, then u can be his friend. Please dont put urself in a situation like this. U will be deeply hurt. I know coz I have been there. That guy I loved and the girl he was seeing...they are married now. Not only will u get hurt, but u dont want to spoil their relationship that they have built too. So be graceful, and do the right thing. Believe me, it hurts a lot to pine for someone who is with someone else. Get out now. Get involved in other areas of your life. Meet other guys.
2007-01-29 00:30:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend has a girlfriend! If he had the same feelings for you he would be with you. I was once in a simular situation, I read a book called he is really not into you, one of the best books i have ever read! I would suggest any women who wonders if a guy likes her or not read it! It is a real eye opener!
2007-01-29 00:23:24 · answer #3 · answered by gemini girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, moving on isn't the right thought. RUN is. You will only get hurt if you allow your feelings to grow for him. He is happy where he is so you must go the other way. Otherwise you will be not much appreciated for getting between a couple. And when he does find out you have feelings for him, he will use you and still stay or go back to his current girlfriend.
2007-01-29 00:21:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on,it's not right that you have feelings for him knowing that he has a gf but it's o.k that's what makes us human.Just move on if you like you can tell him that you know if you was'nt with her I would love to have a chance,that way if they ever seperate you can have a shot at the title.But if you are close with her I would'nt do it.Sometimes when you just remain friends your friendship will last alot longer than if you become involved with that person.
2007-01-29 00:18:01 · answer #5 · answered by dccuttie75 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start going out with friends and meeting new people. not like to hook up or anything...but you know just to be outgoing and have plenty of fun! always remember that there are plenty of fish in the sea! good luck!!
2007-01-29 00:20:48 · answer #6 · answered by Suze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they seem happy together just leave them be. Get yourself a guy of your own. I'm sure you can accomplish that.
2007-01-29 00:16:09 · answer #7 · answered by **brainy licious**J;-D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd do something that fufills you. Play music, draw, get involved with something. Plus, when you're doing something you love, people will be drawn to you
2007-01-29 00:18:05 · answer #8 · answered by King Ebeneezer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell him how i feel.. see how he reacts and that will give you motive to move on.. or be save ignore your feelings and don't hang out with him as much.. meet some new friends
2007-01-29 00:17:39 · answer #9 · answered by Betsy B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋