Singles & Dating - 25 January 2007

I have asked 3 questions like this all with scattered info. I'm putting it all in here. Here goes...

I asked this before and I got 21 positive answers. I can't believe it because good things don't really happen to me all that much or evere actually. Here is the story...He is always staring at me aimlessly and picks me first for everything. We never really liked eachother as friends. I seriously liked him in 5th grade. But that is it. He is my neighbor and he is always outside when I am. I am a cheerleader and he is a basketball player. I wonder what wil happen next? What should I do? What is going on? I really like him as well! I am too afraid to do anything and I am not allowed to date until I am older. I know that it is a lot, but your help is greatly appreciated.

Also, he is on the top of the food chain I am on the bottom. The only reason that I am a cheerleader is because my friend dared me to do it.

Hold on there is more to come. I just ran out of space.

2007-01-25 10:01:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

how do i get the guys in my grade to like me?, the yall like guys who are skinny, which im not, and im not fat either, and they also like pretty girls, which apparently im not!, please help me!!!!!!!

2007-01-25 10:01:19 · 12 answers · asked by Maddz 2

he dumped me a month or two ago and we got back together. this time i think it's for good. he says he was drinking and dipping behind my back, when i told him i didn't like it. he says he wants me to find a better guy for me. i asked him if it was another girl again and he said that was part of it, but "90 percent" in his words, is because of him going behind my back and me needing a better person than him. please help!!

2007-01-25 10:00:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-25 09:59:28 · 5 answers · asked by Ana L 1

a few days ago a girl who was supposed to be my friend told my bf that she still liked him. and she was going out with one of my guy friends. she said that she didn't care that she had been lying to him the entire time. and she had been trying to break us up ever since i started going out with him. but then today he broke up with me right before school through text msging. i couldn't stop crying all day. i liked him A LOT! and she started spreading rumors that they were gonna hang out this weekend. so i asked him. he said that they were. im completely shattered. how do i get over him??

2007-01-25 09:59:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-25 09:58:54 · 2 answers · asked by SONU 1

I am a female that has a male friend that I have known for the last 10 years. We use to go bar-hopping together and he always talked to me about women he liked. We have lost touch over the last few years and he has recently come back into my life, with some shocking news. He married his male friend to prevent him from being deported. I have seen the wedding photos and both of the 'grooms' had their female girlfriends at the wedding as witnesses. The question I have is, would a completely straight man do this for a friend? Or are we all just really naive?

2007-01-25 09:57:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I hate it. I'm 16 years old and perverted men are always staring at me and asking for my number. I tell them that I'm 16 everytime but some of them still ask me out anyway. It hate it. My mom says its because of my beauty and many men don't think a teen girl is very well developed like me. I feel lonely becasue the guys at school don't seem to notice me. i want someone my own age.

2007-01-25 09:56:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met my ex 2 and a half years ago, and weve been dating long distance since we met, on and off. We usually break up because of something he did, and me being insecure from all the girls i found out he was talking to. To this day, he sticks to his word and says he never cheated on me, and he just did it to fill a void. He was also using drugs, and every alley of his life was crumbling, yet I stood by him. I had enough when I read humiliating emails and I broke up with him and didnt speak to him for 3 months straight. Lately Ive been thinking about him, even though I hve dated guys since then. I loved him so much, it was sick and I miss the feeling of love, although I dont think it could feel the same after this happend. He wants to know if I want to try it again, but I dont trust him. He also said he cant be my friend, its too painful, saying the only way he can have me, is as his lady. What do I do. I want the old feeling back, but NEVER want him to hurt me again. Ladies help me out.

2007-01-25 09:55:35 · 8 answers · asked by Brown Beauty 3

alright check it,.
I just turned 18 today I got a good lookin black suit for my birthday, I like to look stylish, alright Since I turned 18 which its only been one day these girls in their 20s having literally been coming up to me and just talking t these girls reach as high as 28, like their was this chick at my work i was drinking sum juice, I was just standing their soon as she found out it was my 8th birthday she starts talking to me n playing wit her hair. this other chick sitting dwn was just eying me, question is was I always this attractive to the ladies they just chose not to intervene becvause of the uncertainty, i swear all the lqdies who found out it was my 18th birthday today came and just flirted. playe wit their hair all tht none said happy b day they just started talkin so whats up wit this it made me feel pretty good.

2007-01-25 09:54:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

of a girl that is not learning from her mistakes..always giving another chance to people who hurt her ..and they don't appreciate that..is she stupid...do people who hurt us need to have a second chance or not?

2007-01-25 09:53:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi all. I am currently in a heartbreaking situation. Here is the deal: About a year and a half ago I met my first love in college. For a year we were together. She was the best thing to ever happen to me. She loved me more than anything on the planet, however I became unsure. I was with her and all my friends were single and in college. I became uncertain, and she let me go(she really loved me). She basically said that I needed to experience other things, and she would wait. Well time went on (broke up 7 months ago), and she finally met some other dude (she said she couldnt wait forever). The thing is, I realize I want her back (and no it is not because of the new guy). I believe she still loves me very much, more than her new guy. Actually she said she doesnt even love him yet(they have been together like 2 months). My question is: will she foget about me? Or will she always remember the love she felt towards me? Thanks for any help.

2007-01-25 09:53:27 · 7 answers · asked by michael b 1

2007-01-25 09:53:25 · 7 answers · asked by xoxbabexoxox 2

2007-01-25 09:53:18 · 30 answers · asked by Peter 1

theres this i like and well i decided to talk to him so he gave me his AIM so we can talk online it was all going very well and i felt good about us talking and getting to know eachother he asked me about myself and i asked him what he likes to do for fun then he started asking me about my love life and if i was interested in anyone at school and i said yeah maybe and hes like do i know him im like i dont know maybe and so the talk was going pretty damn well i was really liking him but then he started asking me how far i have been with a guy and about my last bf and if ive ever had sex i felt kind of confused because he didnt seem like the type of guy to ask those questions so i asked him if he has had sex and he said no so i was like ok good good...so i got the courage to ask him to formal in a message but he never answered it what does this mean he opens doors for me at school and smile as if everythings ok i havnt talked to him since and everytime hes online i feel like crying

2007-01-25 09:52:55 · 1 answers · asked by gigi 3

well, this girl and I both like the same guy, who do u think is gnna win?

-i am 5' 3" and 130lb, she is 5'7" and 120lb
-i have long cury brown hair, she has mid length straight blonde hair
-she is hot and sexy, i am cool and fiendly
-she is american, i am not ( we are in america)
-i am a PhD student, she hasnt gone to university
-i am chemistr teacher, she works in a bar
-I am one year older than the gu, she is 2 years younger
-i am too much worried(is he ok? is he hungry? is he tired? is he cold?..., she has a free mind
-we both love the guy!

please be honest, do i have any chance?!

2007-01-25 09:52:43 · 15 answers · asked by alwayss_ready 3

We're both 17. We both go to the same school. She hangs with my group of friends, but she's one of those flirting types. She's assured me that she loves me and only me. I know she's not serious when she flirts, but it still bothers me to see it. She says that it's "plutonic love". No matter how many times she tells me that she only loves me, it still bothers me. I'm a shy person so I usually keep it to myself when she flirts. I don't know what I should do. I love her very, very, very much and I would do absolutely anything to make her happy.

2007-01-25 09:49:33 · 34 answers · asked by slice243 2

Okay, I have a tutor that goes to my school. Most of the days she tutor's me. I really like her and I am pretty shy. I was wondering what should I do to see if she likes me?

And what tips do you give me?

Any help at all would be great!

2007-01-25 09:49:23 · 6 answers · asked by dhs14211 1

I have this new coworker for the last three months, I asked her twice to go out with me, she refussed,
I AM in LOVE with her.. but why she dos not like me?
. What can I do , so she can go on a date with me..
I cannot live with her?,

2007-01-25 09:48:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

OKay, so I like this boys Jake. He told Mark he wasnt interested in me. But he tol my friends mel and anna that he totally likes me. I have no idea what to do. He says to me he likes me alot. But he doesnt ask me out. He also says he cares about me a lot. UGH. What should I do?

2007-01-25 09:46:28 · 19 answers · asked by cheaa boy 1

treat a girl with respect the way women should be treated only for them to walk all over you

2007-01-25 09:46:17 · 33 answers · asked by wahey 2

Well, I started having sex when I was about 13 or 14 and I lost it to the wrong person who used me for sex and he was a much older guy he was about 21.

2007-01-25 09:45:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just wondering if women like shaven legs and nuts on a man my wife think its hott

2007-01-25 09:44:38 · 15 answers · asked by manandy55 1

2007-01-25 09:42:24 · 16 answers · asked by muwat616 2

if a guy is using you for sex will he actually lay with you and talk to you and be able to hang out by just talking or at least talking for a long time and then having sex, and will he hold you, and hold your hand..and kiss you on the cheek and lips all the time after he has already gotten what he wants?

2007-01-25 09:41:05 · 20 answers · asked by jennifer a 1

I have heard that I only have a dependant relationship with my partner. I must admit I have a comfy situation as it is his house and I do not pay any rent here. He is not into sex so we have. so to speak, lived more like housemates than a couple. I have also dated a friend of mine in Sweden, whom I have known for 5 years and had a fling with. Last time I went to Sweden, in Dec, I stayed a week with my Swedish friend and we talked about getting serious.. By the end of that week, I came back home to the UK as if I had woken up from a nightmare. Exs:
My friend in Sweden worked shifts and would wake me up in the middle of the night as he had to leave for work. He just couldn't be silent
He had a horrible bad breath, possibly because he was working long hrs and felt exhauted. I do not know why. Only my assumption
He was just too attached to his 4 children aged 30, 23, 21 and 14 and just showed interest for his work. (So I realized there was a bit of too much baggage for me

2007-01-25 09:41:03 · 8 answers · asked by ladysorrow 7

Well, I've been flirting with this girl in my class for the past month or so, and we are both extremely interested in each other. The problem is, I'm a very shy guy so I was waiting until the next to last day to get her screen name and phone number (but not ask her out right away). Unfortunately, it snowed on that day, and though we went to school, the buses at her school couldn't take her to mine (she visits for 2 classes a day). Then on the last day she couldn't come because of a scheduling conflict between our schools. She's not going to be here this semester, and I might never see her again.

However, I did remember her giving her phone number to someone else during class, and I wrote it down. My question is, would it come off as too creepy if I were to call her, even if it was just for her screen name (and talk for a little bit)? Also, like I said, I'm very shy, so any ideas on what exactly to say would be greatly appreciated.

2007-01-25 09:41:00 · 10 answers · asked by James D 1

Hes like you know, like that and if he is like that should I treat him like this or should I treat him like that??

2007-01-25 09:40:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

He feel in love with me so he said and for two months we were with each other every chance we got. Now its like he doesnt want anything to do with me. I knew he was married and I never told him how I felt. She cheated on him twice and he lives in pain. I guess my question is. Was I his outlet? He calls me his best friend but we have done stuff that added more to that. Now I'm hurt and he's never going to leave his wife. Do I stay or go? I was his outlet he doesnt even talk to me like he used to.

2007-01-25 09:40:43 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2

she loves fighting with me by the way i'm paki

2007-01-25 09:39:59 · 6 answers · asked by zona 1